if youre with your boyfriend and youre making out and doing other thingsand then you stop and then 2 minuts later you wanna start again but he says hes not "lustful" or in the mood anymore does that mean you turned him off?? or do guys just change into more romantic and calm moods all the sudden?
In response to your feedback-- I think it might depend on his age and personality. I don't know how old you are but I had a 16 year old boyfriend a couple of months ago and he sometimes just wouldn't want to touch or anything, and now I have an 18-year old boyfriend who is always horny. So don't be worried, if he gets in the mood at least occasionally, you probably have nothing to worry about. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
orphans answered Friday July 21 2006, 6:34 pm: i dunno about this one. whenever i was in the situation hell even if i wasn't i was always wanting to do it and wanting to make out and go at it. and if we stopped i'd sit there all fidgety til we could go again. maybe i'm just a horny bastard but thats how i figured every guy was. [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
Melody answered Friday July 21 2006, 11:20 am: Well, it's not that you turned him off, it's just that he is no longer turned on. Does that make any sense? Guys can go from being horny to being calm in like 2 seconds flat. Unlike girls, who take minutes to get in and out of the mood. [ Melody's advice column | Ask Melody A Question ]
tosh13 answered Friday July 21 2006, 5:49 am: Wow not suprising all guys do that especially young ones ha ha well anyway you didnt do nothing to turn him off anf if you were wondering about it take time to talk to him!!~tosh13~ [ tosh13's advice column | Ask tosh13 A Question ]
karenR answered Friday July 21 2006, 2:51 am: If you are a young teen, hes probably not "lustful" anymore because he probably has already got off. Yes, young boys are notorious
premature ejaculators. And yes, even if you weren't having sex.
So I doubt you have turned him off. Quite the opposite really.
countriebabe08 answered Friday July 21 2006, 2:44 am: Yep, It's normal. Guys do it all the time. Maybe he just wasn't in the mood to begin with, he was just making out with you and stuff for fun. Guys can be up one second, and then down the next. Sometimes they can't control it. Hope I helped.
~countriebabe08 [ countriebabe08's advice column | Ask countriebabe08 A Question ]
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