i lost my virginity last night, but it hurt and it was reallllly hard for him to fit. he's pretty huge.. so i guess it's understandable.. but is this normal? im afraid that im just too small now. do you think this is perfectly normal? did other people go through the same thing? thanks
askforanswersfromAndie answered Tuesday March 18 2008, 1:27 am: yea so . u where a virgin before. untouched. you are supposed to be tight and it does hurt the first 2 times its better the second time but the first time it hurts . its totally normal. and if he was big, bigger than most it would be really understandable for it to hurt more. anything els i can help you with let me know [ askforanswersfromAndie's advice column | Ask askforanswersfromAndie A Question ]
1love1life answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:43 pm: Dude. its your first time. your probably pretty young to so duh your gonna be small. The more u do it the easier and funner it will get. Dont forget to use a condom though [ 1love1life's advice column | Ask 1love1life A Question ]
cloudy_conscience answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:32 pm: Yes it is very normal for it to be a tight fit, so to say, on your first time. Especially when the guy has a big penis it is going to hurt but thats different for everyone. You will be tight your first time because you haven't dont anything to loosen it up, it should get easier with time.
sassynena answered Monday March 17 2008, 10:00 pm: yes thats normal.
it just means your really tight, but you were a virgin before that so its all good.
asknava answered Monday March 17 2008, 9:39 pm: Yeah... "G" is right. I am just going to elaborate. The vagina is tight, the hole is small. It expands when you are getting some and gets smaller when you are not. If you have a baby it will expand even more and you will have to do exercises to get it to be small again. You may even bleed. I hurt for a few months when i started having sex. My stomach would hurt if it was to rough or if it went in too deep. It will take time for you to develop and strech out even with new positions. I am still expanding, even with regular (weekly) sex. What you should do with him is have him finger you. Add more fingers each time and have him go in a little at a time and take your time with the positions. Eventually it will feel great!
Peace [ asknava's advice column | Ask asknava A Question ]
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