okay.. i've never done anything like this before so i need help. me and my bf are planning on taking it to another step. I've never been fingered or w/e so i was wondering.. does it hurt? thanks for listening.. kind of gay question but yea.
the irst time of course it hurts. but if you do it more then it will not hurt as much and be better and more enjoyable. just do me a favor, and dont be stupid and try it with a perfume bottle b/c some one did that and the cap came off and got stuck so...yeah good luck!
hope i helped
rchyyy ♥
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well im supper bored so i decided to write in here.lol.Rachy im glad that were friends bc i really dont knoe what i would do without u.
LOVE YA
Gabby:-*
haha thanx gabs (my wife ;P)
♥ rachy ♥
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Ok what if you had a boy friend and a bunch of girls were all over him.Then one day you seen your boy friend grabb another girl and was flurting with her what would you do?
well first i would ask him what it was all about. if he was doin it b/c he likes her...then you guys should just talk about it... but for the most part i really wouldnt worry about it that muc..unless u get like really suspicous that like hes cheating but...i would just ask him though and if it really bugs you then tell him and if he really cares for you he'll understand
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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well i like this guy and he sorta likes me. i asked my friend to ask him if he liked me and he said i was annoying...then she asked him if i not annonying ne more would he go out with me and he said yea deffinently..how do i become "unannoying"??????
well first of all i would ask him why he thinks you are so annoying...if he says for example that you talk to much...try not to...thats all i can really say
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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ok well hear i go.. i really feel uncmfterable telling you this but im i confused person.. i mean i have godd looks nice hair a slim body.. i dont know should i tell you or should i not .. to be or not to be that it the question... so ne waysss... who am i ????????? u gotto guess.. ill sign my name as ...agne.... but that only stands 4 sotin!!! ill keep writin till you get it right
cya
well...um...im not quite sure what youre asking... so...if you want to talk to me and tell me...ummm...you can IM me at swii mi n shOrty on aol....sorry
♥ rachy ♥
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ok.... i was dating my best friends ex bf and she was getting to the point of making us mad so one night we were talking and we thought it would be best if we were just friends. I mean i like him alot and were really good friends now but i think i should have said no but eveyone was tellin me that it was my fault that i said yes wat should i do????
well...first of all...u have to think.. did you talk to her about it b4 you went out with him? if you did then its ok b/c u talked to her about it and the people who are tellin you its your fault...are just stupid...but if you didnt then i hate to say it but it is your fault and i personaly think she has some what of a right to be mad at you...especially if she is not over him. well hun...thats all i can say
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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hey ok i have been having troubles, me and my boyfriend have just started having sex after we have been going out for 7 months and i dont know if it is to early or what but i really love him and also lately i have been making dumb choices like smoking and cutting and i dont know what is wrong with me i just get really randomly pissed off and cry or am sad for no reason and i dont know what to do i keep wondering if it is too early to have sex i mean im olny 14 but i dont know i do love him and he is a sweetheart but i just need some advice and i know you know who this is but ill see ya tomorrow kk love ya rach!!!!!!
well...i think that if you really believe that you love him and you feel its right i think its ok that ur having sex...but about the cutting and smoking...thats not good...if im correct about who it is...it will interfere big time w/ur sport and ik the coaches will notice it...and besides..youve heard and seen my stories and you know how bad the cutting is for you...like uk that both coaches have seen my scars and like..yeah its bad...but other than that...about you crying all the time.. thats ok...i do it too a lot of the time...it helps sometimes uk?well... i really hope i helped...and if i didnt then...u can just talk to me...uk when u can see me!
lyl hoe ;) ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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Well there is this guy I like and he has a girlfriend. When I found out I started to cry. I was so pissed off cause I like him so much. I dont know if I should move on and and date more people or just keep on liking him. And it hurts me so much that he has a girlfriend because he told me to my face that he liked me but I never told him that I like him. Was that my mistake? I just dont know anymore. I want to get him but I dont know how? I dont know what i should do?
heyy well i am in the same exact situation except the guy doesnt like me and i told him but.. what i think you should do is for right now let it go. i mean you dont want to tell him you like him if he likes you and has a gf b/c then he will have to make a decision on weather to domp his current gf of stay w/her.. so what i would do is stay friends and wait to see what happens. if they break up then go for it and tell him how you feel but if they stay together then i would just it go. its hard ik b/c i had to but you also dont want to interfere.
hope i helped♥
♥ rachy ♥
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I tryd telling my parents i needed to go to a hospital and get help and they made me go to my theripist and my theripist said w.e the hospital can do they can do but they dont understand! im trying to get help and they wont listen! I just cut myself with scisors and if i dont get help its gona get worse! WHY WONT THEY LISTEN TO ME!
