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so ive taken preg tests from my school twice.. nd they both came out that im NOT pregnant and they are sposed to be really good pregnancy tests.. but im sitll 8 weeks late for my period..
WHAT SHOULD I DO? what do you think?
Go the doctor, duh.
Guys and girls if you can answer this. What is your favorite kind of underwear on a girl and why?
Probably thongs.
I was at this dance last night and all of a sudden there were like five guys staring at my ass, and trying to look up my skirt. They were also touching my butt. What does this mean? What do they want? Do they like me?
This can mean a various number of things. They could just be horny & want to have mad sex with you, or they could just find you really hot. If you feel uncomfortable, then simple solution, don't wear a skirt. It's not that hard.
what age is right for sex? i always thought not till your married. what do you think?
I, personally believe in abstinence, which is waiting until you're married. I'm not religious but it's just the fact of waiting for that special person, you know? In other peoples opinions, some think it's retarded to wait that long because you might get married to someone & turns out that there sex isn't "good." =] I don't think any age under 16 is "right." Like I hate 13 year olds that have sex, and then their boyfriends break up with them the next day.. When you have a stable relationship & you know you can trust that person. I think it's right. =]
Okay I don't know if this is sex or something but like i've been getting this white snotty stuff in my underwear. I don't know what it is or what it's from. I'm 13/f to if that will help.
It's discharge & it's very common!
Pretty much all girls go through it, so you don't have anything to worry about. You get it before you start your period - during your period - or just in between! :)
okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea.
I've never been fingered before, so I can't tell you from personal experience. But, from most of my friends, it varies. To some girls it hurts, to others it doesn't. It just depends on whether or not you use tampons & how tight you actually are. Try it out yourself, and see how many fingers you can actually fit in you until it hurts. Boys just don't understand, so when they finger you, they won't know when to stop putting fingers in unless you tell them :)
umm i feel kin dof uncomfortable asking this but here it goes. im 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. we really love eachother. i think we're finally ready for sex. but im still a virgin and i heard that it hurts the first time. and im not good with pain at all. i dont want to freak out if it hurts. any advice?
I'm sure if you've been dating this guy for five years, he'll know how you will handle situations, like sex. He'll know what to do & he'll make sure you're comfortable, I'm sure of it. I'm still a virgin, but some of my friends have had sex in the past, and for most girls it definately hurts the first time, so it's very common. But, to other girls it won't hurt AS much. If it doesn't hurt for you, then you're extremely lucky, because it's very rare. I'm sure that if you freak out if it hurts, he can take it out, and you can try again some other time. Before that, maybe try oral sex to see if he can make you a little wider, ready for sex? Good luck hun!! :)
ok the other day my g/f and i were making out and i dont know what got into me but i stuck my hand down her pants and she didnt like it. she was ok that i put it down there but not too far and one time i think i got a little too far cuz after that she seemed depressed. now i feel like a jerk. afterward she said she sortof liked it but im not sure. wut got into me and how can i make it up to her? by the way im 14.
Sometimes girls are shy. Like myself, if my boyfriend (if I had one :() were to do something unexpected like that, I would seriously freak out. Him being my boyfriend should know how I would feel when he does certain things, and for you to do that is totally out of order. In the same sense, you need to write her a letter and tell her how much you love her & how sorry you are for putting your hands down her pants. Tell her that you only wanted her to be comfortable around you, and you didn't know how she'd react to it. :)
Do you think Iam ready to have sex? Tell after reading this.
Well Im 13 female, I live in Pensacola, Florida. My b/f's name is Stephen. I really like him. I get really "exited" around him. He's so hott. He really likes me. He wants to screw me. I dont know if Im ready. Im a virgin. I want to but Im so nervous, Im afraid I'll screw up! Do you think Im ready? If so,,, any hints on how to do it and preferences from you guys, would be fine. please do a good answer. ill rate 5's to all answers that help.
You aren't ready.
You're 13 years old, and you "really like" your boyfriend. But honestly, do you even understand anything about sexual intercourse? Do you know what you'll go through, and how he's supposed to put a condom on, or any sexual positions? Probably not.
Use common sense.
my friend andrew wants to know if u finger a girl if she hasnt had her period is it bad or will anything happen?
thank you
Hehe, nothing will happen. It'll be pretty much the same as fingering a girl who's had her period.
♥ naimee
P.S. If you're interested in joining AMAC [Amy&MarysAWESOMEclub] Feel free to leave a message in my inbox, and I'll get back to you right away. You must write a 50-word minimum letter in your message, as to why you want to be awesome!! =] Trust me. It's worth it!!
ive heard of girls in the shower taking the shower head and kinda putting it "near" their private areas...well im a girl so how would i do omething like this without the detachable shower head? thanks?
Hehe.
You could like, use the faucet instead, and put it on a warm temperature, and put your legs up against the wall and have the faucet directly going in your vagina moving closer and closer to the faucet until it you can't handle it anymore, and supposebly it's supposed to turn females on, and then you just turn it colder and colder and colder, until you climaxxx. =] Haha. I use jets, =P So I don't find this gross AT ALL.
i have never had a crush on girls just boys i wanna have sex with boys. with girls the same and i fantasize about doing stuff to them tell me what is wrong with me this is the worse i have ever felt in my life. i rate high if u help me good
Some people have these feelings. You could be bisexual, but right now you're just seeking your sexual preference. It's not a bad thing, =] Don't worry too much about it!
