umm i feel kin dof uncomfortable asking this but here it goes. im 18 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years. we really love eachother. i think we're finally ready for sex. but im still a virgin and i heard that it hurts the first time. and im not good with pain at all. i dont want to freak out if it hurts. any advice?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category? Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions? naimee answered Saturday December 31 2005, 10:31 pm: I'm sure if you've been dating this guy for five years, he'll know how you will handle situations, like sex. He'll know what to do & he'll make sure you're comfortable, I'm sure of it. I'm still a virgin, but some of my friends have had sex in the past, and for most girls it definately hurts the first time, so it's very common. But, to other girls it won't hurt AS much. If it doesn't hurt for you, then you're extremely lucky, because it's very rare. I'm sure that if you freak out if it hurts, he can take it out, and you can try again some other time. Before that, maybe try oral sex to see if he can make you a little wider, ready for sex? Good luck hun!! :) [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
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