depending on the hospitol im pretty sure that you can go to the hospital by yourself.. if you are looking for help they will help you. they might keep you there overnight if the think you are a serious danger to yourself and if that happends then you have to have your parents come and check you out. but im 80% sure you can go to the hosptaal without your parents.
hope i heled and good luck &hearts
♥ rachy ♥
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hi im 13 and i have had a stedy b/f for about 5 years... we have been fooling around since i was 11 and now i just started my period and i wanna kno...... should i stop... or just started beindg a little bit mor proctected??
ok..personally i dont think you should be doing that type of stuff at that age but thats none of my business...if u are having sex and you are worried about itthe you really shouldnt be doing it. but if you really feel comfortable with it then i would say to just be a little bit more careful with what you aredoing.
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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I have so many things going wrong with myself. But I am not sure if I am sick or not. There are so many explanations out there for everything that I don't know anymore. Here are a few things.
1. I cut, usually about 2 times a month.
2. I wash my hands and clean obsessivly until the tension goes away that I feel beforehand, and if I don't do this then something bad will happen.
3. I pull out the ends of my hair on urge.
4. I feel tension and stress about everything.
5. I have hallucinations throughout the day. I see presence that I know isn't there and I think my mind plays so many tricks on me.
6. I have suicidal thoughts.
7. My mood can change from anything. It cam change if someone makes me mad, or I think about the past, or it can vary from a position I am in like the way I am sitting or standing or talking can put me in weird moods.
8. I am so tired all the time and get depressed easy.
9. I think someone is out to kill me all the time.
10. I am very withdrawl and find it hard to express myself.
11. I have a hard time dealing with getting close to people and intamicy.
12. I have alot of fears of being rejected and feel like I am a failure all the time. That Im not important.
13. I have lost alot of weight over the past year due to lack of eating.(eating issues)
14. I find myself crying for no reason sometimes.
15. I suffer from sleep paralysis and have obessions with evil things.
16. I am never happy during the day or during summer. I think I might have seasonal depression in this area.
See, so many things are wrong? I am so confused and I can't think straight. I want help so bad, or some advice on what's going on.
wow man it looks like you have quite a problem.. what you need to do is talk to somebody. if thats a counselor, psycologist, parents, teacher what ever of even your est friend you just really need totalk to someone about why you dothose things. if that doesnt help at all thn what you need to do is go see your doctor and find out what is wrong with you.
hope i helped ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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ok... i was goin out with someone for a long time and then he broke up with me.I have been datin other ppl but i still like him i mean he still sort of likes me but not alot.plus i am dating someone really nice but i like never talk to him. wat should i do about everything i mean should i dump the guy im dating and let the other guy ask me out???
please help me
aww well im sorry that you n your ex broke up.. and i kinda know the situation you r in.. well the first thing i would say is just apriciate who youve got. i mean think about how bad it would hurt if a guy u really liked dumped you to go out w/ his ex. i mean if the guy you r dating is really nice like you say he is then dont give that up! some times its really hard to find a nice bf and not some player. instead of thinking about the other guy you should feel lucky for having the one you have right now. but of course this is only my opinion and im not telling you you have to do it. im just telling you what i would do.
i hope i helped!!!
&heart; rachy &heart;
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there is like this super hott guy and i like wanna talk to him but i cant, i always get nervous and stuff like that!! and normally im never nervous around guys!!! idk if i should take the chance and talk to him or just not talk to him!! but i want to become his friend rele badly.... rachy... what should i do!!! and what should i talk about with him if i do talk to him????
well.. what i think you need to do is just take the chance, be brave and talk to him. it may sound hard and it may be a little hard to start talking to him but i think that once you do start itll be a little easier. i think the thing is u just need to get used to talking to him thats all. i mean.. if you really think about it all you are doing is talking to him i mean ur not asking him out or n e thing.. but i think you should just talk to him and get to know him better.
hope i helped!!!
♥ rachy ♥
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y ru so mean to people sometimes?
umm.. i didnt know i was.. im sorry..
