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HEY GUYS. I figure i know a lot about advice. I have been threw a lot from family violence and growing up in environments with a lot of stress and stuff to relationships and sex questions. i have had my best friends move away, feel the pain of a lost love one, feel the hurt of loving some one so much it kills, and many different levels of love, pain, sorrow, and CONFUSION! so just ask away ill try to helps ya out ;D later

Hey so Its been a while since I have been on here just wanted to update a little.
I have had a few more life experiences. I have a best friend new to my life as of a few years ago now and she is amazing. I couldn't ask for some one better.I lost my first love from stupid choices i made and now am trying things a little differently i won't do the same stupid stuff as before. Hit me up ID LOVE TO HELP!!
Oh and I started college :)

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hey neighbor! so yah my parentals are really trying to make me do football but they arent actually MAKING me. they just keep talkin bout it and saying like if i dont wanna do it, i have to call the coach! ugh! i dont know how to convince them that i dont like football :(. i just wanna do music and stuff so i dont know please if you have any ideas, tell me!

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Kyle

call up the coach :D tell you're parents you are doing band or what ever makes you happy :p you only go threw high school once ... hopefully and you can only take the classes while it lasts so GO FOR IT. make you're self happy

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i have always been a really sexual person, the problem is - my boyfriend isn't. I have values and I am not a whore, but I have always had alot of sexual tensions so when my boyfriend of 2 years suggested we have sex I was more than ready. After we did it I realized how much I really like it and was always up for it but he didn't have the same sex drive. I don't want to pressure him into anything so I don't talk about it much, but I can't help who I am I really love to feel sexy and have fun and who else to do that with than the one I love!

I think the sex is good for him he just told me he just doesn't hve that much of a sex drive - he's 18 so I don't understand why. I am not an unattractive girl, and he loves me I don't doubt that, I just don't know why he doesn't want to have sex? I compliment him all the time so I don't think he is insecure...

I'm a really sexual person, and this is driving me crazy what can I do?

well he may be doing it because its kind of new to him.. but if you know he wasn't a virgin before then it could be cus its a love thing for him ( he waited 2 years) its special to him so he may not want to just have sex alot.. i am the same way sometimes with my bf i want to have sex alot and we just can't or he will wana have sex but its just not hat i want at the moment i would rather jsut lay with him or something sweet and show how much i just wana be with him. it could be a mental thing for him. He loves you but he only wants to do it when he is expressing his love the most being with you alone could be what makes him happy. hope i help figure out some understanding :\

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so my boyfriend wants to finger me
but im not sure
because one, i can only fit one finger in my vagina
is this normal?
two, i shave all my pubic hair off but it grows back
does it bother a guy if theres stubble?
please help

1 if the guy wants it saved then he has to deal with the stubble and i have not heard any complaints about a little stubble any way and 2 one finger is completely normal . your vagina is new at sexual things . so it will stay like that at least till you have sex and after that it goes back unless you have alot of repeated sex.causing it to be loose

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Well every guy i date wants to have sex with me
but im really scared and want to wait till i find the right guy or im married and they dump me should i just give it up to them?

no no no ... that just shows they only want one thing. in your pants . you have the right idea. because when you meet the right guy he will under stand and want you happy and respect the fact that that is your choice. keep up the good work hun:D

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i lost my virginity last night, but it hurt and it was reallllly hard for him to fit. he's pretty huge.. so i guess it's understandable.. but is this normal? im afraid that im just too small now. do you think this is perfectly normal? did other people go through the same thing? thanks

yea so . u where a virgin before. untouched. you are supposed to be tight and it does hurt the first 2 times its better the second time but the first time it hurts . its totally normal. and if he was big, bigger than most it would be really understandable for it to hurt more. anything els i can help you with let me know

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Okay, so i used to think hooking up was sex...most people do. Well some people in my school were saying like "omg jen and bret hooked up this weekend!" (im in 8th grade btw) and i thought wait, its way to early for sex and i asked wait what did they do, they said they made out. So people-boys and girls, of all ages, what in your mind is hooking up?

some times it can just be hanging out. or maybe like they started dating. hung out. whet some where together .. made out.. it has lots of different meanings but probably just means they got to gather in that since. i see hooking up in different contexts so yea it means sex. but it means getting together or meeting up 2

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when you massage someone's penis through their pants? enough to make them cum. so, basically like... grabbing their penis, through their pants. haha. is there a name for that?

i think not for sure that you can call it petting also

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im a little embarrised the pink thing on my vagina sis really big like the lips or whatever and when i stand up u can still see it... will this turn guys off?

pretty much EVERY ONES vagina is nasty and does something like that so dont feel bad about it or what ever.. some guys are just like o yay vagina lol and they shouldn't be to picky since we let them get that we.. are the controllers lol jk but no anyway i wouldn't worry about it they won't get turned off unless they are like a super picky fedish guy

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Okay, kind of an odd question, but I'll ask it anyway...

