okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea.
xXpInkCUTie200Xx answered Sunday January 1 2006, 6:54 pm: the irst time of course it hurts. but if you do it more then it will not hurt as much and be better and more enjoyable. just do me a favor, and dont be stupid and try it with a perfume bottle b/c some one did that and the cap came off and got stuck so...yeah good luck!
xO||_MENiNA_||Ox answered Sunday January 1 2006, 5:06 pm: well..if ur a virgin then yeh it will hurt a lot at first...but the more you do it..the better it gets.
MummuM answered Sunday January 1 2006, 3:37 pm: This really depends on the guy, how comfortable you are with him and how hard or rough he's being with you. While he's doing this, don't be all scared. Try to relax and it'll feel so much better. Don't tense up, because then it'll hurt.
Also, if he's going rough, tell him to stop. He shouldn't just jab his finger(s) into you, he should take it slow and be gentle. Since it's your first time, tell him to take it slow at first. Then you can tell him to go harder or what not when you're most comfortable with it. ♥ [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
naimee answered Sunday January 1 2006, 2:42 pm: I've never been fingered before, so I can't tell you from personal experience. But, from most of my friends, it varies. To some girls it hurts, to others it doesn't. It just depends on whether or not you use tampons & how tight you actually are. Try it out yourself, and see how many fingers you can actually fit in you until it hurts. Boys just don't understand, so when they finger you, they won't know when to stop putting fingers in unless you tell them :) [ naimee's advice column | Ask naimee A Question ]
xOViLLYxO answered Sunday January 1 2006, 4:29 am: It all depends.If the guy doesn't know what he is going and just does it all fast and hard it will hurt.But if he does it slow and right it won't.If the guy knows what he is doing I wouldn't worry at all. ♥ [ xOViLLYxO's advice column | Ask xOViLLYxO A Question ]
twistedteen25 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 3:16 am: well if the guy jams his finger inside and doesnt care if you bleed yah it hurts but if he does it like slowly and takes his time yada yada yada then no it won't its just like fingering yourself. and no its not a gay question
ps make sure he washes he hands before he sticks his finger or fingers in your vagina [ twistedteen25's advice column | Ask twistedteen25 A Question ]
xMagicDragonflyx91 answered Sunday January 1 2006, 2:02 am: Fingering Might Not Hurt But Losing you vriginity Will it's almost inevitable really. do keep in mind your hymen is really nothing more than a small mass of human tissue. If your really ready to take that step make sure you use all nessacary procautions and that your communtion with your boy friend is good if you have tobe afraid to askhim to be gental or to stop are yhou sure your ready to be having sex with him at all? Never Be afraid to say It's your body and your future stand up for it and protext it.
Hope I help
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