♥ rachy ♥
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hey..how are ya! well, im really bored..good luck...and yes, im gonna save ya a seat tomarrow. well, ttyl...stay KOOL! lol..j/k
heyy sarah lol
lyl gurlie ♥
♥ rachy ♥
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here is the thing.. im going out with someone but i like his bestfriend too and he likes me back(he told me).... and i feel like i am more closer to my boyfriends bestfriend than my bf cause i talk to his friend more than my bf... and i kinda like his friend more... and i dont wanna dump my bf for his friend cause thats mean and i dont want him to hate me and i dont know what i should do.... cause if i go out with his friend my bf mite hate me and his friend and i dont want to do that to his friend....
wow.. well lets just say ive been there before and.. it sucks.. so i know what its like.. well first of all i would be glad of what you have already. this is tough.. but ill try.. umm.. if you really like this guy enough that you would dump you bf for him.. then i say go for it.. but if i was you when i was dumping him i would try not to be harsh b/c that would make it worse.. say that youd rather be friends or something.. and then i would wait a little bit befor going out with the other guy.. but if you really lie your boyfriend then keep him. just be thankfull of what youve got. i can not make the desision for you but thats just what i would do.
i relly hope i helped!
*rachy*
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okay..well im dating this guy and um he don't call er anything but he goes to a diffrent skool and lives sorta near, he has tons of girls that are friends and well one time i called him and he was with tons of them and he gave the phone to his 2 friends or whatever and i was talkin to him and one of the girls was like nickk want to screw like last nite or w.e and well i was only talkin to his 2 friends and the 1 girl was saying he was like dating him or w.e in the background..and well i didn't get to talk to him relly because of it.. do u think he mite be cheating on me and should i break up with him???and plus the only time he calls me is to like come over or whatever..so what do you think?
wow.. thats kind of tuff b/c my first instinct would be to jsut talk to him about it.. b/c idk whats going on in his life so i can not make the decision for you. but the problem with you talking to him is he might deny it and that would get into a whole nother mess....... ok if i were you first i would talk to him about it and tell him whats bugging you. if he doesnt pay any attention and doesnt think anything about it then i would maybe talk to his friends and see what they have to say. but i would deff. talk to him first b/c if he really likes you then he will listen to you and hear you out. if after you talk to him he doesnt do anything about it and nothing changes.. then.. i would have to say go with your heart and do what you think is right for you. i mean.. if he is putting you through stress.. then id think hes worth the trouble. but if you think he is.. then stick with it. what i would do.. is at night while youre lying in bed look up at the ceiling and just think about it. which ever decision you are leaning toward i owuld go for.
i really hope i helped!
*rachy*
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I am a former self-injurer, and I finally stopped cutting at the end of 8th grade (I'm going into 9th). I've been happy since the end of 8th grade and haven't had a reason to cut, or I'v refrained myself from cutting. But that's how I deal with stress. And I'm afraid I'll relapse this year from stress. I've been to therapy, and I write a lot. Is there any other way I could possibly deal with stress that isn't destructive?
thanks in advance!
okay, first of all i cut so i know what you are going through. you cut because of stress right? well if thats the case then if kyou think something is stressing you out then you need to just let it go. sometimes if you are stressed out playing a sport or doing something with your friends will help you get your mind off whatever is stressing you out. this doesnt work for me but whenever you feel the need to cut keep a rubber band on your wrist and snap it and play with it instead of cutting. what sometimes helps me when i am stressed out is talking to one of my colse friends about whatever is stressing me.. if none of this works for you then you can go to the website www.selfinjury.net and they have tons of healthy alternatives.
i really hope i helped and good luck!
~*rachy*~
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i started cuttin in 6 th grade.. im now goin into 8th .. i stopped for 8 months but then my mom and this lady she knows got into a verbal fight and i hate fighting so i cut again.. [between the 8 months i only cut 2 but not bad] i got so upset that i cut and i left like 19 deep cuts... my mom and her best friend patti dont know i cut but patti knows what is going on so i have kind of been living with her a couple nights during the week because she doesnt want me to be around the enviroment.. well the lady moved out and everything is normal but now i still get really mad and cut.. is there anyway to stop cutting other than rubber bands and the red marker because it doesnt work.
[ i have told one adult who is 20 and she is talking to me when i go to work with her monday wednesday and friday but i still cut ] .. sorry it was so long. * thanks
ok. i am a cutter myself and i have been doing it now for almost 3 years now so i know exactly what you are going through. like someone else said it really helps if you talk to one of your really close friends. another thing that i hvae been doing is make a notebook or a binder or whatever and write about it. like i write poems and sometimes that helps. also what you can do is play a sport or do something to get your mind off of it. if that doesnt work then try cutting up an old pillow or something. if that doesnt work then maybe you could try throwing out what ever you use to cut.
if none of that stuff works for you then maybe you should try going to this website:
www.selfinjury.net/
its got a lot of alternative that you could try
hope i helped and good luck!
*rachy*
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how the heck can u think michael phelps is the hottest .. look at those huge ears ... now ian thorp is differnt
idk i just think hes hott ill admit ian thorpe is also hott but i personally like phelps better
*rachy*
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