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i have always been a really sexual person, the problem is - my boyfriend isn't. I have values and I am not a whore, but I have always had alot of sexual tensions so when my boyfriend of 2 years suggested we have sex I was more than ready. After we did it I realized how much I really like it and was always up for it but he didn't have the same sex drive. I don't want to pressure him into anything so I don't talk about it much, but I can't help who I am I really love to feel sexy and have fun and who else to do that with than the one I love!
I think the sex is good for him he just told me he just doesn't hve that much of a sex drive - he's 18 so I don't understand why. I am not an unattractive girl, and he loves me I don't doubt that, I just don't know why he doesn't want to have sex? I compliment him all the time so I don't think he is insecure...
I'm a really sexual person, and this is driving me crazy what can I do?
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well he may be doing it because its kind of new to him.. but if you know he wasn't a virgin before then it could be cus its a love thing for him ( he waited 2 years) its special to him so he may not want to just have sex alot.. i am the same way sometimes with my bf i want to have sex alot and we just can't or he will wana have sex but its just not hat i want at the moment i would rather jsut lay with him or something sweet and show how much i just wana be with him. it could be a mental thing for him. He loves you but he only wants to do it when he is expressing his love the most being with you alone could be what makes him happy. hope i help figure out some understanding :
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Yes, incompatability in sex could drive any couple crazy. I understand. It is not good when a couple's sex drive doesn't match. And it is great when it does. If he cares about you, he should have his health checked out. It does not make sense that a man of 18, does not have a strong sex drive. Oh it's possible, but not common, so a health condition should be ruled out. He doesn't know what he is missing. A sex drive is normal. And a young man should have a strong one. I hope he can find a doctor that is sympathetic and will listen. There are other symptoms to look for, like low testosterone levels, but only a doctor can do that. It's worth a shot.
Michele
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