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Was i molested? i know its long but i need help!
ok so the other night at a party i was sitting behind the house and it was dark out and i was with 2 of my best guy friends. well they kept going up my shorts and down my shirt but no matter how much i told them to stop the one kept touching me down there and down the back of my shorts... they kept following me and even did it secretly when ppl were around!! and then i was laying on the grown and the one guy put his thing right in my face and begged me to suck it and kept pushing it at my mouth but i locked my lips.. so im basically asking was i molested? i hate this feeling i have now
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whenever a guy tries to do something that you don't want, like touching you and he just keeps trying or doing it and you keep telling them to stop... yes, it is sexual assault!..
report this guys hun. They can't be going around acting and doing the things they did to you....
I'm sorry you had to go through this hun.. =/
No girl should ever have to deal with such things....
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the part of him putting his hands up your shirts and in places bad then kinda there but with everything els its just guys being discusting pigs like the dick in you face and stuff. im sorry hunny this happend to you its not right not right at all
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This was sexual assault.
And I agree with the first post that you should tell your parents or an older person that you can trust right away. This kind of thing is very hard to tell parents, but look at it this way, you would want to know if it were your child wouldn't you?
You should also report this to the police so these dispicable characters get the message that they can't continue this sort of thing with other young girls. I know that's hard to do if they were your friends, but what they did was not how a 'friend' acts, so they deserve whatever is coming to them.
Also, talk with a school counselor or another professional who can help you work through this. It is especially painful when something like this happens from someone you knew or once trusted, so you will probably have feelings of anger, confusion, betrayel, all sort of things to work through.
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What happened to you was Sexual Assualt.
Sexual assault is any unwanted sexual contact. This includes forced vaginal intercourse, but the term may also be used to refer to forced anal sex or oral sex, including any amount of penetration with a body part (like a penis or a hand) or an object (like a bottle or a stick). It can also mean forced touching or groping of sexual body parts, like a girl's breasts or vulva, or a guy's penis or scrotum.
You must tell someone RIGHT AWAY. What they did to you is WRONG and they should not be allowed to get away with it, friends or not. Please tell your parents what happend, and contact the police.
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Molested is not the correct term.
Molestation is a term specifically used when an adult touches a minor and often prepubescent child in a sexual manner.
What happened to you is called "Sexual assault"
It is also a crime, unfortunately without witnesses a crime that is pretty much impossible to prove.
I hate offering this suggestion, because it never used to be neccesary, but when a guy is that insistent punch him in the balls. Seriously.
What happened to you isnt right, but only you can control a situation like that.
I would also venture to say if those were some of your best guy friends, you need to get some new standards, because horny teenaged idiots who obviously like you because they find you attractive arent what I consider decent friend material.
If someone does that in private when you did not specifically invite them, slap them. If they do it in public slap and yell.
Nothing stops a horny asshole like having everyone at a party know he was being a jerk and groping away.
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Yes, as far as I know, that's considered being molested. Also, I would almost consider it attempted rape when one of them tried to force you to perform oral sex.
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