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does he like me?


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 6:59 pm

i met this guy and known him since school started. i like him alot and i cannot figure out if he likes me. one time he asked me to go driving around with him and i did. i text him afterwards and said thanks and he said it was fun and that we should hang out more often. and if i mention another guy he kind of gets protective? and he compliments me sometimes, and other people think it is obvious that he likes me. but the thing is the other night i asked him if he wanted to go somewhere and he made it sound like we were going to do it, but then he said it was too late... i didn't know if he really wanted to do it or not and also if i want to talk i have to be the one who sends him a text or i.m. first. am i just analizing the whole situation t...

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is it love


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 5:22 pm

well their this guy that i really really like and well i like him so much that i think i might be in love with him. But i dont know for sure,how can you tell you really in love with someone. I think about him all the time,i always write poems and stuff about him,there aint one day where i just cant stop thinking about him. And when he dont be at school i get all upset and everything. And when i see him i get all happy and stuff.So what is this that im feeling and why am im feeling this way. by the way im 15 in 9th grade and he is in 10th.

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what should i say to him?


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 5:14 pm

so me and my ex-boyfriend are basically best friends. he knows me better than anyone and we get along amazingly. so this weekend i finally gave into the fact that i am still inlove with him and want to be with him more than anything. im 17 and hes 19 and i dont want to hear that whole you dont know what love is so young because i think i know how i feel because he still has feelings for me too. anyways, he has a girlfriend and i told him but i also told him that i dont want them to break up because i wasnt telling him in the hope that he would dump her, i was telling him because i thought he should know and he was okay with it. so he was complaining to me about her yesterday and later that night i got an email saying he needed to talk to me...

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do i talk to her or forget it all completly? please help med


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 4:59 pm

well i like this girl she does know i like her from me telling her from a love letter and then from alot of people and now i think she hates me i never asked her should i ask her if she likes me or not and go for it no matter what any one else thinks cause i dont want her to miserable and all her friends hating her for me talking to her or her liking me but when i wait to talk to her she looks pissed off at me and like she doesnt want to talk to me but i mean we look at ecother alot im a runescape person and shes a book person i guess u could say i love her alot but her friend and lots of other girls are trying to talk to me but i hate them all cause b4 they new i liked her they all hated me after school should i go to her locker and tal...

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broke upp. =/


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 3:59 pm

14/f

okay well me and alex. broke up yesterday, he broke up with me and said it would probably be better if we were just friends. now i want to be his friend but we have 7th and 8th period together, and today all i did was think about him and today he left early and as soon as he left as SOON as he walked out the door i couldnt hold it in. i was crying like crazzy. i want to be his friend i really want too, but im afraid that if i talk to him all the time. and see him with other girls im going to like him the rest of this year, and be jelous constantly. hes not the HOTTEST guy ever, hes cute and has the BEST personality. it wont be easy trying to tell myself that we will probably never go back out. so my question is how am i ...

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limited


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 2:57 pm

14/f
my parents are really protective of me and my sister my sisters 18 and im 14 im in year 10 and my mum or dad drops me off at school and picks me up and im not allowed to go out by myself or even to my friends house i have to be with them or only if im at school. Im tamil and ive got a thing for tamil gangsters they are so hot i want to just be around them and stuff but i cant go out??? what shall i do and i want to be with this boy???
thanks


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Worried??


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 2:46 pm

ok well there is this boy that i really like hes 18 and im 14. I saw him on hi5 and i have talked to him through msn and he is really sweet the thing is i want to ask him to be my boyfriend i know he will say yes. But i dont want to go behind my parents back and im scared they may find out they are strict and i know my sister will be disappointed as we have a really close relationship. What shall i do??
thanks a lot
xxx

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PLEASE HELP - ASAP


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 9:40 am

okay, so i have this really confusing problem.
now theres this guy i was really starting to like,
and he told me he liked me to.
but the other day at school, when i was talking to him, he completely ignored me, or atleast i thought he did. he wasnt like a complete jerk, but i dont know it was just like akward, like he wasnt paying enough attention to me. and then the other weekend we went to the movies with my friends, and apparently when i left, he told his friend he didnt like me anymore. and yesterday, i left early from school, so i told my friend to ask him if he liked me, and she said he said "i dont know." and she said, "its yes or not" and he said "ugh? why? i guess no" but then agai...

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Good Present for Boyfriend


Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 12:54 am

I want a good welcome back present for my boyfriend's return from Asia! I haven't seen him in basically 6 months.

What should I do?

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simple?


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 11:59 pm

this question sounds simple enough..but when you i really think about it, its not. How do you know the difference between truly liking someone, and just WANTING to like someone? you know how you can get addicted to having a crush? that feeling you get. so how do you know when you like the guy, for everything he is, versus liking him just because you want to like someone, and hes just there.

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Crazy boys


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 11:19 pm

ok so there is this guy, and he is cute and i think i like him. i think he might like me back too. Do you think it would be weird for a girl to make the first move on a guy or should it just be the guy? Also, how can you tell if a guy likes you? i know there are signs to tell you but what are they? i need to know everything. so please give me some advice about relationships in general to. i am a girl who needs to know everything because i haven't experienced any of it yet.
f/15
and also...how do i be more flirtatious if i am kinda shy?? and you dont like to do stuff unless it is around guys i actually know. lately, it has been pretty eaisy because they are so outgoing and stuff, how can i be more like free and more avalable...

