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broke upp. =/
14/f
okay well me and alex. broke up yesterday, he broke up with me and said it would probably be better if we were just friends. now i want to be his friend but we have 7th and 8th period together, and today all i did was think about him and today he left early and as soon as he left as SOON as he walked out the door i couldnt hold it in. i was crying like crazzy. i want to be his friend i really want too, but im afraid that if i talk to him all the time. and see him with other girls im going to like him the rest of this year, and be jelous constantly. hes not the HOTTEST guy ever, hes cute and has the BEST personality. it wont be easy trying to tell myself that we will probably never go back out. so my question is how am i supposed to talk to him and be his friend and not show him that i like him. cause i know that if i talk to him im going to like him and never stop. and i want to just from now on think of him as a friend as hard as that may be.
thanks in advanceee! :D
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if you let your feelings for him get in the way, you're gonna keep breaking down and that's not what you want. you want to be strong, and if he ends up rejecting you, you need to be able to move on. i understand how that is and it's gonna be crazy emotional, but you need to get in the mind frame that you don't NEED a boyfriend to make yourself happy. as long as you're just friends with him, show him that that's alright with you but always keep the door open, ya know? talk to other guys, do more stuff with your friends to keep your mind off of it. you just need to keep yourself kinda distracted.
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hey, im 19 and i been here before hnestly it's goin to be so hard to try to pretend that you dont like him...here what i use to do and maybe it will work for you..i always knew when i would see him so right before i use to give myself a pep talk keep sayin u can do it and i bet you can..and after i would break down but aftera while it get easier...hope i helped ..pebb
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