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waht is the best house hold object i can u to masterbate (link)
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Well, let's see, Tiffany is right that your hand is the best toy, and if you are a girl, which I am assuming that you are, there isn't much that you couldn't use. As long as it doesn't have any sharp edges or points or any kind of mushy food. I'll just give you a short list:
electric toothbrush
cucumber, banana, squash, etc
handle of a hairbrush
water faucet with the water turned on
you can 'ride' a pillow, stuffed animal, etc
candlestick
Once when I was bored, I made a penis out of art clay, and just put a condom on it.
Just use your imagination.
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6mo. I love him with all my heart and we've talked time and time again about how we want to stay together for a good long while/forever. When we first started dating, we began messing around(sex). A couple months ago we decided to renew our faith and decided that we would no longer have sex. Problem is, it seems like we slip up ALL THE TIME! We both want to stop, bc we both feel that itll be best for us to wait til marriage, but everytime one of us will think about it, then we both get caught up and end up doin it again. Have you or anyone else been through this? If so, how did you stop? We've tryed saying we'd direct it into another way such as working out, but that doesnt seem to be too successful. Any ideas or suggestions on how to handle this? Thank you for your help! (link)
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Dottie had a very good idea about going out and doing something fun. Think about it. When are you more likely to end up having sex? I doubt it's when you're in a crowd of people. It's probably when you're cozied up at home watching a movie or eating dinner alone. Go out with a group of friends or go out to a movie instead of renting one.
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k so my period didn't come this month but i've gotten it since the last time i had sex. I just got my new depo shot so maybe that causes u to like skip a period..i did gain like two pounds and i'd rather not have pediphiles examin me down there with cold things unless i have to...advice? (link)
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Yes, it could possibly have been the depo shot that caused you to skip your period. It could be any number of things, including stress, which could also cause you to gain a bit of weight.
It would be a good idea to get checked though. It is entirely possible to get your period in your first trimester, although the chance is not very high.
On that note, gynecologists are not pedophiles and if you're having sex at all, you should already have one and be making steady appointments for regular checkups. Women should have their first visit around the ages of thirteen to twenty one, whether they are having sex or not.
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OH MY GOSH. Alright so I tried waxing down there because I absolutely hate hair, and it was terrible pain. I don't like shaving because it gets itchy and they grow back in like two seconds. How can i get it to hurt less, or like numb it or something. I mean it's terrible pain. I'll take any advice I can get. Thanks soo much (:
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One of the main reasons that waxing hurts as much as it does is the fact that it pulls and rips at the sensitive skin as well as the hair. There is a type of 'dry' wax that doesn't stick to the skin but it sticks to the hair. It still hurts, but it is significantly less painful. It also helps with the redness afterward. I wish that I could tell you what it is called, but it kind of looks like dry candle wax if that helps at all. I'm really sorry that I couldn't help more with that part. There is also dipilatories(sp?) but they can irritate the skin and can be harmful if gotten into too close of contact with your vagina. I always found that they made me itch like crazy, even worse than when the hair was starting to grow back from shaving. Hope this helps somewhat.
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everytime i have sex i get this werid bubble thing on my lower area. At first i thought it was because he was going to hard or because it was dry but i got it twice what the hell is it? (link)
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If you mean it feels like there is some kind of bubble in your pubic region, it's probably because some air went into your vagina during sex. When he thrusts in and out of you, your vagina opens up and it is easier for air to get inside. It's a little uncomfortable, but it's not harmful.
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Hey my name is Tyler.
I love my gf a lot and we tried to have sex...I lost my erection in the middle of it. And now every time we try to do it it happens. It doesn't happen when she gives me oral sex. But i get so worried that I'm going to lose my erection when we have sex that i do lose it!
