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im only 13... and i have had the same boyfriend for 2 years and about two months ago we had sex...unprotected... let me cut to the chase... i havent had me period since then and i took a pregnancy test and it was positive... how do i tell my parents? or my boyfriend? or ANYONE?
please help
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This is a very tough situation for all the parties that are involved, but its over and done with and there is nothing you can do now but make the decision on what to do about the pregnancy. Sit down and tell your parents, let them know that you are sorry and that you realize it was a mistake. Then as a family you can all sit down and talk about your options:
-abortion.
-keep it.
-adoption.
In the end it is really YOUR decision, no one can tell you what is the right or wrong thing to do, because really that just depends on you and your situation. I know plenty of girls who are teen moms, not as young as you I will say, it is doable although your life will NEVER EVER be the same again. Then you need to go to the doctor and make sure you really are pregnant and there isn't something else wrong ie. just changes in your menstration, which is possible at your age, but doubtful since you got a positive test.
I am very sorry for your situation and, although I cannot say for sure how your parents are going to react about it, from my experience they are very upset, disappointed, and hurt at the beginning but whatever your decision in the end, they will come around(hopefully). Things are going to be tough no matter what decision you make, but in the end things will work out, they always do.
Good Luck & I Hope I Helped :)
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first off, you have to recognize your wrong doing, let them know it was a mistake, mae aologies. say you love them and try and be strong. if the turns out false, do NOT have sex for a long time, until you are in a monogomous (committed) relationship.
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If they take that one lightly then you've been touched by an angel.
Sorry... but sheesh
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you may have received and may continue to receive from others.
Thirteen and pregnant; I'll skip the lectures; you�re going to get that and more from your parents. One thing you should do is look at the following website: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location). This site has a lot of the answers to many of the questions you are probably asking yourself or will give you questions and you should be asking yourself.
After reviewing this website and have your answers to the questions you should be asking yourself it is time to tell your parents. You should do this in the next day or two especially if termination of the pregnancy is something you want as you are already 2 months pregnant. I will not lecture you on what is right and what is wrong in this situation. The alternatives are:
� Keep the baby and raise it yourself
� Give the baby up for adoption
� Terminate the pregnancy.
The Law is on your side; no one can force you to do any of the above options, not even your parents. So decide what you want to do then sit down with mom and dad and as calmly as possible say: �Mom, Dad I�m 2 months pregnant and ______ is the father.�
I wish I could tell you what their reaction is going to be. I know one reaction is they are going to be very disappointed in you and they will most likely blame your boyfriend. Try and stay calm, if you stay calm hopefully they will stay calm. Have your answer ready to the questions the website asked as many of these questions will be asked by your parents.
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I'm not gonna tell you how crazy you are for having unprotected sex so young.
tell them they will understand or tell a reallly good friend! I know how it would feel and your scared if you want to u could tell your boyfriend and go to a free clinic and get a test there which is a little more accurate.
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You just tell them. There is no sense in waiting because you really need prenatal care. It is especially important because you are so young.
Here is a link that will help you understand what is going on.
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It includes some 800 numbers of places like planned parenthood who may be better equipped to answer some of your questions.
Here is a link about telling your parents about your pregnancy. I hope you get some good info from them. Good luck :)
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