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Q: Well, I've been best friends with this girl Stacy for 2 years. We do pretty much everything together and I'm always going over her house and stuff. But lately, it feels like we're always competing, at least I feel that way. Whenever we go somewhere together I'm always trying to look better than her. And she just got a ton of new clothes for school from like hollister and abercrombie and I didn't get as much as her. I get really jealous, and I don't know why. We've always been best friends, but why do I feel this way?
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It's totallt normal to feel this way. Just try not to put so much thought into trying to be better then her. Think of things that you are better at then her or that you have and she doesn't. She may be jealous of you. You never know. You can't change who you are. So I would try to stop concentrating on being better then her and focus on being yourself.
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Q: well I have this friend that i've been best friends with since she moved here. Me and her have been through thick n thin because she got mixed into the wrong crowd and left me to do drugs and stuff. She finally got caught and we are best friends again but her mom has her on like lock down. Well yesterday was my friends suprise party and she went and it was her first time hanging out with someone besides me in pretty much 4 months! And she totally was acting like the center of attention and kept like pushing me out of me way when i tried to talk to MY FRIENDS. im not jealous of what she was doing just annoyed. what can i do?
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Talk to her about it. That you have helped her and it hurt you when she was shoving you out of the way. I mean, she might not know how to act since she hasn't seen those people in so long. But basically, I would talk to her about and tell her your true feelings. Remember to be honest and don't let her put you down for speaking up.
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Q: Okay I dont know why But i get SOOOOOOOO Jelous whenever my friends hang out without me.!
I dont know Why, Like me and my cousin Jill are Really Good Friends With This Girl Named Heather and like Whenever they hang out without me i Get SOOOOOo jelous its not even funny.
And I really Want to Stop I hate Feeling Like That And sometimes it Causes Fights and I really Just want It to Stop.
So Please help Me Get rid of all this Jelousy.
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Well you can try talking to them about it and just telling them how you feel. Or, you can start to hang out with a different friend. That way your mind won't be on your cousin and Heather. Do you know why they don't include you? Sometimes I know I just need a break from my friends. But I would talk to them about it and if it doesn't work, then start to hang out with someone else. GOod luck!
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Q: Well.. whenever I'm with my best friend alone she's really nice but when she's with someone else she treats me like crap and I'm really feeling felt out because shes drifting away from me...?
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She doesn't seem like a true friend. Maybe she is just using you. You never know. Sit her down and ask her why she is nice to you only but leaves you out with other people. She might not even notice she is doing it!
If it continues after you talk to her, hang out with some other freinds more. There is nothing wrong with that. And sometimes, freinds just drift away, it happens to all of us.
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Q: i need your help! this past week was the worst. my friends would not talk to me. they ignore me and im new to the school this year. i need so much help because idk if they are mad at me or what. i even asked them and they said no. also today at ccd, these girls were talking about her and how mean she is. then i told them what happened to me and they said that she does that. idk what to do. thx in advance. 13/f
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If this is what these girls do, befriend you then ignore you, I would find a different group of friends to hang out with. It will be an awful year if you stay with them and they keep doing this.
However, you may really like them. If you do, then sit them down, one at a time, and ask them why they ignored you. Tell them you thought they were mad and you were pretty upset. If that doesn't work, you should really leave them. Because then you are too good for them!
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Q: all my friends are ragging me that i don't wear any thongs i was wondering why people wear them anyways since they so uncomfortable and what should i do about my friends
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I wouldn't stress it that much. Actually, did you know, you could get infections from wearing thongs? And when you wear a thong everyone knows you are cause your butt jiggles. ahah thats gross but whatever. just forget what your freinds say. and if they keep on ragging on you, say why do you care so much about my underwear?
that should put them in place cause its so stupid of them to be ragging on something so gay like that.
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Q: I can't talk to my friend about anything that I may be feeling because she is so mean and always yells and thinks she's never wrong. So any problems that I am feeling with out friendship can never be fixed. What should I do? End it? Or what?
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you just need you talk to your friend. tell her what you said to me, that she always yells, is mean, and think's she'e never wrong. tell her that you are willing to keep your friendship going. if she is still rude, i would slowly eaze away from her. don't completly stop being friends with her, just don't be as close.
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Q: I've never been to a bloc party.
What exactly do you do there.
