okay well my boyfriend is coming over tomorrow after his baseball game. and i figured since he would probley be sore and sweaty a nice romantic bath would be nice for him. well i was wondering if he did pre-cum or actually cum...could it still survive in the water? i know that when it hits air it dies quickly but what about water? should i have him wear a condom...not that we will have sex. please help. i rate 5's
hey sweetie, you can take a bath with him and the sperm will not survive in the water so don't worry about it but if you are planning on having sex in the bath tub then you need a condom. best of luck and have fun!
xoxoxo
supergirl
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My boyfriend and i love to have sex and well we've pretty much did every position you could think of and last night he told me that he wants to try knew things like kinky stuff......i dont want it in my butt, he dosnt want to use handcuffs so what are some really good kinky things that we could try that feel awsome?
i'll 5z if you can help plz do and as fast as possible thx
Try role playing, video taping, sex games (that you can find at spencers or online if you've never heard of spencers), or different products such as massage oil, warming gel, and toys!
Good luck hope it works out
xoxox
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Last night I was over at some friends house and I was the only girl and there was three boys (I'm 19) and we were drinking and they must have got drunk becasue they grabbed me and flung me onto the bed and started having sex and I didn't want to! Now this morning I won't stop bleeding! PLEASE HELP...oh my god I don't want this to happen to me I'M A GOOD GIRL!
Hey sweetie-that's a really serious issue. You were raped. You need to go to the hospital or get yourself checked out, do you know if the boys used a condom? If they didn't you could be pregnant. Bleeding is normal after sex especially if its your first few times, but anything that lasts more than a couple of days is serious. Bad things happen to good girls so just chill for a second, get your head on straight and take care of yourself! Next, please don't ever put yourself in a situation where you are alone with three guys who are drinking, by putting yourself in that position you are leaving yourself vulnerable to getting raped. So think about preventing this type of thing in the future. Best of luck with this situation i hope everything works out. xoxoxo sar
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im 13/m and just wondering. my goal is to be a virgin until i get married, i want that special moment to be with the women i love, can i get some feedback? anything you want to say. ill rate all answers with a 5
irish
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i think thats a great goal for you but 13 is still young to be deciding whether or not you are going to wait until marriage to have sex. If you are strong minded and dedicated to it then propz to you because its an extremely hard thing to do. Theres your feedback! Best of luck. xoxoxo sar
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I made a promise with one of my cusins I dont know if I can keep it you know ... the promise is to keep my virginity till I am married what should I do I love the guy I am with right now
premarital sex is a very very personal thing. I think you can try to make a promise to someone else but ultimately it comes down to when you are ready to do what you want to do. I know the promise you made to your cousin is important but what's even more important to you is your life and your decisions. If you really love the guy you are with and feel like sex is the next logical step then by all means go ahead and do it. Just be safe, use protection, condoms, birth control whatever (sorry had to add that plug for protection just cuz i think its so important). You don't even have to tell your cousin you had sex, but if you feel like you need to then explain to her that it was a personal decision and that you did what you felt was right, sooner or later she will understand. In the mean time you should decide if sex is really what you want with this guy or if you really want to wait-it is a big decision so take your time and think carefully. best of luck xoxoxo sar
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i am 16 and i had sex on thursday with my boyfrend for the first time with him.im in so much pain i cant walk proply and it kills to go the toilet what wrong with me ?
hey sweetie! alrite first of all the first time you have sex will be painful, you might even bleed a little and you may feel sore the next day. However the pain shouldn't last for more than a day and if it hurts when you go to the toilet thats not a good thing either. if the pain is external (meaning it hurts your basic genital area) then i would give it another day or to, stay away from tampons and fragranced soaps and also hold off on sex for a few days-taking a bath may help ease the pain. if the pain is in your stomach and you have been in pain for more than a few days you will most definitely need to see a doctor! other than that be safe and always use protection. best of luck and please let me know if everything turned out ok! -sar
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship.
Well i think the reason behind your madness deals with generalizations. Everyone makes generalizations-example "all guys want sex". And while this isn't true of every guy out there a lot of guys do want just sex. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that-there is also nothing wrong with a guy who wants to find a girlfriend and be in a comfortable relationship. point being: we are all different and not everyone fits into a specific category-if you are different than be different no one else has to approve of who you are or the decisions you choose to make. I bet when you find your gf she will be extremely thankful she has found a guy who's sole interest isn't sex! Best of luck-don't stress over this, life's too short to drive urself insane :)
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Okay my last question was about my period coming every 2 weeks..A lot of you replyed I havent 'straightened out' becuase im to young..but i've had my period since i was in 6th grade..and im now im 10th. its been regular up until a few months ago...So whats wrong lol
hey sweetie i have the same problem as you. I ended up going to my gyn and she prescribed me birth control pills to regulate my period. it's caused by stress or changes in weight so talk to ur parent about making you an appointment with a gyn. she can prescribe you bc pills-they really really help too. best of luck xoxoxoxo
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On New Years Eve im going to my boyfriends house. I'm a virgin but that night i think i want to lose my virginity with him. I'm 14 almost 15 i know i'm young but i'm tired of being a virgin. We've only been going out for a week today but we went out for 7 months a while back. Please don't reply if your just going to call me a hoe or yell at me because i don't need that. Would i be making the wrong choice if i do? I already know about the whole getting pregnant thing im not stupid..but other than that am i making the right choice? thanks..
