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im 5'6 brown hair with some red blue eyes and i love jesus christ more then anything in the world
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E-mail: taytay427@hotmail.com
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Location: texas
Occupation: student
Age: 14
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Member Since: January 23, 2005
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a friend from school died about 3 weeks ago from cancer. now one of my close friends has cancer too. its making me so incredibly frustrated and upset and angry and so worried about my friend all at the same time. i need someone spiritual to please give me a new outlook on all of this, because right now i can't stop praying and questioning why the hell things like this happen. (link)
"for i know the plans i have for you" declares the lord" plant to prosper you plans not to harm you plans to give you a hope and a future"
-jer. 29:11
god has a reason for everything maybe your friend had to go so that you could come to know christ...my friends mom got cancer and because of that her family started going to church and because of that my friend saw the truth and became a christian...if it was not for her moms cancer we are not sure if she would be have a relationship with christ...her mom died about 2 months ago but because of christ they rejoiced that her mom got to be with her savior jesus christ and my friend now knows that she will see her again one day...know that god works through everything and it will all work out for his glory


hey can someone please explain this verse to me: Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Proverbs 31:30 i mean i dont get the last part why are we supposed to fear the Lord? thanks (link)
to fear the lord means to see him as the highest and most powerful this verse means a woman who lives for the lord is to be praised...but remember the only thing that is true is the word of god so dont take me word for it for only the word of god is the truth


I give up. I dont deserve gods love. I am not worthy enough for it. He gives me a gift and i dont use it. I fail one class, i am a porn addict. I give up i dont deserve god anymore. I dont even deserve to live, i, i really dont care. i am not good enough. I am not as loyal to him as i should be. i dont deserve him at all. im done. Please give advice or a way to end it all (link)
dont end your life god is teaching you that you need him he is there and he will alwyas take you back no matter what you do or how far you stray just pray spend time with him remeber you wont be tempted beyond what you can bare but you will have more then you can handel cause he wants to teach us to lean on him please just dont end you life you need to just give everything over to god trust him commit your life to him ask the holy spirit to come into your life ask christ to be the lord of you heart and life live for him just dont end your life he does not want that he has a plan for you (jer. 29:11) trust him and his plan


What is the absolute fastest way to lose weight? I can't even stand to look at myself in the mirror. I'm 13, female, 5'4", 140 lbs. Even if you don't think it sounds that bad, it is. I refuse to take off my sweatshirt in school, sometimes even at home. I know that starving myself isn't the best thing to do because you get bloated from not eating and that's worse, but right now that's the only solution i can think of. Please help me (link)
i have been there before to i was 12 and 175 thats pretty dang big and i took the wrong road to looseing weight...i starved myself...trust me it is not the answer you wont find the results you are looking for just cut back on what you eat and stop when you are full...dont just keep eating to keep eating it will work and hey get active in a sport or something or hey even just put in an old workout tape or find a tv show with one on it just dont starve your self take it from someone who has been there before it will not be what you want


Okay, so, there's this great guy...really smart, really honest...You know how it goes. I met him at school because we're both in the school musical. When I first met him, I had a long-distance relationship with another guy that wasn't going too well. Well, this new guy and I started talking on the phone A LOT and said we liked each other and all that. So I broke it off with the long-distance boy because I didn't want to cheat on him. Well, now I GUESS this new guy and I are dating, but lately, the phone conversations have been getting a lot shorter and a lot less...intimate I guess? We just haven't been as flirtatious over the phone. And I don't know what to do...I'm kind of stuck. I mean, he said he wanted to wait and make it special when he actually asks me out, but lately he's been seeming not so interested.......Just not as flirtatious and stuff. Can someone tell me what to do to find out what's going on? Thanks. Sorry if this is too long. (link)
i would say talk to him in person sometimes thats the best...or write him a note telling him how you feel and then give it to him and see what he says you need to talk to him that is the main thing it does not matter if its in person over the phone or through a note just talk to him i know that it will seem very hard but in the end you will be happy you did




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