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Older Men


Question Posted Saturday May 30 2009, 9:20 pm

Ok I am in the 7th grade and all of my friends have boyfriends, I can get boyfriends but they arent my age.. I usually go out with older boys as in 9th graders. My friends think that it is gross, do you think it is gross?

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ashhhweee answered Saturday May 30 2009, 10:28 pm:
No, it is not gross.
Unless you're with older boys for sexual reasons. Follow your heart!

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christina answered Saturday May 30 2009, 10:22 pm:
No. Boys in 9th grade are 14-15. In seventh grade, you're about 13. It's not too much of a difference. I wouldn't worry about it.

Besides, your friends don't have to date them.

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JustJessOx answered Saturday May 30 2009, 9:44 pm:
Okay firstly, i know it may seem like it now but having a boyfriend isnt the most important thing in the world.
and please dont just get one just because you feel you have to because all your friends do because you dont.
go out with someone if you want to and when your ready,and dont settle yourself for anyone just for the sake of having a boyfriend..you deserve better then that.
not its not "gross" but please make sure your matrue enough to go out with someone older like that and be aware,and make sure they are not just using you and trying to take advantage of you!dont be naiive is what im saying and as long as your sure they care for your and respect you then I guess its okay. =]

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Hitoast answered Saturday May 30 2009, 9:39 pm:
No, I don't. You're friends are probably just jealous because you can get older guys. However, be careful with dating older dudes because the older they get, the more they'll expect out of a girl. At least when they're teenagers they do. Hope I helped!

-Jessica 15/f

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