Hey there. I'm 18, and my birthday is January 8th, 1988. I have brown hair, blue eyes, and I'm short.
I love spending time with my boyfriend, Ryan, reading (A million Little pieces is HIGHLY recommended), writing poems, video games, listening to music and hanging out with friends.
I love to help people in need, and I believe no question is a stupid question. I've been through some of stuff in my life (as everyone has!) and if you need any advice on sex, health, relashinships, school, family, or whatever, I can help. If I don't know much about your problem, I'll search info up on google, and give you some reliable, trustworthy advice.
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There's a slight chance that I could be pregnant. First of all, I'm only 15 years old. I recently had sex for the first time (a little over a week ago). We used no protection, and I'm currently not on birth control. Apperently, there's certain days after your period that you can get pregnant. Well, these were one of the days. He didn't cum, but my sister told me about "pre-cum", and apperently..that can get you pregnant too. I'm terrified. I should be starting my period again in about a week, and I'm usually never late. So if I am, should I tell my mom? My mom is a very God-like lady, and when she found out my brother, 19 years old, had sex she was VERY dissappointed in him. I'm 4 years younger..and a baby? hmm. What do i do! Abortion clinics tell your parents, and there's no way I would have the baby.
p.s. I'm not certain if I'm pregnant or not, so please don't respond with anything to make me regret my experience. (link)
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Hey there. I really dont recommend abortion, because I dont think your mom would be happy about that either, and mothers always have a way of finding out. PLsu, before your 16, you must of parental consent, and there is a time limit on abortions. But I wouldnt tell your mom until at least a week after your missed period. Very often at your age, your period can skip a couple of days, and out of personal experience, expecially when your stressed. And getting pregnant from precum doesnt happen all the time. If he released, then I would be really worried, but since he didn't, try not to stress out about it. Good Luck. And if you really didnt want to have the baby, if you do by some far fetched chance you get pregnant, you can always consider adoption. There are many couples out there who would LOVE to have a little baby.
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Doesn't matter who reads this, but girls would most likely know the answer.
A friend of mine told me that having sex on the 14th day after your period there's a greater chance of getting pregnant, and sometimes 2-3 days after that too. Is that true? If it is true, is that correct? (link)
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hey there. Yes it is true that around the 14th days after your period, your chances of getting pregnant are very high. This is because your ovulating.
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Is it normal to bleed after getting fingered, and i queefed could that have anything to do with it because i was in a really odd position. (link)
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Hey there. Well, there are many different reasons why you could bleed after getting fingered.
1. If it was your first time, then being fingered could cause the bleeding.
2. You could have started your period at a very ironic time.
3. He could have scratched inside of you with his nails, with neither of you reliezing it.
And queefing wouldn't make you bleed. Remembering, a queef is just excess air being squeezed out of you.
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i just had sex for the first time last night, and now i have a clear, odorless, jelly-like discharge comming out. is this normal? (link)
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yes
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I just had sex for first time, and both my inner labias have swelled up about 5x their normal size. Will the swelling go down, or should I be worried?
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it will go down
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can you discharge if your pregnate? (link)
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yes, discharge actually becomes more frequent when your pregnant
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Ok well at camp this summer, i had a boyfriend 3 years older then me. You know we would hold hands and stuff and kiss and everything but like everyonce in a while he would grab my boobs and my butt and i didnt really like it but i just threw it off. anyways when i got back home, guys were all calling me a slut, and theres this guy Diantrey, and now hes like all over me grabbin my slappin my ass grabing my boobs tryin to undo my bra and stuff its getting so annoyin. now its starting to spread around my neighbor hodd now people are tryin to like hook up with me say hey baby wanna come over to my hosue tonigh. anyways i've been puttin it off but now its startin to get to me. does anyone have any advice how i can stop all of this??? (link)
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tell them to fuck off and that your not like that. And if they try anything with you you are not into, it is classified as sexual assault, and you have every right in the world to say something to someone of higher authority/
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well my boyfriend and i have been having sex, he wa smy first. and its fine and everything but whenever he wants me to give him head or a handjob.. i cannot do t.. he says im really not that bad.. but i can tell i am.. it takes forever giving him head and i dont know... i try hard but i cant.. any tips or websites i could check out? thanksss (link)
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www.sex-project.com is the best site for this type of stuff. It will teach you everything and more. And blowjobs take longer then sex usually, especially for first timers!
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OK im 14/f and i wear a 32C and im not sure if guys like the big breast? ANd i dont wear padded(Spelling?) bra or anything and their really big. im tiny and i have big breast is that normal?
I rate High for real answers!
thanx (link)
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Yeah, it's normal. I know a sixteen year old who is only a 11 pounds and wears 32C. I personally wear a 34C, and no one has ever complained about my size. A C cup is perfectly normal, and C's and anything below guys love!
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has any one got any tips on how to seduce my mate? (im female hes male) i want him so much but i have no idea where to start. i see him where he works most of the time so i need some pointers on how to get him on his own and that kind of stuff. thanx (link)
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ask him if he wants to come over to your place for a drink or a bite to eat. I would flat out kiss him first of all, and perhaps, if he is into it, you will start making out. Well, making out has its definite benifits. Touch him all over, gently and slowly. It is a huge tease. Kiss him all over. And start slowly taking his clothes off ... or perhaps you can do a striptease for him, and take off yours. Make it fun, and be careful.