hey-im gonna be point blank honest with you. The question is are you ready to have sex with him? I wouldn't let a bunch of strangers determine the outcome of my life. You need to sit down and think this over for yourself-know the risks, know what you are getting into. If you feel its something you really want to do, then by all means go for it (BUT USE PROTECTION)-if you don't think u're ready there are plenty of other opportunities to have sex. Just make sure its something you won't regret-if you have any second thoughts then just don't do it. Hope i helped
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All my friends do all this oral sex crap with all the guys... im waiting till im married to do all that stuff. I think they are total sluts for doing it with just a radom guy they know, when they dont even have feelings for them at all, just friendly ones. I really think its gross i mean were only in 8th grade and were 14... i mean makeing out and that is ok but yeah ... am i wrong?
you are entitled to your own opinion and props to you for having the will power and the mentality to abstain from these activities until marriage. However everyone is different and you can't expect people to value the same things you do. Just because they fool around and have oral sex does not make them sluts-i will admit 14 is a little young to be engaging in such activities. If they know the consequences and are willing to put themselves at risk and if they feel that they are ready to have oral sex then that should be their decision. Doesn't mean you have to agree with it. Personally i think you are smart for waiting until you are ready so you aren't wrong, but you aren't right to think of them poorly for the decisions they make in their lives.
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Hello guys, long time reader but first time writer here. I really need some advice.
I've had this best friend for about ten years now (ever since the second grade) and he knows all my secrets. He has been the friend I've been able to go to for all my problems for over half my life. He's always been a great guy, but lately he seems a little different.
He came up to me the other day and told me that he needed to talk to me after school, and of course I told him it was no big deal. Well, when I got to his house after school he called me back to his room. When I got back there he was completely naked and said that if I didn't suck him off then he would tell everyone about my issuses with my sexuality that I had confided in him. I didn't have any other choice, I can't let everyone now that I have impure thoughts about other men since I'm in a private Christian school, but I'm not attracted to him at all. He's really overweight and he has hair everywhere.
Now he's saying that I have to give him head everyday or he will tell everone about my secret desires, even my parents. I don't know what to do, he tastes horrible. I can't keep doing this.
what you just described can be constituted as black mail and RAPE. You need to get help immediately. Your well being and your health should not be compromised because of secrets that you harbor. Whatever your secrets are-i bet it won't be as bad as having to give this guy head everyday for the next few years of your life. Anytime anyone forces you to do something sexual that you DO NOT want to do it is considered RAPE. You need to tell an adult ASAP if one isn't available then contact the cops-im sorry if im making this sound like its a big deal but IT IS and for your sake i really hope you get some help. He has to know that what he's doing is wrong.
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Alright this is kind of weird... but i mean i want to know if this just happens to me. Alright when i masturbate i do it for a while and what not, but like after a while it gets really tender and i'm not turned on anymore and i get this pulse feeling down there. and my boyfriend has like rubbed down there and it happened. Does that mean i orgasmed? Or what is it? Sorry that sounds SO dumb but I have no idea. Is it just me?! help people! does this happen to you?
what you described is definitely considered an orgasm however you may not have reached full climax. While an orgasm feels good, it is the pulse feeling you get in your vaginal area-when you climax everything relaxes and what can be described as a "spine tingling sesation" occurs. hope that helped
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hey u kno how some people talk about a grl like having numbers sumthin like 36/25/34 or suntin like that?? what do those numbers mean?????
alrite the first measurement is the size in inches of your breasts, then hips, and then waist!
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months and we really love eachother. We've talked about the whole sex thing and agreed that we'd wait until we were together for a longer period of time. My boyfriend said that he's ready whenever I'm ready but he doesn't want to pressure me into anything that I don't want to do. The thing is, I really AM ready. I know that he is the one that I want to lose my virginity to him and he wants to lose his virginity to me. Every time I see him, I get tempted to do more and more with him but I have to stop myself. It's not that I'm scared it's just that I feel that we haven't been together long enough to be doing anything like that. I trust him and I know he won't hurt me. I don't want to become tempted and do that. Does anyone have any ideas as to how I can avoid myself from being tempted? I can't have sex with him, it's not the right time for us yet. Thanks so much if you can help! If anyone is in or has been in my situation, tell me how you handled it or how you are handling it.
AH! You must be going crazy! If you have ANY doubts WHATSOEVER do not go through with it. Along with the emotional attachment you gain from having sex it is also a very serious thing. You may be physically ready to have sex but not emotionally ready. You'll know when the right time is. And when you do finally do it, itll be special to you and not just cuz you felt like it was the next logical step. Waiting also strengthens the relationship between you and your boyfriend. Best of luck-i hope everything works out for you.
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Is it better to masurbate or be sexually active with someone? I dont know which one is better to do. Can someone help me?
I think it depends on the person! If you are in a relationship where you feel safe and comfortable, are willing to accept the consequences of sex, and are ready to be sexually active then go for it! However, a safe alternative to being sexually active is masturbation. It is completely safe and healthy for guys and girls to masturbate. It also releases sexual tension and unlike being sexually active you also cut back on all the risks of STDs and Pregnancy! Hope this helps!
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