Okay, so, there's this great guy...really smart, really honest...You know how it goes. I met him at school because we're both in the school musical. When I first met him, I had a long-distance relationship with another guy that wasn't going too well. Well, this new guy and I started talking on the phone A LOT and said we liked each other and all that. So I broke it off with the long-distance boy because I didn't want to cheat on him. Well, now I GUESS this new guy and I are dating, but lately, the phone conversations have been getting a lot shorter and a lot less...intimate I guess? We just haven't been as flirtatious over the phone. And I don't know what to do...I'm kind of stuck. I mean, he said he wanted to wait and make it special when he actually asks me out, but lately he's been seeming not so interested.......Just not as flirtatious and stuff. Can someone tell me what to do to find out what's going on? Thanks. Sorry if this is too long.
AdviceMistress answered Monday January 24 2005, 5:01 pm: it maybe that the guy is having a bad day or week or maybe something bad is going on and he doesn't want to flirt with you. what i suggeest is to have him know that you are there for him and that if he needs anything to just let you know! you should just keep flirting come up with other things and subjects to talk about in you conversations. good luck!
xo_onefineday_xo answered Monday January 24 2005, 4:47 pm: i would say talk to him in person sometimes thats the best...or write him a note telling him how you feel and then give it to him and see what he says you need to talk to him that is the main thing it does not matter if its in person over the phone or through a note just talk to him i know that it will seem very hard but in the end you will be happy you did [ xo_onefineday_xo's advice column | Ask xo_onefineday_xo A Question ]
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