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my name is SHELBY

but you can call me boo

im a caretaker

i knock on wood alot

i can make you smile

im getting braces soon

i like capri sun & zebra cakez!

i still count with my fingers

i will watch Sex And The City with you

i will thumb wrestle you in public

and i will make cute faces at you in the rear view mirror

if you need to get ahold of me in another way besides advicenators then feel free to send me an email at SHELBYcrunkpants@yahoo.com

advice

how long do you have to wait to take the pregnancy test for it to work after you have sex? how lnog?

Well you can try as early as you want.
But I would reccomend two weeks.

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is it possible to be born without a hymen because i've never had sex of any kind and i dont have any sort of covering over my vagina

Your hymen is inside your vagina not over it.

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ok well i went on my boyfriends myspace and i saw a message to another girl this was

it she aint 13 but umm its nothing even serious ne more and the girl is suicidal i think so if i try to brek up with her she will do something to herself so im sl;owing breakin that shit off i no i coul,d do better i had u didnt i?


well... that was about me so i confronted him n turns out it was this girl amber who wants torbeak us up now hes saying he cant trust me, and im fraid hes gunna break up with me, what should i say to him when he calls me, and how can i gain his trust?

He shouldnt be the one mad at you, you should be the one mad at him. If thats how he truely feels about you then why do you want to be with him still? If I were you I would break it off with him. This is probably not what you want to hear but I thought I need to say it. If you guys do end up staying together, he might end up even cheating on you with that girl Amber and that would be worse than what just happened, so my advice is to break up with him.


EDIT: Im not trying to be mean but you are rating everyones answers 1's because it is not what you want to hear and you know it. You like him yes but staying with someone who bad mouths you is not smart. Im sorry I had to write this but felt I had to.

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I'm a 15 year old girl...and i was just wondering how far you think i should go with a boy (please dont say "whatever i'm comfortable with")

and how far did you go when you were 15??

THANKS

Draw the line at sex.

I think your old enough to do whatever you like as long as this guy doesnt "score." So anything inbetween kissing-sex.

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well, first of all, im REALLY uncomfortable putting this up, but i need to know.

for some time now, my 'area' has had throbbing 'desires' i should say. it feels gross and wrong. is this just being a teenager with hormones or something else?

Dont worry its hormones.
Everyone goes through it.

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ok, me and my girlfriend have decided we want to have sex, the only probleam is i am not sure how i am going to get my hands on a condom, i am 13, and don't give me stuff saying im too young or anything cause we have made up are mind, im just not sure how i can get my hand on some condoms. can i just buy them? what? and also what kind should i get?

You dont have to be a certain age to buy condoms. If you did then kids would just have sex without them and get pregnant, see why they will sell them? Anyway just go to a local drugstore and get Trojan. Good job kid, on being safe.

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so i dont know if this is the right catagory or not but..can having sex shorten the amount of days you have your period for???

Nope. Not unless you get pregnant, so be safe.

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i had sex tonight.. and i had it unprotected. he said he took it out when he cummed and then put it back in.. could i get pregnant still?? im scared

Unforetunately yes you can get pregnant.

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When i reach a orgasm i feel sick is this normal?

That happens to some people so your fine.

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i started taking birth control pills and i was wondering when its safe for my boyfriend to not use a condom?

It will PROBABLY keep you from getting pregnant but there is a chance you still could. You could also still get an STD without a condom so I would wear one still.

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15/f I am not a very sexually active person and have never gone past 1st base. My question is if while masturbating you break you own hymen are you no longer a virgin? Like if a guy asked you if you were or does it not really count?

Breaking your hymen does not mean you had sex.
So yes you are still a virgin.

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My boyfriend and I make out all the time. He wants me to go father with him. I don't know what he wants, but my question is what can I do and how do I do it?

Im not going to answer your question because your obviously not ready. If you dont know what to do and your asking for advice on it because HE wants you too then believe me your not ready. Just think about it and dont let him force you into doing anything you dont want to do.

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hey my name is rachel and i have been having cyber sex online and i think iam addicted to it i've tried to stop but i can't I want to stop before my parents find out please help me.

First of all delete any type of communication you have with these people you are having cybersex with. Delete buddylists, chatrooms, anything needed to be deleted, delete it. Second, get your mind off of it. Join a sport, hang out at a friends house away from the computer. Spend less and less time on the computer until you rarely go on.
Third, think about what your doing. Im sorry but its extremely stupid. Talking about sex with a keyboard. Come on, your better than that.

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if youre with your boyfriend and youre making out and doing other thingsand then you stop and then 2 minuts later you wanna start again but he says hes not "lustful" or in the mood anymore does that mean you turned him off?? or do guys just change into more romantic and calm moods all the sudden?

What else is new? Guys change their mind about everything all the time. Id get used to it and dont worry I doubt you did anything to turn him off.

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what are the symtoms of yeast infection and how do i cure it? is the yogurt thing true? will the cure the infection? plz help.

Symptoms: itching, burning, irritation, painful urination, and abnormal discharge. If you go to the doctor you can get something perscribed to help make it go away faster.
-♥Shelby

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Can you see your hymen. Or is there always a piece of skin over your vagina.

Nope you cannot see it. But once it breaks during the first time you have sex it is gone.
-♥Shelby

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I've been on birth control now for about a year. My boyfriend and I just recently had unprotected sex, without pulling out. I'm pretty good with taking my pill every night around the same time but there were two times during this cycle that I had ended up taking it the next day, including that night we had sex. I'm on the placebo pills right now and still no period. Could I be pregnant?

Yup, there is always a chance no matter what and not taking your pill a couple days increases the chance. I suggest getting a test asap.
-♥Shelby

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I have white heads on my penis is this normal.

Its like any other part of your body that you get zits. Oil and not the greatest of cleaning. So you could just clean that area better and they will probably go away pretty soon or you could see a doctor and get a perscription to something to help get rid of them faster.
-♥Shelby

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Where do I go to get birth control pills prescribed for myself? Do I have to go to a ob/gyn, or can I just go to my regular doctor? Thanks.

Make an appointment @ the Gyno.

Hope I helped!

-♥Shelby

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Im 17 and i have had my Period 6 Years. This is the Second time i have missed my Period the first time was when i first started. I usually start around the 21 and last month i didnt. And it hasnt started yet. Im not sexually active any more. So i havent had sex in a good 9 months. Should i just wait. And see if i ever start?

If you havnt had sex in over nine months then dont worry about it :]

Ive skipped a month before but it should go back to its normal cycle in the next month or to.

Hope I helped. ps: if it doesnt go back to normal in a couple months, see a doctor!

-Shelby♥

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