Now to make matters worse my gf keeps arguing w/ me about it! I just need somebody to help me get through it! She doesn't understand how much stress it puts on me! She thinks that I don't want her when i rly do! I don't want to lose her over this...i just wish that she could understand...someone help me! (link)
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Well, your genitals are connected to your brain, so you lose your erection when you believe that you will. It's partly psychological. The same thing happens with girls, in a sense anyway. See, if a girl goes into sex thinking that she's not going to have an orgasm, she probably won't, but if she goes into sex thinking how great it's going to feel and the fact that there is an orgasm in her future, it is much more likely that she'll have one. You have to believe that you're going to stay hard and that you're going to please her. Just don't put too much pressure on yourself, or you will lose your erection from the stress. Your girlfriend is actually part of the reason that you're losing your erection, but not in the way she thinks. When she puts all that pressure on you to perform, she actually makes your penis 'scared' that it won't be able to, so it doesn't. It's kind of like the term 'I already know I can't do it, so why bother?'
The reason that this doesn't happen during oral sex is because there is no pressure on you to make her orgasm, so you can focus all your attention on yourself.
Just tell her that you love her and that she does turn you on, but that you just can't perform under all the pressure she puts you under. But make sure you don't make it seem like it's all her fault, because it isn't. You need to think positive about the situation. Maybe try thinking of only yourself when having sex once to see if you can hold out longer, just make sure that you hold off on the orgasm, or you'll have to deal with the 'premature ejaculator' rep as well.
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i recently hurt my knee (i have a torn MCL)
and my boyfriend is coming back into town this weekend and im worried about comfort during sex hes a pretty big guy and im just wondering what kind of position might be the most appropriate
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You can try you on top, but on the edge of the bed, couch, etc. Make sure that the side that is hurt is on the outside of whatever you may be having sex on. You can let your leg hang over the side. It's very comfortable, but you will have to use your good leg for all the work.
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does not staring your period always mean your pregnat (link)
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Not necessarily. If you are having sex, it could possibly mean that you are pregnant, but if you're being completely safe, it's probably something else. Not starting your period on time could be the result of a lot of things. Gaining or losing a lot of weight in a short amount of time, changing your diet, stress, becoming ill, etc. So unless you have a reason to be worried about being pregnant, I seriously doubt that's what's wrong.
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How long after you start taking the pill can you start having sex without the condom or whatever? (link)
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Doctors say four weeks, but you should wait six weeks just to be on the safe side.
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Okay, i know there's a possibility for like everything. I'm really curious. If you have protected sex a lot [condoms + the pill used correctly] and you get pregnant.. [without knowing].. what effects does the pill have on the embryo?
Would that result in a miscarriage? Also, what could happen for you to get a miscarriage besides serious falls, drugs, alcohol? I've tried to search it up but they always tell you the symptoms of a miscarriage. (link)
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There were rumors that taking the birth control pill while pregnant would lead to a miscarriage, but the verdict is still out on that one. Some doctors say that taking the pill won't necessarily do anything to harm the embryo, but it does have hormonal side effects, especially while pregnant. You have hormonal changes while pregnant and while you're on the birth control pill, but together, the changes are more evident.
Besides falls, drugs and alcohol usage while pregnant, there are many natural things that cause miscarriages. Such include chromosome defects, physical problems with cervix or uterus, immune disorders, premature rupture or membranes (early labor), serious stress, a stomach ulcer, or any other undue stress on the baby.
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how do you know if a guy is having an orgasim ?
actually what is it ? (link)
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His stomach muscles will contract (you can feel and see that), he will thrust his hips faster, and his face will kind of scrunch up and he may or may not bite his lip. Hope this helps.
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im 14/m.
I met this girl and we got to 3rd base on the first day i met her. was that bad if I want to have a meaningful relationship with her that's not all about sex? (link)
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I think you could have a meaningful relationship out of a physical one. Girls tend to let physical relationships lead to emotional ones, so if you just tell her you want to start over and want to go slower this time, I think you two could make a meaningful relationship. Hope this helps.
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What does a girl do when a guy fingers her / eats her out? (link)
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You don't really have to do anything if you don't want to. You can just sit back and enjoy it. But if you want to reciprocate in some way, you can give the guy a handjob, a blowjob or some kind of sensual massage. You can find tips for a sensual massage online if you want. Hope this helps.
