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this guy...
so there is this guy. He is really fine and has a way with words. He is very sweet and fun to be around. Me and him talk dirty to eachother a lot. And one day he said lets hangout. so i said okay and do what? and he said anything. And i said anything but sex? and he said no, im down for that. i want to loose it to you. I really like him and he is special. i am a virgin. and so is he, but he has done everything except sex. and i want to loose it to him!
Should i?
no lectures
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start with smaller things firts like bj's and hj's and see how he reacts with that. sometimes guy's personalities change towards you after you have become sexual. if he's still a nice kid and you really want to do it then do it but dont let yourself be pressured.
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watch me get stupidly band for this but ok well if you want to go for it . but its up to u i take that like a love thing . but i wont lecture u
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if your not really sure, then you shouldnt. and judging by this question, your really not sure so in my opinion i think you should get to know this guy a little longer before you do.
i mean if having sex isnt a big deal to you, then go ahead, but if it is, then you should wait until you really love someone and have no doubts about it until you do.
no one can stop you from it, but if you choose to do it, then just think about the consequences that might come from it, and consider that you might get pregnant from it, because remember that condomns dont work 100% of the time=]
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i dont think you should. no lectures, just my opinion. like i think you guys should get to know each other more and go out for awhile first. sex should not be rushed. when its rushed, its later regretted from what i see. if you really want to, go ahead as long as you really think you're ready and will be safe.
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Okay- first... not to be rude- but you're asking for our opinions, and you say no lecture. If you want my true opinion- it is going to involve some sort of a lecture. If you don't like what you're about to read- then don't rate me a 1 or 2 just because you didn't like what I had to say. Rate me on the quality of my opinion.
I personally wouldn't do it. You have your whole life ahead of you to lose your virginity, and you shouldn't do it just because you're having lustful feelings right now. I don't know how old you are- as you don't say. But I'm going to assume that you're 15 [I bet you I'm wrong]. Either way- you're young. I've heard a lot of people give their opinions on should they have lost their virginity at the age they did.. most say they totally regret it because it wasn't someone who was committed to them. Others, while there are few, don't regret it one bit. They are still with the person and they think they're going to get married. Honestly- don't do it just because you want to prove something to someone. If you chose to do it, do it because its what you want. Don't do it because of pressure. Do it only if you're 100% sure its what you want.
Whatever you decide to do- make sure that you are ABSOLUTELY sure that it is what you want to do.. and what you're willing to live with for the rest of your life.
Oh- and congrats on being my 700th question answered!
--Jack
(15/m)
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