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ok well i went on my boyfriends myspace and i saw a message to another girl this was
it she aint 13 but umm its nothing even serious ne more and the girl is suicidal i think so if i try to brek up with her she will do something to herself so im sl;owing breakin that shit off i no i coul,d do better i had u didnt i?
well... that was about me so i confronted him n turns out it was this girl amber who wants torbeak us up now hes saying he cant trust me, and im fraid hes gunna break up with me, what should i say to him when he calls me, and how can i gain his trust?
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this boy sounds like an asshole. he's not worth your time. why would you want to be with someone who talks about you that way? it's not a good thing. you can do much better. for real. [:
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honestly, you deserve better.
but if you want to hurt yourself even more, then stay with him and wait when he hurts you.
but if you break up with him first, you'll feel a lot better and be hey, "he didn't break up with me first!"
"slowing breakin that shit off"
he will treat you horribley, just to let you know. he's not going to treat you like you're his girlfriend
so let him go.
you will find someone who treats you so much better.
he has no right to say he can't trust you.
because well, if he gave you his password to his myspace then he obviously DID trust you.
and well, he's an ass for hiding things from you.
do not sink to that low level and try "to gain his trust"
because you don't need him.
i know i'm going to be rated a 1 because you don't want to end your relationship but i don't care.
you are going to hurt yourself a lot if you don't end it yourself.
so please don't make him feel like he's so good by staying with him or he will treat every other girlfriend like that.
you'll find someone who will treat you a lot better than that. someone who won't hide things and go behind your back.
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wow. hes a jerk. break up with him first. Just the fact he thinks he can do better gives you the right to leave him. if you stay, your making a bad descion. also, i think you should find a new cute guy so you can basically prove to him that you can do better.
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He shouldnt be the one mad at you, you should be the one mad at him. If thats how he truely feels about you then why do you want to be with him still? If I were you I would break it off with him. This is probably not what you want to hear but I thought I need to say it. If you guys do end up staying together, he might end up even cheating on you with that girl Amber and that would be worse than what just happened, so my advice is to break up with him.
EDIT: Im not trying to be mean but you are rating everyones answers 1's because it is not what you want to hear and you know it. You like him yes but staying with someone who bad mouths you is not smart. Im sorry I had to write this but felt I had to.
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If he said those things about you, why do you even want to still be with him? He said your relationship isn't serious, and that's he's going to break up with you. I say, break up with him before he hurts you even more. You don't need his trust, because obviously he is not trustworthy himself. You can do much better and have a guy that appreciates you. Never settle for less.
Hope it all works out.
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