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what should i say to him?
so me and my ex-boyfriend are basically best friends. he knows me better than anyone and we get along amazingly. so this weekend i finally gave into the fact that i am still inlove with him and want to be with him more than anything. im 17 and hes 19 and i dont want to hear that whole you dont know what love is so young because i think i know how i feel because he still has feelings for me too. anyways, he has a girlfriend and i told him but i also told him that i dont want them to break up because i wasnt telling him in the hope that he would dump her, i was telling him because i thought he should know and he was okay with it. so he was complaining to me about her yesterday and later that night i got an email saying he needed to talk to me. apparently when they were having sex, he didnt moan her name; he moaned mine. she stormed out calling him a damn cheater and he was telling me about how he doesnt know whats going to happen. so i got home from school today and i got another email saying that they are officially over. i dont know what to do, i love him and i know he cares about me and i know we both want to be together but im not sure if hes ready to jump back into us again because i know i hurt him when we broke up but hes such a better person now. any insight? im sorry this was so long
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all i can say is since you guys are best friends, be there for him as a best friend. let him talk about his ex or whatever, let him know you're there, spend time with eachother. if you do that, then things should go smoothly and you should know when you both want to try it again but let him know that you're not trying to push things.
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Seems you have already pretty much answered your own question. :/
It is a little soon to jump right back into something especially since he has just broken up with his girlfriend too.
As for not being sure about whether he wants to be with you or no, I think him moaning your name in the middle of sex with someone else is a clear indication he has you on his mind although I do find it weird that it's only ever happened after you confessed how you feel about him and never before then. But it might just be me since I'm kind of suspicious by nature.
Overall it's up to you but talking to him certainly will be a good start to see where you both go from here. If you feel he does need some time to adjust to what happened with his ex then by all means say so and let him know you just want to give him some time to clear his thoughts before anything with you both happens.
Good luck with things. :)
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