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falling for best friend
uhh i think im falling for my best friend again and im scared. i dont want to like him in this way because we are such great friends and i dont want either of us to get hurt. [i got hurt so much the last time i liked him] hes in school and we dont go to the same one anymore but i still see him occasionally and we talk daily. i love the guy to death and if anyone did anything to hurt him id kick their ass. ok well hes bi, he told me, which im totally cool with. but like i dont know i think that im falling for him and i havent seen him in over a month but i will thursday and im so scared that i like him. he has a tendecy of flirting with me in particular so i can never tell if he likes me. hes always told me that he only likes me as a friend but then again hes never seen me in a bathing suit lol. i need help. please someone help me out here. i dont know what to do and im pretty sure he doesnt like me. what could have changed in all this time?
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I acctually know how you feel, but the best thing you could ever do is talk to him and see if he feels the same way. If you dont you might never know what could of been.
Feelings change over time we really cant control it, but i really think you should give it a shot and see what happens from there.
Hope i helped =)
-Jenna-
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Yikes, this is a tough situation. But I can honestly say that I have been in your shoes. If your friend flirts and stuff all the time, it's likely that nothing has changed and that's just what it is again. But I know it's so hard not to fall for someone that you care about so much, and that you know cares about you. I think that if your friendship means that much to you and you don't want to mess it up, you should stay just friends. But, sometimes you have to take risks, you know? Just tell your best friend how you feel, and I am sure that he will understand.
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