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this question sounds simple enough..but when you i really think about it, its not. How do you know the difference between truly liking someone, and just WANTING to like someone? you know how you can get addicted to having a crush? that feeling you get. so how do you know when you like the guy, for everything he is, versus liking him just because you want to like someone, and hes just there.
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liking someone is when you know the person well enough (like friends/best friends) and when you think about that person and wish they were there, you don't do it just because they're "hott" or whatever; you want them there because when you talk to them, they make you feel good, or you like the conversations you have, etc.
WANTING to like someone is when you pick the first hottie you see and you say "oh he's so cute i wish he was here so i can look at" but really, you don't know what they're about. or if you know the person and you picture yourselves together, it'll seem really weird.
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You simply just need to honestly think about it to yourself. Ask yourself questions like: Would you miss him if he wasn't there? Could he easily be replaced? Does this person make you feel different than others and happy? Compare to others you've had feelings for. The answer is in and only in your head. Remember time tells all. :]
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