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Ask My Mom 4 a Thong
I cant talk to my mom about anything, I cant even talk to her about my period because I dont fell comfortable. She was like the perfect child when she was growing up, she never wore a thong or make up, she always goes to church and has never swore, so I dont feel comfortable asking her. I couldnt ask my dad either because he just doesnt understand, I get really embaressed when ppl can see my underwear line so will you please help me and give me some pointers on how to ask her and how to get a conversation going.
Thanks a Tons!!
P.S. I dont usually get along with my mom either
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I know things like that are hard to ask your mom but if you go shopping with her and you're near any underwear shops or at an underwear section, just ask her if you could get a thong. It might be hard, but relax and ask her. I'm sure she won't yell at you and say no. If she asks for a reason, tell her that you don't want a VPL(visible panty line) if she seems hesitant, ask her to consider and it move on.
If you don't go shopping with her, just buy one yourself and when you go home, show it to her and say "Is it okay if I wear this, because I don't want my underwear line to show?"
Good luck :)
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I can understand talking to ur mom about things like that is always uncomfortable espicially if shes not really open to things like it.
okay what you need to do is sit her down tell her you want to talk about something thats important to you and you want her to hear you out on what you have to say and explain that its a new generation and times are different,tell her why you feel the need for a thong and how you feel embarrased most importantly if she doesnt agree dont get angry and throw a fit.
stay calm and argue your case maturly..if she still doesnt see reason maybe you have a cousin sister friend or aunt? anyone else who could be able to help or even talk to your mom for you make her see sense hope it goes well for you =] hope i helped in the slightest!
good luck =]
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Jess
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well the truth is that even if you are wearing a thong people can see it...it is about the pants you are wearing. you have to say what pants am I wearing and how will the underwear apear. Because if you are wearing jeans (especially low cut or almost low cut jeans) even though you cant see the line you will have a "whale back" hahaha and that is when you are walking or bent over and the top of the thong shows and everyone knows you are wearing it. Fact is that if you have your own money then you don't have to ask your mom to buy one. All you have to do is save up like 10 bucks and go to the mall with your friends and you can get like 3 or 4 of them and just find a nice spot in your room where you can stash them where no one is going to go digging through them. Put it in there with some other panties or some scarves or something. This is what you could do too if you can't buy thongs...get panties that frill out on the sides you know stuff that is flat on the edges that way it wont be bulky when you put your pants...YOU KNOW A GREAT BRAND if you are going to get a thong...a little pricy but Hanky Panky...Flat on the edges, comfortable fit, doesn't ride you, and they are pretty wide so if they do show a little it will look like panties. Here's the real deal...you need to talk to your mom...not about "thongs and sexy stuff" necessarily, but you need to sit down and have some girl talk and keep it real like "mom, fact is that a lot of people lose their parents and they never get to bond with them, i feel like i can't bond with you becasue we are different in a lot of ways...but i don't want to miss that chance. I really need to be able to have girl talk with you, talk about boys, talk about cuter clothes, talk about life and not have to worry about you judging me or scolding me or something like that. I just need us to be two people" and I'm telling you, if she values your relationship and if she isn't like "scared to death of sin" hahaha then she should open up. It may take some time but she should at least try. I know that wasn't your question, but that to me is the real issue. You only have one real mom. :)
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