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Crazy boys
ok so there is this guy, and he is cute and i think i like him. i think he might like me back too. Do you think it would be weird for a girl to make the first move on a guy or should it just be the guy? Also, how can you tell if a guy likes you? i know there are signs to tell you but what are they? i need to know everything. so please give me some advice about relationships in general to. i am a girl who needs to know everything because i haven't experienced any of it yet.
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and also...how do i be more flirtatious if i am kinda shy?? and you dont like to do stuff unless it is around guys i actually know. lately, it has been pretty eaisy because they are so outgoing and stuff, how can i be more like free and more avalable to others. Sorry i keep skipping to different ideas but there is just so much on my mind about all this stuff, so if you could please help me. Thanks in advance.
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i went through the same thing.
as for flirtatious, don't try. it will just happen and you'll be like "wow. i can't believe i just said/did that".
and no, it's not weird for a girl to make the move. just don't try and copy the moves guys make. do what feels right.
AND you can tell a guy likes you if he talks to you a lot when you're out together with friends or whatever. he'll call you to say hi or because he's bored. he'll just seem interested and not completely blow you off or pretend like you're nothing in front of other girls.
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It's not weird for a girl to make the first move. Sometimes it's best if she does! (Guys can be soooo unpredictable, can't they?)
I find the most tell-tale sign is when they quickly glance away when you catch them lookin' at you. It's also so adorable! Usually they'll find a way to be close to you, whether it's direct or not.
I used to be shy, like you, unless I was comfortable with the people I was with. Only problem is...I'd fill up with butterflies with the guys I'd like! I just swallowed that awkward feeling and acted outgoing and cutesy. I think the best (and more subtle) ways are smiling and giggling. Make sure to catch his glances and let him see you're looking at him, too!
Best of luck =D
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Ok, first things first. If you like him, you'll know it. You think about him all the time, whenever you hear his voice or his name you turn around to see where it came from. It doesn't matter who makes the first move, as long as there is one. You can't really tell unless he tells you! People make mistakes! I know a friend who thought that this guy liked her but actually didn't! You should tell him how you feel! (If you finally realise that you do like him and want to have more close relationship). There are some signs, like flirting with you (complementing, looking at you always, going over to you and just talking for no reason, calling for no reason, texting a lot to you etc.) Those were just some signs to tell if he likes you. Or he could just be flirting for fun. Anywho you should still tell him how you feel. Well relationships is a weird thing, but going out on a date is extra fun! It's alright if you have not yet experienced any "real relationshipness". Theres always a first time for everything as they say!
To be more flirtatious, just complement him a lot, talk to him for no reason. Text him. Ask for his phone number/mobile number, call him.
DONT OVER DO IT! (Otherwise he might get the wrong message and think your a weirdo!)
That's about all the advice i can give you!
And Good luck!
Kronix
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