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well im now 13 and have masterbated since i was 11 and i was wondering if i continue masterbation will i ever go through puberty
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Technically you are already in the phases of puberty because you are masterbating
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Okay this might be a stupid question but i heard that u bleed the first time u have sex but i was wondering if its normal to bleed any time after the first time..? (link)
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um, yeah, if your on your period. If you mean right after, it could just be the blood travelling slow ... but if you mean a couple of days after, then you should get checked out
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Well, my boyfriend and I are going to have sex for the first time on Tuesday.
I was just wondering if I should, like, shave you-know-where. I've tried shaving that hair before, but it didn't really go over so well... It was still stubbly and I couldn't get rid of that, and it was really just wierd.
I was wondering if the hair would gross him out or something... Would it? (link)
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Hey there. I dont think it would gross him out. lol. If you feel more comfortable with the hair, keep it, and if you want to shave it, do it. Yeah, it gets stubby, but you have to shave enough to get the stubble away. go to http://www.sex-project.com and they have some great advice on shaving (dont worry, it isnt a porn site, lol)
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I am a virgin and I am ready to have sex i think about it all the time but i'm afraid that it might hurt. My question it what does the first time haveing sex feel like? Is is digusting and painful or is it wild and crazy in good way? (link)
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Hey there! Well, your fear is confirmed ... it does hurt, but only the first time. The first ime having sex .... well, mentally, your scared to death and nervous, and physically, when he enters you, just the tip of the penis will sting a lot. It will sting like .... getting cut there with a razor a bunch of times. lol. And when he pushes it the rest of the way in, it hurts a lot. It brought tears to my eyes ... BUT DONT STOP IT, because you'll just have to put up with it next time. As your first time sex progresses, the pain lessens a bit, because your body isnt so shcoked with a foreign body part in you. It's painful, not disgusting, lol.
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theres this girl i like a lot and i know she likes me and tomorrow she is coming over and its not like ive never kissed anyone or anything but i want someone elses opinion...what is the best way to get into a situation where you start kissing someone without just throwing yourself to them (link)
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Try a romantic reproach. Say something really sweet, something that will make her blush. Take your hand and put it on the side of her neck, and slide it up to her cheek. Look her in the eyes, lean in and kiss her the way you want. Believe me, her toes will be curling from it.
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Ok this is a real question i really want to know why do most girls think all guys want is sex it drives me mental because i actually flipped out on someone who asked a question and said anyways dont all guys just want to get laid it drives me mental and i just want to know why they think this cause i know when i get a g/f i actually want a relationship. (link)
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good for you. Do you want to know why most women think men want sex. It is bbecause MOST men want sex. But not all of them. You, and a rare few guys out there, want a relashinship. Sex is not the most important thing to you, and that's great. I understand why it would drive you mental ... just whenever someone says something like that to you again, just tell them that your not like that, and are actually looking for love, and if they know you well enough, and trust you, they'll believe you. Dont stand up for all men, because your standing up for a large population of players and sex a holics.
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im a 16 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been together for 3 months... we have had sex in the past btu today i let him take my anal virginity... and it hurt really bad... now i knwo the first time it will hurt that is just a given but will it always hurt? i want to do it again cuz the good feeling i got out of it was really good but the pain was really bad... will that eventually go away? i have one more question... i swore on my life i would never let anyone take my anal virginity but i let him to show him how comftorble i am with him and how much i love him but now im having the feeling somethings going to go wrong... am i just thinking to much because of the trust i put into him or what? im so confused please help? (link)
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Hey there. It is totally normal for it to hurt really bad. I wont always hurt. Just like your vagina, it will stretch a bit to fit in a penis, if you do it often. If you do it a couple of monthes at a time, it'll hurt a bit more because your not helping your body assume the forign body part. You shouldnt swear on your life you wont do certain sexual things, because you'll probley feel comfortable in doing them later on. You shouldnt have to do a sexual thing to prove to him your comfortable with him and that you love him. I mean, sex is something you do when you love someone, but its not something to prove your love to each other. The feeling that something is going to happen occurs all the time. I feel that way sometimes. You are thinking to much, one of the flaws of women is, in fact, thinking too much. We over analyze the litle things, and the big things and we begin to doubt the trust we put into men. I got through it all the time. If you ever have any trouble, please message me on here, or email me at this_sucks92@hotmail.com, and i'll help you out anytime. good question!
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Me and my boyfriend have been together 1-year-4-months today AND well we have not done ANYTHING sexual. well i want to lead on to start doing sexual things but i don't know how. can you guys explain your first times or how you lead on to doing sexual things for the first time
thanks-
confused.. (link)
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um, we started making out, like most couple. And we talked about sex a lot beforehand. We got comfortable with the subject, then we started touching each other in places, and then one day we were both really horney, and were making out, and we did it. lol.
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ok well i have been going out with this guy for a while now and every thing is going really good but i want to take it to the next leave and i dont know what to do can anyone help me
p.s. i dont really know how to give a guy head or like how i am supposed to let him fingure me can anyone help me please? (link)
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just talk to him about it. After that everything comes naturally.
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hiya, my friend has just recently got a new boyfriend. she has had one before and had sex and her mum didnt no. im scared she will have sex again beacuse today she said to her other friend that she did something with him, and im thinking it may well be sex, cos she sed she was in a shed (by theirselves).
anyone give me advice plze?
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well, it might not be sex. They ould have done anything ... oral sex, masturbation, they could be just making out. I think that you should concentrate more on you then your friend though. I mean, dont become self involved ... but let your friend make her own decisions. Just make sure she is being safe
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