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Does she still love me?...
I am 16/m/uk..
Me and my girlfriend have been gong out for around 15 months now..
Recently, things seem different on her behalf.. As in things have suddenly beomce different between us.. I know this might be strange but sometimes i like to be made feel special.. Throughout most of our relationship we've sort of had an issue with that n some of the time ive felt like ive put in more effort than her..
Recently she started hanging around with a group of guys which i dont pertiularly like but i respect the fact that they are friends and so i do not try and create a wedge between them..
We also like quite far apart.. and this can make it difficult at times to see eachother.. This means when she does go out (which is almost eveyday) it is with these guys..
I think some of this may be jelousy that she spends alot more time with them than she does me..
Its hard to explain really what i feel but just something inside tells me she doesnt feel like she used to.. Maybe its cos she is not showing me that she loves me enough.. i honestly dont know..
Recently she does things like not reply to my txts straight away because she is around these guys.. Whenever we are on the phone all she seems to tell me about is what she did with them that day and it bugs me..
I wanna find sum mutual ground but i dont know how..
I guess i just want her to make me feel special at times.. i just dont know how to go about doing it..
Appreciate any help
Thanks
Sanj..
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Well firstly, it seems as if she DOES still love you, and even if she don't show it, she still does. She might just be hanging around with all gthe guys because they are her close friends. Would you like it if she stopped you hanging around with some of your closest friends?
Things might be diffrent on both your behalfs, and NOT just hers.
Its not really her fault that she lives far away, that was just 1 of the things that you had to get past, which you must have obviously, if you'd been going out for over 15 months.
If you dont want to hear about all of her friends, dont ask her about her day, because if you know it consists of them, you know she's goin to talk about them.
And at the end of the day, Rumours are just that, RUMOURS, and its up to you if you really want to believe the people who say them, no1 can stop you from the way your feeling, but them also maybe sometimes, you have to TRUST your other half, and maybe that way things would be alot smoother between the two of you.
Hope i helped.. AGEN..
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First off, you sound like a really great boyfriend, and I'm sorry you feel this way. Some of this most likely is coming from jealousy, other guys get to spend more time with your girfriend then you. You have a right to be a little bit jealous, but don't let jealousy and insecurity and your feelings for her cloud your judgment.
It really sounds as if your girlfriend isn't trying to make an effort for your relationship at all. It's sounds like you're growing apart and maybe it's time to just let your girlfriend go. Her behavior indicates that maybe she is cheating on you. Her friends are all guys, she doesn't stop talking about them, it seems like she's losing interest in fixing your relationship. I honestly think you deserve better.
The best advice I can give you is fllow your instincts and follow your heart. You know something isn't right.
::Jasmine::
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awww...you seam like a really nice guy...and you deserve a girlfriend who's way better than that! My advice to you is to dump her because it's not good for you to be with someone that doesn't give you the attention that you deserve! It seams like she's trying to tell you that she wants to break up with you, but she doesn't know how..so she's just hangin' out with those guys, hoping that you'll take the hint...I'm really sorry that she's like that, but if you really care about her, you should try talking to her. So than you can sort all this out...I hope my advice helped!
*Good Luck*:)
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Hello !
To be honest i actually think you are a good boyfriend,no affence or anythingbut your girlfriend does sound like a real bitchh sorry to say if she was your girlfriend theres no point in telling you she has feelings for someone else shes ment to love you and only you seeing you are her boyfriend talk to her.
Ask her if she still loves you ?
Why shes always spending more time with them then you ?
And just tell her that you lover her so much but her talking about all these guys and spending time with them makes you feel as if she dosnt love anymore
Just question her.
Sorry if this didnt help but it was all i could think of
MuchLOVE !
xoxo
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