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expectations
alright im 14 && me && my boyfriend have been going out for 8 months on && off.. before him i thought making out should be forbidden && was probably the farthest behind out of any of my friends... well that changed- um he's fingered me numerous times && ive given him plenty of handjobs- ok but the other day i was giving him a handjob && he kept on like putting his hand thru my hair or w/e && then he started to like push my head down- at first i thought it was kinda cute bc we were standing up && he like pushed me closer to him.. but then i started to realize that he was trying to get my head closer to his dick- hence, wanting head. but like im not ready for that yet && im scared hes gonna like keep expecting things out of me. && that if i dont give him head he'll break up with me. but if hes gonna break up w/me over htat he's not worth it. i just dont know what to do- so if you could please help me out... AND if i do choose to give him head which i doubt will be the case- doesnt the guy have to wear a condom? or is that just if he like messes around w/a bunch of girls && you dont want ghonorheah or however you spell it. lol idk but please write back ill rate you high <33
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Dont do it if your not ready...
and if he breaks up with you.. its his lost.. not urs cuss you can get better
<3 Kallan
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okay woah! So umm if you don't wanna give him head tell him that. If he respects it than thats great. IF not than dump him.
No he doesnt HAVE TO wear a condom but its up to you.
xOx Ashley Joy
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Oh my fricken God! You're only 14 and having sex?! Tell him you don't want to give him head, and if he respects you, he'll understand. Wouldn't you rather get married, and then you'll always remember that you lost your virginity to your husband. Well whatever... I'm not here to judge you. Just be honest with him, and tell you exactly how you feel.
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