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I'm the other women
Posted Sunday June 7 2009, 11:26 am
I work with a hot guy at work and i want to be more than friends . the only problem is that he has a girlfriend he says there not serious but i want him.
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i want a baby
Posted Wednesday June 3 2009, 9:13 pm
Im 18/f almost 19. and my boyfriend is 22/m. I dont know why but lately i've really wanted to have a baby. I've talked to my boyfriend about it and he said he wants one to just not now. Maybe like in 2 years or so he suggested. We've been together for almost a year, and are really in love. Is it normal to want a baby this bad? I'm on birth control, and my boyfriend when we have sex he cums in me. I know birth control isnt 100% effective but is it normal to sometimes secretly wish you were part of that .1% that get pregnant? I know babies are alot of responsibility and money and such. I dont need that lecture. Can somebody please just give me some advice? Thanks alot!
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i dont want it anymore
Posted Wednesday June 3 2009, 6:08 pm
Me and my boyfriend were trying for a baby. We split up and i am now going out with someone who i love very much. Problem is i think i could be pregnant with my ex's baby. I know this because i haven't slept with my current boyfriend. If i am pregnant i dont think i would want to keep the baby because i dont feel i am ready to have a child at the moment. I am still rather young. But i dont really agree to termination? So what do i do if i am pregnant?
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DSS and emancipation
Posted Tuesday June 2 2009, 7:22 pm
16/f
I have a few questions about the Department of social services and emancipation. I have a case at home where basiclly I'm being neglected by my parents. Their making me pay rent (350) monthly and I can't do laundry or shower in my own home without paying rent. They refuse to care for my needs and basiclly ignore me. I'm forced to give them half my check earnings. I'm basiclly responsible for my own self at age 16 and it shouldn't be like this. I have a place to go live at but I want to be emancipated from my parents. And I'm wondering if DSS gets involved will they allow me to pick where I live or will I be taken into foster care homes? Also there is a second minor living in this house my sister aged 8 but she isn't getting ne...
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For my boyfriend, about his stubborn, hating family.
Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:43 pm
I'm 21f, my boyfriend (James) is 23m, his brother (Andrew) is almost 22, and they live with their parents. James and I have been together for about four years, and love each other very much.
But his family hates me, and we're starting to fight because I think he could fight them more on this, and he thinks he can't. He has no job and not much money, so he can't move out.
According to him, his parents think I'm not good enough for him. That makes sense, they want the best for him. They have good intentions. But they periodically tell him that he's hurting the family by seeing me, and that's just not true.
He said, "The only way they'll stop is if I break up with you, and I really don't want to."...
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fighting with stepfather on stupid things
Posted Monday June 1 2009, 3:26 pm
hello, im a 19/f college student. my stepfather haven't seen eye to eye much lately. i ended up not doing so well in my first semester of freshman year and it made my stepdad disappointed. however, now he's accusing me of failing to spite my mother! my mother ended up arguing before i left for college, but does that make sense that i would deliberately ruin my gpa just to get back at my mother? i couldn't believe it when he said that to me. he's a very stubborn person so i was wondering how i could argue with him civilly and try and state my case. thanks in advance!
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seeking advice
Posted Monday June 1 2009, 11:27 am
Okay Try to bare with me. I am seeking advice for my Great Aunt...
Okay Remeber I told you about My couisn Brandon that pass away? whoes My aunt Patty Son? well okay thing is Brandon did had a daougher was 15 when he die. before he die. she had a fight with bradon (Her dad) Saying she hate him and stuff. and when he was dying he try to call her and she never calls back.. ok after brandon pass away she never came too the funeral or send fallowers or card you know too her grandma.. whoe my Great Aunt.. okay then like that time My aunt try too call or send a letter about her dad. and tori who is her half sister that was maybe 3 or 4 wrote her letter. never hear or hard from.. okay now pass 7 year now.. This week My Great ...
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piercing against parent wishes?
Posted Monday June 1 2009, 1:55 am
15/f.
Alright, so I've asked both of my parents numerous times about piercings. My mother is more considerate, but when talked about with my father the question brings up termoil and anger, and usually ends in some type of yelling. I've been heavily thinking about getting my nose, and/or belly button pierced, against my fathers wishes. If I do, does anyone know a good way to hide the fact I have them?
(Our family has a boat, and we go out on it frequently, so please don't suggest that I wear a shirt to cover my naval around him)
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Sleeping over and im 13 years old
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 11:51 pm
ok im a 13 year old persian guy with sometimes strict parents. my dad is okay with me sleeping over at peoples houses that we know, but my mom says its the " family rule " that we cant sleep over anywhere until i move out. I need help on how to convince my mom to let me go places. its like she cant accept the fact that im old enough to be staying at other friends houses overnight. I also have this good friend of mine who iv known for like 5 years and my mom wont let me sleepover there becuase she thinks his mom goes to sleep at 8 pm just becuase one time i was over there she did becuase she didnt go to sleep last night and went to work and was super tired. my mom also judges people before she meets them so thats another bad thin...
