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ok im a virgon(well, not any more) and so was she (um.. well not any more) just say there was alot of blood involved. anyone knows why??!!

(and it wasnt from me....) probably seems dumb, i just wanna know why, i know a little about it, but hlp plz (link)
you popped her cherry and its normal for her to bleed.

xO Ashley Joy*

PS Congrats on getting laid :o)


is masturbation bad for your body? (link)
nope its actually healthy

xOx Ashley Joy


this has been a question of mine for the longest time...
what is cyber?
how do you do it?
will rate! (link)
its basically internet sex where you describe sexual things with the other person.

its basacially a way to jack off and a lot of young teens find it gross. JusT a heAds up

xOx Ashley Joy


alright im 14 && me && my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months on && off.. before him i thought making out should be forbidden && was probably the farthest behind out of any of my friends... well that changed- um he's fingered me numerous times && ive given him plenty of handjobs- ok but the other day i was giving him a handjob && he kept on like putting his hand thru my hair or w/e && then he started to like push my head down- at first i thought it was kinda cute bc we were standing up && he like pushed me closer to him.. but then i started to realize that he was trying to get my head closer to his dick- hence, wanting head. but like im not ready for that yet && im scared hes gonna like keep expecting things out of me. && that if i dont give him head he'll break up with me. but if hes gonna break up w/me over htat he's not worth it. i just dont know what to do- so if you could please help me out... AND if i do choose to give him head which i doubt will be the case- doesnt the guy have to wear a condom? or is that just if he like messes around w/a bunch of girls && you dont want ghonorheah or however you spell it. lol idk but please write back ill rate you high (link)
okay woah! So umm if you don't wanna give him head tell him that. If he respects it than thats great. IF not than dump him.

No he doesnt HAVE TO wear a condom but its up to you.

xOx Ashley Joy


is it true a girl can only get pregnant one day out of the month? (link)
no its not like at all

xOx Ashley Joy


Two questions about pre-marriagal sex... first one, am I spelling it right? I just like to know how to spell things, sorry to waste your time. Second one, before Advicenators, I was always under the impression that pre-marriagal sex was just for the screwed-in-the-head potheads and the sluts/whores. But now I'm looking at these questions, and seriously folks, it's just insane how many people are saying "I've been with my b/f three months and we had sex last night, is that too little time?" or something like that. Are my thoughts on pre-marriagal sex wrong? Note: Smartasses get 1s and will be reported. Give me real advice. (link)
okay well your views arent totally wrong. Yeah its your opinion on sex and im in no place to say otherwise. Not only sluts and whores have sex. I bet you that over half the adults around you did wait to have sex. I mean yeah pre marital sex is considerd "MORALLY" wrong but I mean a lot of people do it in a mistake. I mean I'm torn between Pre-Marital Sex and waiting but its your opinion

xOx Ashley Joy


NEED HELP AND fast!!!!



how long after having sex should you take the morning after pill? is there anything i can take so i dont get pregnant because i had sex last night and he accidentally "went" in me and the condom broke.. please try and help as soon as possible! (link)
72 hours afterwards MAXIMUM


ok hears the deal, im 14 and a male, and im seein this girl, shes 20. and i dono if shes cheatin on me and i cant tell i really like her and one night i had sex wit her does anyone think that thats bad?
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well this isnt what you wanna here but shes a little old for you and its illegal for you to have sex and she might be cheating on you because she wants a man who can drive her places buy her drinks etc

sorry but its true

xOx Ashley Joy


NEED HELP AND fast!!!!



how long after having sex should you take the morning after pill? is there anything i can take so i dont get pregnant because i had sex last night and he accidentally "went" in me and the condom broke.. please try and help as soon as possible! (link)
within 72 hours


okay...this guy told me that i had sex appeal today and i dont know if i should have taken it as a compliment or an insult.

so could someone tell me what sex appeal is and if its a compliment or and insult.

BTW: im 13/f and i rate 5 for NONsmartass answers. (link)
well it could be both

The guy basically told you that he would do you haha but umm if it insults you just say something to him or ignore it.

If its a compliement than just be happy with that and I personally take it both ways


Okay, i've been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 months now. we had sex a few weeks ago, and we used a condom, and it had spermicidle. I usually start my period around the end of the month, and tomorrow is sept. 1. Since school just started, and i've been in a lot of fights with my parents, i'm hoping its just stress. and also, my period is never really ever the same, but th elast few times its been around the end of the month. I've been throught he symptoms, if you will, of pregnancy, and i hhave a few questions about those too. The breast tenderness? is that just like, all the time tenderness, or when you touch it? and also, the heavy discharge. i had that right after we had sex, like the next day, but i havn't had it since. I've always been a little moody and upsetable, so i dunno if that makes a difference. I'm going out of my mind, and i'm starting ot have dreams. could someone please help me! thank youso much, and sorry its so long. by the way, i'm 17. (link)
Chill out and just mellow out.

brest tenderness happens to be different with everyone.