Well, i'm 14/f and my best friend is a girl and my age. We've experimrnted a couple of times this early year. She ended it in july this year (2005)cause she wanted things back the way they were when we didn't experiment and were close soul sisters (as we call ourselves to each other). I never got to say my total feelings about the whole thing. She says at times that she wishesi could be her girlfriend but in this world it isn't logical. I can't help, but want to kiss her and hold her passionatly. She's about to go on a cruise on Christmas eve this year and the i finally want to show her how i feel so the last day when i spend time with her i want to before a walk out the door i wanted to say this: I want you to so much be with me, but unfortunatly in your logical world that's not possible. Then i would hug her and kiss her softly on the lips and rush out the door. i just wanted to leave her with a thought in her head as she was on the cruise to let her know finally how i feel. Should i go for it?? PLLLLZZZ HELP ME!! I RATE HIGH!
~queencece~
OMG.
That sounds so sweet. :) You should totally do it! Go for it, I mean what do you have to lose? You might regret it if you don't!
YOU GO GIRL. :)
I am 13 and I still don't have my period!I don't know what is going on, I weigh more than a lot of my friends and they all already have them!!!What do I do????
Love always(please help),
Gina
All girls' bodies work differently. Don't worry about it, start worrying about it when you're 18.
hey i'm a guy. this girl i know is starting to scare me. we used to talk about everything and always have a blast, but a few months ago we started to talk less. i noticed she wasn't as active as she was before, and asked her about it. just as it seemed to be, she told me she was depressed and didn't like the kind of life she was living. she went on about all the bad things in her life with family, school, friends, herself, etc. i tried to point out good things to her, but she always came back at me with something to disprove it. after not talking for a week or so, she said she just wanted to end her life and to get away from everything. i didn't take this too serious at first, but lately she hasn't been eating, barely talks, and hasn't been looking too healthy. if she is thinking about suicide, what should i do? i asked her about it and she didn't want to talk. should i tell her parents? please help
Yes, tell her parents! That's exactly what I would do! Or, maybe just try & talk to her one last time. Tell her that she's scaring you and what she's doing isn't safe. Reassure her that you will always be here for her, if she ever needs to talk. Even if it isn't a parent you tell, tell a counselor at your school.
But, yes. Definitely tell her parents, right away. =]
Ok.....
Whats a gynocologist app. all about??
Im not a virgin.. but last time I went to the doctors, I was. Well... We all know how the doctors ask u if youve ever had sex before and whatnot..and I really don't feel like telling my doctor that Ive have had sex, but i have a feeling that they ask that question to make sure that you stay healthy. My boyfriend and I lost our virginites to eachother though, so I know that he didnt contract any diseases or anything from anyone else. We use a condom everytime, and I think I would know (from symtoms) if I had a serious disease or STD from having sex. I was wondering though, would it be terribly bad, if I lied to my doctor about having sex? Also, I DO NOT want her to tell my mom. CAN she do that? ??? .. Just wondering..
This same question goes for weed. 90% of people have tried weed. I, myself, have done it probably about two times. Doctors ask you if youve ever tried it..and I want to lie... Could they possibly know I have before? By like my pee sample or something? would it be such a crime to lie about this??
Yes, she can if your underage. She will know as well. DEFINITELY. So you shouldn't lie just tell your mom the straight up truth before you actually go. No, they won't know you smoked weed unless you did it 48 hours before your doctors appointment, and they'd find out from a pee sample.
i shave "down there" but i keep either cutting myself or getting those little red bumps
i used a new razor but i cut myself and im extremly careful and if i shave with the way the hair grows it doesnt get it all..
can someone help me with this?
il rate 5 to everyone who isnt an ass.
(: I sure can hehe. I'm jk. Well I'll try & tell you what I do. Make sure that you're shaving in the opposite direction that your hairs are growing, because the more you go over your hairs, the more worse it's going to be, you know afterwards? It might be sore. After I'm done shaving, I put rubbing alcohol all over where I shaved (which is everywhere) so there. But try not to get it inside because it really burns. Ouuuch =/ Hehe. After the alcohol drys, I put baby powder on it, and it says smooth like until the hairs start growing back. & Make sure you always use a new razor before you shave down below. Hehe. (:
okay im a f/16 and i shave down there. is that weird if im not having sex at all and dont plan on it any time soon? does anyone else?
Yeah, I am exactly like that. I think it's more hygenic to be completely hairless down there. (: Some girls like it, and some don't! But, I totally agree with you.
does it hurt to have sex the 1st time for girls?
will the guy leave you?
and im to scared to wear tampons so do you think it will hurt?
dont be a bitch.
i rate high
Well, I'm still a virgin, but from what my friends say about it, IT HURTS. But everyone is different, so it might not hurt for you, but may hurt for someone else, y'know? Depending on what type of guy you're dating & how far into the relationship can also vary your second question. Honestly, no one knows if the guy will leave you, but there's a chance. Wearing tampons doesn't hurt. Well it didn't for me, but it might for you. Again, it's totally different, you might be completely opposite of me. But I'm not completely sure. But the first time you try a tampon it's very discomforting, and unusual because you're not used to having something in your vagina pretty much all day. But you just get used to it after a while!
Hello! I am working on a paper on abortions for my health class and I need to find out how much an abortion costs. I would just type it in the search bar but then my mom might types in something that starts with an "A" she might see the word abortion and get suspicious. So please and thank you verry much!! I will rate high for good answers!!
Depending on which clinic & what state you live in, it can vary. But from an estimate, an abortion can cost anywhere around $300 or more. But the costs can increase after the first three months of pregnancy.