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Im 14
When I Was 11 my Boyfriend and I broke up. He Wanted to have sex but I Said No So He Ripped my pannies and shoved his "dick" in. When he did that he took my virginty. I Called It Rape.Ever Since then I Have Been Having Sex. I Want To Tell My Mom But I Am Scared.Everytime I Have Sex,Afterwards I always feel like im going to get caught. The boy I am having sex with right now I Like Him But he just wants to be "sex buddys".I Just Found out one of my childhood friends has been liking or loving and talking to him for 2 years. She`s coming to fight me friday or saturday. My sister told me thar should stop talkin to him but I realy like him and I think i might be pregnant by him.
What should I do?
and how can i tell if im pregnant or not without having a pregnacy test or waiting for my period to come? (link)
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First off did you ever tell anyone that you were raped? If not you should, even if its just as much as telling a friend to get it off your chest. You should consider telling a parent or counselor if you haven't already though. It sounds to me like sex is something you do because you want to feel liked. It doesn't have to be that way though, your fourteen years old! You have so much time for all this, enjoy your childhood a little more while you still have it. Trust me!! Its ok to be single, it gives you time to be independent and find yourself. Like the phrase, "you must love yourself in order to truly love another" you have to be happy with yourself or you won't find real happiness with anyone. This guy that just wants to have sex, he isn't worth it. About the person coming to fight you well I say ignore it. Violence never solves anything it only stirs up the problem even more. Be the bigger person, you won't regret it.
As far as pregnancy the only smart thing to do would be to purchase a test from a local drug store or visit a doctor asap if you're really serious about this!
Hope I helped. Good luck hun.:]
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Ok, please help me because i have no idea why I'm like this. i will sometimes (esp. as of lately) get really mad and bitter for no reason. i just get so frusterated things arent going right and the way i want them too. i am not like 'emo' or whatever actually im usually a really happy person (at least around my friends) and enjoy life but i get mad at the whole world other times. Most people dont know this or believe it haha but i can get really mad and hateful and upset sometimes and be really negative and angry. I have NO IDEA why i get so angry but sometimes i just cant stand it! I have 3 younger siblings who never listen and always make things worse because they cant ever do anything right or help or do something without attitude (well sometimes they are good but more likely they arent) and i just get so mad and stressed out and frusterated. i do have quite a temper but im generally a good, nice, outgoing, happy, upbeat, go get 'em person and when i get this mad i just dont understand. its never around my friends only at home. i love my family very much and they are very important to me and im a good, strong christian girl and i try to be happy but i cant when im so upset. i just hate life and the world at that point. i dont want to be like this! i want to be happy and enjoy life but im always getting stressed out! Please help me because i dont know what to do and sometimes i get so angry i want to cry like a few minutes ago.If you have any suggestions please help me! thank you so much!
PS its highly likely that its related to stress but i cant drop any of my responcibilities because they are pretty much only chores, and taking care of my siblings and cleaning and stuff like that and school work. (link)
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Optimism is your answer! I used to be a really angry and depressed person until one day I opened my eyes to a whole new world. I realized no matter what the situation is you might as well find some way to make the best of it and not waste any time thinking negative about anything. When you start feeling angry think of how pointless it is. Think of how you could be feeling happy right now about something amazing in your life. Everything happens for a reason and everything has its upside. The table always turns..so when things turn bad force it otherwise with good thoughts. Find your peaceful spot in your mind. Being optimistic can change your life.
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I have been "best" friends with these three girls for a long time. One I've known since 2nd grade but friends since 6th,(lets call her tibby.) one I've known since the sixth and only been good friends for a about a year, (lets call her lena)and one I've been friends with since 5th grade.(lets call her bee)yes i know that all of these name are form the sisterhood of the traveling pants. I was in the 6th grade when i read that book and i always kinda liked to think of us as the girls of the sisterhood.
but in the last year I have relized that our priorites are not the same. I don't mean just on interests, but on our friendship. for the last 4 years i always have tryed to live up to the sisterhood trying to be the best friend that i can be. I always went out of my way to try and help and be there for my friends. i always thought that they were the same way but now older i realize that this was not the case. they never offerd to help me when i needed it. I have been playing volleyball for the 4 years also my friends have never once seen me play. they dont come to my game because they dont like volleyball well dont they like me? dont they want to support me? I would support them if I could. Bee and lena row but they go out of town and i cant do that and tibby well she doesn't do anything that i can support, no sports or clubs. Now that i'm in high school i feel as if i am wasting the best years of my life on friends who take me for granted.
like i said this is high school, and high school has cliques. there are lots of people i know who id like to be friends with i really like some of the girls on my volleyball team. one of them plays soccer so i try to go to her games when none of her friends go to them. but im afried that im just intruding on their friendships. i dont want to do that.
im I just being paranoid, about others and their friends? am i being judgmental about my "friends"? I need advice!!! (link)
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Many people are going to come in and out of your life. Some people you will form strong bonds with and become close friends with and in most cases you will never forget those people. However, in most cases regardless how close at one point or another you grow apart. Growing apart could just be temporary or it could last a lifetime. Life is too mysterious to tell. Don't force yourself to remain in these friendships, yet don't push them away. Go with the flow and be yourself and see who's there and who isn't. Don't be afraid to intrude on a friendship, most likely the person probably feels the same way you do. Someone has to break the ice! I feel like I went a bit off topic here. Oh well, hope all is well and good luck!
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this question sounds simple enough..but when you i really think about it, its not. How do you know the difference between truly liking someone, and just WANTING to like someone? you know how you can get addicted to having a crush? that feeling you get. so how do you know when you like the guy, for everything he is, versus liking him just because you want to like someone, and hes just there. (link)
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You simply just need to honestly think about it to yourself. Ask yourself questions like: Would you miss him if he wasn't there? Could he easily be replaced? Does this person make you feel different than others and happy? Compare to others you've had feelings for. The answer is in and only in your head. Remember time tells all. :]
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