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Sex addict?
19f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6mo. I love him with all my heart and we've talked time and time again about how we want to stay together for a good long while/forever. When we first started dating, we began messing around(sex). A couple months ago we decided to renew our faith and decided that we would no longer have sex. Problem is, it seems like we slip up ALL THE TIME! We both want to stop, bc we both feel that itll be best for us to wait til marriage, but everytime one of us will think about it, then we both get caught up and end up doin it again. Have you or anyone else been through this? If so, how did you stop? We've tryed saying we'd direct it into another way such as working out, but that doesnt seem to be too successful. Any ideas or suggestions on how to handle this? Thank you for your help!
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Dottie had a very good idea about going out and doing something fun. Think about it. When are you more likely to end up having sex? I doubt it's when you're in a crowd of people. It's probably when you're cozied up at home watching a movie or eating dinner alone. Go out with a group of friends or go out to a movie instead of renting one.
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Go out and do something fun. Like go see a movie or shoot pool or something. I know it sounds silly but if your actually out doing something, your a lot less apt to just have sex. Just get to know each other more and experience more things together. It will also make your relationship stronger. Hope I helped.
xoxo,
dottie4
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