So there was this show on TV about these people whos mentality of their sex (f/m) didn't match what they actually were (the opposite). I know there's a name for this but I forget lol but anyway, this girl always felt like she was a guy so she took hormones to begin to transform herself into a guy (no comment) and she made the statement that while she (he?) was taking the supplements, s/he felt like a 14/15 y/o guy with "strong sexual urges"... okay... so my question is... do girls go through something like this like during puberty? I don't recall it...

some do. it really depends on the people they meet and if there open anof with themselves to be able to think like that. i believe had the basis to be "bi " or what ever its just if you find it repulsive or act on it or what ..

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what are the signs girls get before there period? like befoe they start for the first time :D

zits, moody,mabey an upset stomach.those are a few

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Ok, i want to have sex with my bf but i dont know how to tell him im ready

can you tell me how to tell him.....

if he has asked you to before just be like im ready if he sais what then like just say it sex or give him a little look and say it. but if you like going abruptly just be like on him lol but ya tell him how you feel make sure your ready and its the right moment wait for the time when yall can and ur ready

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what do you say about making out and fooling around with a guy friend? is it ok? nothing wrong with it...i'm not too sure, it's hard to explain, but you don't have to be in love to make out with a guy or anything, do you?

no its fine . friends with bennifits

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Is bi curious another word for homosexual?
I mean can a man like dick and still be straight?

I personally believe it's for people who are just afraid to admit they are gay in the first place.

o psh no. bi curious means ur curias about sam sex suff but you still love the oposite sex been there. bi is different from gay or "homo" yes u can be straight and still like dick .

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ok so the other night at a party i was sitting behind the house and it was dark out and i was with 2 of my best guy friends. well they kept going up my shorts and down my shirt but no matter how much i told them to stop the one kept touching me down there and down the back of my shorts... they kept following me and even did it secretly when ppl were around!! and then i was laying on the grown and the one guy put his thing right in my face and begged me to suck it and kept pushing it at my mouth but i locked my lips.. so im basically asking was i molested? i hate this feeling i have now

the part of him putting his hands up your shirts and in places bad then kinda there but with everything els its just guys being discusting pigs like the dick in you face and stuff. im sorry hunny this happend to you its not right not right at all

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I masterbate....a lot.

im 15 female and i use things to do it with like: thend ends of a brush or bottles or my finger or shower heads (water pressure)

number 1) is this normal?

number 2) after i orgasim i get thick saliva and then my vagina hirts and i cant touch it anymore bu i also get really un-hoorny.

why? & is that normal?

yes its all normal . ur not horny cus u let it out kinda . and it hurts because you put fricking and stress on your vagina.

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so there is this guy. He is really fine and has a way with words. He is very sweet and fun to be around. Me and him talk dirty to eachother a lot. And one day he said lets hangout. so i said okay and do what? and he said anything. And i said anything but sex? and he said no, im down for that. i want to loose it to you. I really like him and he is special. i am a virgin. and so is he, but he has done everything except sex. and i want to loose it to him!
Should i?
no lectures

watch me get stupidly band for this but ok well if you want to go for it . but its up to u i take that like a love thing . but i wont lecture u

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15/m

ok so dont just think oh no another first makeout case or anything. im really just looking for things to spice up things with my girlfriend. she tells me im a good kisser, other girls in the past have, but whats wrong with wanting to be even better = ]
sooo any tips or website links on the subject you have are greatly appreciated. peacee

ok well if yall are like hot and heavy making out, bite her lip but not to hard in like a sexy way and give her a hot look lol um different tongue movements i guess and change up the amount of toung and the rotation of your toung. pull back to tease her, try new things feed her stuff from yoru mouth lol but its up to her cus some girls don't like alot of that stuff

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which is the best way to have sex? i am only asking because me and my bf are planing on doing it and we are so confused. and i was wondering if you could give directions as well. none of the sites i checked out don't really get to the point. and most wont let a 15 year old in. or you could give me some sites. i would really appreciate it. and my bf does too.

in my opinion to get the best plesure for you and him you sittin gon top is amazing you get what you want and the angle is good and he gets more rubbed that way he laysdown and helps put it in and you sit on top of him stradaled and then just kinda rock and push till it feels good and stuff

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ok so, i don't masturbate or anything, and i'm a virgin, i have no bf or anything like that, but when i TALK about sex, like on the internet or something, or when me and some of my guy friends are just joking around, i feel as if, IF i were a guy, i'd have an erection. what's this called? i', very uninformed about sex, because i plan to stay a virgin until i'm married, hopefully, and my family doesnt talk about masturbation or anything like that. so i'm just wondering what this is called when i feel as if i were a guy i'd have an erection?


14/f.

your horny hun and like a guy girls jakc off 2 so ya

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Okay so on Friday I gave head to a guy for the first time and I didn't really know him (I know it wasn't thebe st idea but please don't judge) so I don't know who he's been with. Then on Saturday, I started to get a bad sore throat which I still have today. Is it just a coincidence that I'm sick or did my throat just geg mildly irritated from giving oral, or something else?

your could have mono or just so infection. u might wana go to the doctore if its mono it will only get worse i just got over the symptems of it

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