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MY aunt not hear from her like maybe 5 years
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 8:36 pm
Okay.. 5 years algo, My Great Aunt's Son pass away.. who had Daughter maybe 16, She mad at her dad about something and before her dad was very sick. she never called him and she say she hated him. and after he passed away she never calls or send flowers.. okay. This year week today. She send her grandma whoes my aunt. a graduaction card and a picture.. and she wrote letter too her little sister whoes brandon litle girl she was 3 when he pass but with another lady not same person he with before. anway she wrote her back when little one wrote her. thing is she not writ her grandma and not put her step grandpa name on the card.. so didn't know if she need forgive her? or is she asking for money or trying to reach out. i mean she did writ her ...
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Mother is annoying and my husband dislikes her
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 4:04 pm
My mother is so annoying and self-centered and my husband dislikes her intently. She calls our house 1-7x every day! She just moved back to our location and is a 3x widow in good shape. Holidays are hard because my husband and our 2 kids have always enjoyed being together and that is our time but now she wants to move back here and expect me to provide her happiness. She won't do anything to make friends of her own. I'm so stressed out about all of this and just need a little advice. I'm in my 50's and female. Thanks so much!
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help
Posted Sunday May 31 2009, 1:04 am
my name is Rachel and iam 16 years old and my sister is always reading my diary what should I do about it?
my email is poohbear6bbbb@yahoo.com
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Ask My Mom 4 a Thong
Posted Saturday May 30 2009, 9:20 pm
I cant talk to my mom about anything, I cant even talk to her about my period because I dont fell comfortable. She was like the perfect child when she was growing up, she never wore a thong or make up, she always goes to church and has never swore, so I dont feel comfortable asking her. I couldnt ask my dad either because he just doesnt understand, I get really embaressed when ppl can see my underwear line so will you please help me and give me some pointers on how to ask her and how to get a conversation going.
Thanks a Tons!!
P.S. I dont usually get along with my mom either
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ovulating(sp)??
Posted Saturday May 30 2009, 1:30 am
my boyfriend and i are going to try to have a baby within the next few months, and i heard that there is a certain day of ovulation(sp) that there can be a 90% chance of getting pregnant.
how can i know when that time is?
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My family is falling apart due to my selfishness
Posted Thursday May 28 2009, 9:58 pm
My husband is threatening to leave and my 9-year-old daughter is distraught because I am embarrassed about our home and our cars. We live in an affluent suburb, but we're not one of the rich families. My daughter wants to invite friends from school over, but I'm mortified about their parents seeing our home or cars.
I know these things shouldn't matter. I love my husband, but he says I'm ruining our daughter's self-esteem and disrespecting him by being embarrassed by a life he works hard to provide. What's wrong with me, and how can I get past this? I don't want to lose my family.
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babies
Posted Wednesday May 27 2009, 11:33 pm
How do I get a guy to get me praegnent? I really like this guy and I want his babys but we haven't really done anything like sexual or anything. Is there some way I can get him to have sex with me but make sure I get praegnet?
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did i really offened about wanting to return something.
Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 11:57 pm
I dont have a job yet so one time my mom and I went into the grocery store with her boyfriend and I went in to buy a nexus straightener that costed like 7 dollars. But her boyfriend paid it. So after like 1 week my aunt gave me a 20 dollar allowance so I told my mom hey I am going to give back that 6 dollars he paid. Then she thought my intent was that once again I have a problem with him. That really was not my intent at all. My view is that I just pay it back cause he bought it for me when I should have paid it myself or it was my mom mom that should have paid it. She got all mad at me and yelling at me like she was scolding me for doing something wrong. I think both of them are trying to hurt me. What was offensive to what I had said. I ...
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Should I be myself?
Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 7:51 pm
Next year, my younger sister will be joining me at high school. I am female, sixteen, from a religious family, and in the middle of the American South. The problem with my sister joining me at school is that I am an out bisexual everywhere except my home. I have a darling girlfriend at present who, though she does not attend the same school as me, is a frequent topic of conversation amongst me and my friends. My main concern is that my family and public life will mix. My mother is very religious and, though she has walked in on me with a woman (it was awkward), she has chosen to ignore it and try to set me up with her friends' sons. My father is unaware of this. What would be the best way to prevent my family finding out about who I really am?
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Running away
Posted Sunday May 24 2009, 6:06 pm
I recently posted a question about me mom, (link: http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=563722) and recently, it has gotten worse. Today, I heard her talking to my dad about driving somewhere and leaving me there. I really don't like her. And she got my sister to go on her side, has my dad like a puppet, and is working on my brother. My brother is like my best friend, and she is trying SO hard to get him on her side, but he is on my side. He thinks shes over-reacting as well. Well, yesterday we got into a fight, and I said I wouldn't talk to her, and she say Fine, it's like a blessing on me. So I said, You know what, for once your wish is my command. And I havn't spoken to her since.
I'm not going to talk to her, I hate her, and I...
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Sister problems
Posted Saturday May 23 2009, 8:57 pm
Ok so basically my sister gets everything that she wants...
Actually what happens is that evertime I finally get something I've been wanting forever, she suddenly thinks she should get it, too.
For instance, whenever I'm going out with friends or they're coming over, she always has to go out with her friends, too.
Or how I had to wait until 8th grade to wear makeup, and finally when my mom let me, my sister asked if she could wear makeup too (she's in 6th grade) and my mom said it was fine and she could use MY new makeup.
Also, she recently got grounded for a month (at least), and mom and dad STILL let her go over other people's houses, or her friend's coming over here, and go out shoppin...
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