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How do I get a guy to get me praegnent? I really like this guy and I want his babys but we haven't really done anything like sexual or anything. Is there some way I can get him to have sex with me but make sure I get praegnet?
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Well, first off, you can't just ask someone to get you pregnant besides a fertility specialists, it's just rude. Second, you must be young to ask a question like this, he may not want a baby. If he gets you pregnant he will have to pay child support, therefore, he may not want to get you pregnant. I hope you are over the age of 21, it would be scary if you were under 18. Babies are cute, but then you have to take care of them, they cost MONEY. They usually live with you until they are 18. You should go to college and get a job before wanting to get pregant.
Please follow my advice!
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Ok well first of all whether you like him or not, whether you have his baby or not, it doesnt mean that you guys are going to be together forever. Your obviously young and having a baby is really stupid especially if your not "with" this guy. And if he doesnt want a baby he wont support you and he will leave you. No one wants that responsibility at your age.
I know you probably like kids and you want someone to love you unconditionally. I understand. We've all been there but having a kid isnt the right thing to do and i promise if you have a baby you will reagret it.
Im not trying to tell you what to do, i mean that is my opinion. But if you really want to have his baby talk to him about it and maybe there is a slight chance that he wants one too. But im doubting it.
Hope i helped =]
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You're 16. You shouldn't be having sex, or wanting kids.
You can hardly spell. How are you supposed to take care of a child? Get your education first, and get a career, and get yourself good financially AND THEN worry about having children and family.
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I have to be perfectly honest with you here and you may like what I have to say but I feel it must be said.
I don't know how old you are but you seem young. Having a child is a HUGE HUGE HUGE responsibility and you seem to be talking about it as if it were a casual thing.
Having a baby will change your life forever! You will be responsible for that child 24/7 for 18 long years of your life. (minimum). And you can forget about friends and a social life when you have a kid because that all disappears.
Babies costs 10's of thousands of dollars a year to raise too. Do you have a plan for that? Do you have that kind of money? How about child care? There are a lot of things to think about before even considering this.
Does "this guy" even know that you are thinking this way? Because it's not fair to involve him into something ife-changing like this either if he doesn't want to.
This is not the kind of decision that you just make at the drop of a hat. Are there any wise adults around you that you can trust to talk to?
If you're in school, go to the school counselor. Or a church mentor, planned parenthood if you must. But please talk to someone about this to figure out why you have this baby bug.
I could be wrong but from the way your post was written you seem very young and probably unprepared to have a child at this point.
I don't mean for that to hurt your feelings, but you need to know just how serious this is and take your time with a decision like this.
If you want someone to love and take care of- get a dog! And then go to college. THEN think about babies. You'll be in a much better position to take care of them with a good education, earning a good salary.
Hope that helps,
RT
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Tubal ligation will get you pregnant for sure. Look into it.
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You can't, nor should you try, to make a guy get you pregnant. You need to think of the reasons why you would want a baby in the first place. It's only fair to your child that you're with a man that loves and supports you. A guy that will stick around be a father to the baby. You should try to trick him into getting you pregnant just so you can have a baby.
Also, just because you like a guy, doesn't mean you need to be 'having his babies'. You're clearly fairly young and probably don't really know what you want at this point. But I can guarantee you an expensive, 24/7 job as mother isn't something that you want right now. You wouldn't be able to go out with friends or guys much anymore unless you pushed your baby off on your parents. Why have a kid that you can't take care of?
You didn't put your age here, but I'm guessing you're somewhere in your teens. I am nearly positive you don't have your own place, a good steady income, or the stability in general to support a baby.
But to answer your original question, no, there is no way to make him have a baby with you.
Darby
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Yeah, you can get a brick and knock the crap out of yourself 5 or 7 times.... for even thinking about it.
You can't even spell....
HOW ARE YOU GOING TO TEACH A CHILD HOW TO TAKE CARE OF ITSELF AND BE A FUNCTIONAL PART OF SOCIETY?
Or do you even care about the "life" that you would be bringing into this world?
Are you looking for a fashion statement?
Or perhaps, just another way to drive Mom and Dad Crazy?
Grow up, and realize that YOU are a baby.
And babies don't need babies.
KNOCK...KNOCK...ANYBODY HOME?
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