The heavy discharge... well that could have happened from all the percautions. Or just natraully.

The mood swings are normal for teens and since you just started school that could be it.

If your nervous go to planned parenthood or buy a pregnancy test. Stay calm and since you said your PMS is never normal dont be soo worried because it might just be late.


i think i'm big enough for a size a but i'm scared to ask my mom and i certainly won't ask my dad but i hate feeling like i should have a bigger bra what should i do do i tell my mom or wait till she says something? (link)
Just say Mom can we go bra shopping because I need some new ones?

Please RAte


I am a sophomore in high school. I have been playing volleyball since I was in 5th grade. I have played on my school team and a travel team for the past 3 years. I've also had asthma since I was 3 years old. Having asthma makes it very hard to do most of the stuff we have to do. This year, we have a new and very hard coach named Beth Ann. She expects us to be Olympic athletes. If we make one bad pass, she makes us do like 3 suicides. I can't handle that. The first day, I puked twice. Plus, the coach underestimates me. The back row passers can't make a decent pass, and I'm a middle hitter, and i make more decent passes. She doesn't tell us how to fix our mistakes, she just makes us run. We run more than play the game. I can't handle it anymore. I've just lost interest in the game.

This is the tricky part. My dad is big on watching me play volleyball. I don't want to quit, but I really think I should. My sister quit her sophomore year also. How can I break it to my dad nicely that I don't want to play anymore? I don't want to piss him off. Asthmatics shouldn't even be playing sports. Ya konw? I don't want to be a quitter, but I want to be able to breathe. Someone help! Sorry about the length! I'll rate every good answer a 5. (link)
Well you may be able to switch were you play and tell your dad about the coach and say its harsh how harsh how she treats you and that you dont like it. Tell him that you have just lost intrest in the sport.

Please Rate


Ok the subject sounds a little harsh for what I am about to say. My brother watches porn. I mean alot of porn. Its not really occasional, it's routinely. Sometimes I feel bad because, I get a little curious and I watch a video, but I mean now sometimes I feel sick. I regret ever watching the video because all I can think of is its contents. Thats not all I have seen, I have seen pictures and things on TV. I wish I had never seen any of it, because now my mind wanders to places I don't want it to wander. Does anybody else have this problem? Is there anyway for me to restore my "innocence"? (link)
I have that problem. When your brother is watching porn go away from him and blast the radio. Curiousity is normal for teens. All my friends have that problem. We just dont look at it and focus on other things.

I hope I helped! Please Rate!


I want to wait until I am married to have sex. My friend and I were talking and this is what she said to me, "My mom told me she didn't want me to wait until marriage to have sex, because she wanted me to know what to do." I was thinking about it and I don't know anymore. I mean I don't want to go and read things on what to do/watch porn and stuff. I am not that kind of girl. Plus, all my friends say they just want to wait until after they turn 16. I mean its not part of my religion. Its part of what I think is right. I mean I at least want to wait until marriage is on option... I don't know.

Should I wait? (link)
I wanna save myself too. I have the same pressures too. If you save yourself and dont know what to do your husband will be totally understanding. Some things will come to you naturally and everything should turn out fine.

Its your call if you wanna wait or not. Its not your friends virginity its YOURS!


im only 13... and i have had the same boyfriend for 2 years and about two months ago we had sex...unprotected... let me cut to the chase... i havent had me period since then and i took a pregnancy test and it was positive... how do i tell my parents? or my boyfriend? or ANYONE?
please help (link)
I'm not gonna tell you how crazy you are for having unprotected sex so young.

tell them they will understand or tell a reallly good friend! I know how it would feel and your scared if you want to u could tell your boyfriend and go to a free clinic and get a test there which is a little more accurate.


can you masturbate during your period... && this is my first period ever in my whole life...there isnt alot of blood is that normal? what is it like when wou first get it? pleaseeeee hellppp (link)
yeah you can just wash your hands after and your period was soo lite the first time. its normal i guess


so theirs this boy and my best friend likes him nd hes trying to fuckk me and i dunno what to do. . help

thanx (link)
Just be like I dont want you like that. Why cant we be friends? Just stop hanging out with him for a while too. Well good luck.


i havnt started my period yet and i'm a very short 13 year old so how do i know that i didnt stop growing? (link)
I was pretty short b4 I got my period. I was 4'10! now I'm 5'4. I grew like 2 inches in a week for a few weeks. I thought I was done growing but I wasnt. Just be patient.




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