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not invited
I had a party a couple of weeks ago and i invited a girl named Hailey.
Well her birthday was last week. One of my friends asked "are you invited to hailey's party?"
i told her that i wasnt.
well it turns out that her party was 3 days ago and she didnt invite me.
I am sooo mad at her because i invited her to mine and everything.
UGHH. what do i do?
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Try not to take it too personally. Maybe she could only invite a certain number of people, so she only invited the people she was closest with? She may have even felt guilty about not being able to invite you. I know I've had that problem before. In fact, this year I didn't even have a party for that reason. If I invited everyone who had ever invited me to their party, I would've had 6 billion people there, and I couldn't do that. So I just didn't have one because I didn't want anyone to feel left out. =[
If I were you, I just wouldn't say anything. It will only cause hard feelings. Unless you think she's mad at you for some reason... then you could ask her if something is wrong. But don't bring the party into it. Because you never know... she might have wanted to invite you but just couldn't.
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How long have you known her for? If this is a new friendship she may have invited all these people before hand and may have been limited in the amount of people she could invite.
She may also have thought you might clash with some of the others there. The next time you see her wish her a happy belated birthday and ask how the party went. Let her know you wish you were there.
This allows her to tell you her side of the story without a huge blow up. If you aren't satisfied with what she tells you all you need to do is walk away and remember not to invite her to any gathering you are having or associate with her period if you like.
This is the right way and the classy way to handle this issue. You need to hear things from her before you start thinking it was intentional and deliberate.
It might just be an oversight or the fact she thought you wouldn't get along wit some of her guests or that her parents limited the amount of people there and she already invited too many people. You never know until you go to the source.
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dont worry tell her whats wrong she might have a reason why she didnt or mabye she couldnt :) cheer up
Love ♥,
Cara ♥
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What a BITCH !
Sorry about the language
Goshh !
Askk her why didnt you invite me and i invited you ?
And if she gives a lame excuse just say
Some friend you turned out to be and then she will be telling you how sorry she is trust me.
MuchLOVE!
xoxox
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