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The distance is killing me...


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 10:59 pm

I've been with my boyfriend for 28 months on the 5th. I love him. I swear I do. I am currently away at college. I try to come home at least every other weekend to spend time with him. Everything is great when I do that.

But then, during the week, when I am hours away and all I have of him is a few pictures and the sound of his voice on the phone, I go crazy. I feel like I need to see him or everything just goes bad. I get strange thoughts in my head and feeling like he doesn't love me or I take the frustrations of college out on our relationship. I know he understands what I am going through, but I don't know what to do because I don't want to upset him just because I'm freaking myself out.

How can I cope witho...

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im so confused!


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 9:43 pm

well, i have a boyfriend, and he really likes me and i really like him...the thing is that one of my best friends really likes him (i found this out through one of my other friends, and that my friend that likes him said " i really wanna go out with him, but i dont wanna hurt her (me) feelings") im not supposed to know about this bbut now i do and it really bugs me because i have to pretend that i dont know and im really scared that my boyfriend will dump me for her...i really wanna be nice and considerate, but at the same time i just wanna be like "Back Off!" so im really confused as to what to do and im really stressed out from worrying and keeping it a secret. (oh yeah and its like really hard for me to talk to her fa...

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him


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 8:29 pm

there is this guy i like from my church, well, he is like the perfect guy for me, i think he is so cute, the best personality, and hillarious. i just want to know any signs to show if i a guy liked you, because i cant figure guys out easily, some girls can but i cant!!


THANKS :D




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He likes me...he likes me not...


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 8:10 pm

There's this one guy I like, he's in 2 grades ahead of me but we have show choir together and I see him quite a bit for rehearsals. Well in choir we're doing this swing dancing/grease song and he's my partner. He's always really sweet...telling me I'm beatuful, hugging me, helping me up when we screw up on any of the moves (swing dancing is really hard. I'm a dancer but I've never done this before.) We had to car pool to Pope Joy hall for a concert and there weren't enough seats in the car so he let me sit on his lap and then he put his arm around my waste.

But what I don't get is one minute he acts like I'm the only girl in the world and when I'm not around or off somewhere else in the room he just flirts with other girls li...

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Should I tell him or forget him?


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 7:35 pm

I'm a female and I'm 17. I'll just get straight to the point. I like this guy...a lot. More than I have before. The thing is, I really want to tell him that I have feelings for him and it seems like he may feel the same way but I'm still afraid of that famous phrase "I only like you as my friend" or something to that extent. The other part of me is just telling me that I should just forget about him and move on or whatever. What do you think? Tell him?

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first


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 7:29 pm

two questions on the same topiccc
13/f

•are first time boyfriends supposed to be special in a girls life? like is a big deal to the mom or something?

•are a girls first kiss supposed to be really special? like are you supposed to search for the right dude in order to have you first kiss? or can it be just some dude u like but aren't dating?

thanks so much!!!
as many answers as possible please!



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Few questions!!!


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 6:17 pm

ok 14/f/straight

soome of these shouldnt be in this category, but i have a lot of questions!!

1. what IS oral sex???

2. my bf is having his b-day this coming monday, any ideas of what to get him?

3. what is feeling up mean?

4. im in a school orchestra and so is my bf, we have a concert in December, we will be able to be alone in a room making out,,, HOW DO YOU MAKE OUT/FRENCH KISS??? idk, ive never done that b4, and i KNOW he wants to, and i do too

5. How do i get my bf to put his arms around me, like you know how guys put there arms around their girlfriends waist??? well how do i get my bf to do that to me???

Im sorry i have so many qu...

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its never going to happen to me :(


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 6:06 pm

15/f

hi!! most of my best friends have boyfriends. Some of them even have 8 -yes, 8- other guys vying for them as well. Like if they broke up with their boyfriend, they would be asked out by 8 guys at once in a heart beat.

Me on the other hand, i can't even get asked out once. i've never had a boyfriend, a kiss, or even a real "i mean it" type of hug from a guy. I'm starting to get really lonely and also pissed off because im tired of being left out of plans becuase i don't have a date/boyfriend and i really want to be liked by atleast one guy (that i even remotely like-there are some guys who like me, but they #1 don't have enough courage to tell me/ask me out and #2 they are gross (don't brush hair...

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Im so deeply in love..


Posted Tuesday November 6 2007, 4:47 pm

My story is too long, So im going to summarize it. I am so in love with this guy, There realy isnt any comparsion to how much we loved eachother. We were together for 2 years, And basicaly legends in our school. All because of how much we loved eachother. people would envy us so much and everyone said there is no way are we ever going to end up seperated.
Well we were going through alot of fights and problems lately, And i had decided to end it. He became furious and full of rage, And he said we shouldnt speak. Its been now 3 weeks and a half..He has tried to make small talk with me. We see eachother EVERYDAY in school which makes it harder to move on. Everyone see's it and as do i, He stares at me alot, Always glancing when my back ...

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