Question Posted Wednesday November 7 2007, 9:40 am
okay, so i have this really confusing problem.
now theres this guy i was really starting to like,
and he told me he liked me to.
but the other day at school, when i was talking to him, he completely ignored me, or atleast i thought he did. he wasnt like a complete jerk, but i dont know it was just like akward, like he wasnt paying enough attention to me. and then the other weekend we went to the movies with my friends, and apparently when i left, he told his friend he didnt like me anymore. and yesterday, i left early from school, so i told my friend to ask him if he liked me, and she said he said "i dont know." and she said, "its yes or not" and he said "ugh? why? i guess no" but then again, my friend who asked him kinda likes him too, so she could be making this all up. but i wanna ask today on the bus if he likes me, and if he said that he didnt to my friend.
but like what am i supposed to say?
haha like what do i ask him?
should i be like, "hey my friend told me that you didnt like me, and i just wanna know straight up, because i dont wanna just be played. so if you just wanna be friends, tell me, and if you dont, then okay."
thelaura answered Thursday November 8 2007, 8:43 am: Only he knows his true feelings, so noone can tell you why he may stop liking you all of a sudden. Frustrating, I can imagine, but you have the right idea - be brave and ask him yourself. Perhaps word it in a more friendly way, "I heard you don't like me anymore? Is it true?" and let him explain.
You never know, he could be going through a few problems at the moment, so don't lose hope until he tells you directly he has lost feelings for you etc. Good luck. [ thelaura's advice column | Ask thelaura A Question ]
Buttacup answered Thursday November 8 2007, 8:42 am: I think that "Hey my friend told me that you didnt like me, and i just wanna know straight up, because i dont wanna just be played. so if you just wanna be friends, tell me, and if you dont, then okay." is the way to go! Especially since he had told you he liked you but is now blowing you off and is sounding kinda like a jerk about it.
You're saying that even though you like him, you're a girl who can stand up for yourself and won't be played. That's admirable =D
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