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my friends tell me by stimulating your clit, or using a vibrator will give u an orgasm...
I tried.. several times.
It just doesnt seem to work!
It doesnt even feel good.. its as if its like hurting:s?
is this normal?!
and how can I get an orgasm?!
thankssssssss, xo (link)
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Yes, you may be able to orgasm through clitoral stimulation, but it does usually feel uncomfortable or even painful if you do this while it is dry. Try using a lubricant when you do this if you're not wet enough. Try not to focus on how you're not getting an orgasm right away. It can take up to a half an hour or more for a female to reach orgasm. If you think you're not going to reach one, you probably won't. So, go in thinking you're going to achieve one. Hope this helps.
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Okay, well I'm not planning on doing anything soon, but in case the situation comes up anytime remotely soon:
In case of someone giving me oral or fingering me, what is the male preference of hair... down there? like should there be no hair? should it just be left alone? trim it down?
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All male preferences differ, but most guys like you to be trimmed at least because it makes it easier to maneuver down there. That way they don't have to worry about their fingers getting tangled in the hair. So, just a trim would be good, but you could look up some different shapes of pubic hair on Google and you can pick one if you want to be creative.
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maybe this is anodd question, but anyways... my boyfriend and i are verymuch sexualy active. and he is always asking if i would bewilling to give him head... i personaly think its nasty, but i do love him a lot, and i like making him happy, and i know that wouldmake himhappy.. i havedone it before.. but im not exactly sure how to do it, like do it well.... how do you do it,how do you do it well and so he will really enjoy it??
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Try these sites, they offer excellent tips:
http://www.blowhismindtonight.com
www.bjtutorial.com/fellatio_techniques.htm
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Hey, my boyfriend is coming to visit me in 2 weeks, i'm in love with him and i really wanna make it amazing for him, any tips? Like what do i do with my hands to make it feel better? Stuff like that doesn't matter how graphic you get i just really need to know wth im doing :(
thanks for the help (link)
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You can use one hand to fondle his scrotum while using the other to kind of give him a handjob/blowjob combo. To tell you the truth, I'm not sure what your guy is into, so I don't know what kind of things he would like. You have to try different things to see what he responds to in the most positive way. You can also google: blowjob tips, fellatio technique, etc.
Hope this helps a bit.
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So i'm 17/f and I have a friend with benefits who's 20/m. He and I are almost like best friends, and we've had sex 3 times. He's also the one I lost my virginity to. But he's usually the one to ask for sex. The problem is, I need it SOON, and I'm not about to go sleeping around with someone else. I'm a little nervous that if I flat out tell him I want to fool around with him, that I'll creep him out or make him think i'm too clingy, which isn't the case.
So how do I tell him I want to have sex without just saying it?? Thnx! (link)
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Well, you can just come right out and tell him you want it, or you could just go for it the next time you're hanging out. Either way, you're going to get what you want.
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how can people smell like sex? what smell is that? (link)
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Well, it's kind of hard to explain the 'smell' exactly, but I'll try. You know how a girl wetness smells when she's turned on? Well, it's kind of like that but it just kind of drifts around the room, and then it's a little bit musty, but not like a stinky kind of musty or anything. It's not extremely putrid or anything, it's really subtle actually. I hope I explained it right.
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ive ben dating this guy for a long time about a year and one day my boyfriend and my bff were hanging out my bff said go buy us some pizza so i left to get the pizza when i came back with it the door was locked so i went in the back door and when i came in i didnt see then i looked in the hole house ecsep her bedroom so i went in her bedroom an they were both naked having sex.what should i do about my friend and my boyfriend? (link)
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There is only one thing that would make sense to do. Dump the boyfriend, he's obviously scum and he doesn't deserve you if he's not going to cherish you. Your so-called friend isn't exactly a friend either so you should dump her too. They're pretty much the same person, but in different bodies. They both knew it would hurt you, they both did it anyway. And if you stay with your boyfriend he's going to think it's okay for him to cheat on you.
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