My boyfriend always goes to them. Do people hook up there or what?
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At my block party, it's when you block of a street and my neighborhood gets together and eat and play games and hang. We don't hook up there.
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Q: ok my friend is great i am going through a really tough time right now it doesnt help that not only ,i am going through a tuff time i also moved and i have no new friends yet so i always talk to her about it on the phone and the comp and i am afraid i am stressing her out she says i am but i exactly saw a question on her advicenators about me i dont want her to worry she is the only thing i care about right now wat do i do
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You may be stressing her out a little, because she cares about you too. You need to talk to her. Tell her that you are sorry if you did stress her but she is the only one you can really talk to. Tell her that she has always been there for you and you feel comfortable talking to her. Tell her not to worry and you will be fine.
Talking to her is the best way to solve it.
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Q: Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!!
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your boob size is the average size for your age. those guys don't know what they are talking about. all guys can get perverted and only want DDs or something. i wouldn't stress it to much, if they say it again, make fun of them or something. say like well your penis is small.. i know perverted but they said your boobs are too small! hope that helped!
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Q: Is god real im confused
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Q: I have these two friends and they both lie at times. To me at times...and well one day they were asking weight. And I said I'm 160 and she said 120. now she's pretty fat and she can't in no way be 120. I was really stunned at her effort to lie. I don't want to confront her but she makes me feel like i can't trust her again.
What do I do? help me please cause it relly hurts me she lied.
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there really isn't anyting that you can do, she probably is uncomfortble with her weight and lying helps her feel better. i would just let it go and if she lies again about something else, that isn't personally, comfront her about it. you never know how she really feels so, i would try adn brush it off
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Q: Okay so my best friend (of 10 years) was going out with 2 guys (wesley and rafi) and rafi had a feeling my friend liked someone else..so i told rafi that my friend was cheating on him with wesley...am i wrong for doing that? i dont think i am because it's not like she was going to marry wesley or rafi so i dont know why she is getting all worked up over it...but what do yall think? did i do the wrong thing?
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I don't think you did anything wrong. Expeccially if you are freinds with both of the guys. If you are freinds with the guys then you were just looking out for them and there is nothing wrong with that. Your freind cheated.. and thats the wrong thing to do..
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Q: I'm friends with benefits with this guy. I used to have a crush on him.
We agreed to just be friends with benefits.
We don't hang out alot and fullfill the friends with benefits but lately he's been calling alot just to talk and stuff. He comes over every now and again and we just talk.
He has never called me for a booty call. But lately there has been alot of chemistry going on between us, alot of flirting and such.
We aren't really friends (as in normal friends you know) so it confuses me as to why he calls so much to just talk. I know what friends with benefits is, and that's not what we are. I'm not sure what to do? He sends mixed signles. What is going on with us
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Well, there are a lot of different reasons why he may be sending mix signals. He may like you more then a freind but he doesn't think you like him so he's trying to get you to like him (by calling and hanging out) He may just want some company also... most likely, I think he likes you more then a friend and wants to become your boyfriend. If you like him, start dropping hints and he will pick them up. If you don't wwant to be more then friends, then make sure he knows that, tell him or just keep acting how you are acting now.
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Q: When you`re friend is mad @ you, is it best to say sorry // talk to them online, in person 0r does it matter? also is it best to give them time to cool down so they`re not as mad or what .. i will rate for answers. anything`s useful. thanks!
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Well, it depends on the friend. I would say online only because then you can both say how you really feel and not have to face them face to face. Because when you talk in person and you say "i'm sorry" Then may just be like oh it's ok.. and they may not feel that way, they just can't say stuff to your face.
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Q: last night i was with my friend. my best friend. i mean me and her are like really tight.. anyway, she has a boyfriend and we met some guys the night before and they invited us to the movies. so we went and last night her and this one guy are like making out. you know its making out, so whatever. but then he started feeling on her and then they got to third base! she hardly even knows this guy.. and i guess im kind of jealous. but hardly. i mean the guy was pretty hot.. and i wouldnt mind being with him but i wouldnt let him finger me! i mean she has a boyfriend!! and like it kind of makes her seem like a whore.. but me and her boyfriend are pretty good friends and i know if i had a boyfriend and he cheated on me i would've been pissed. now shes gonna break up with him and i'm pretty sure he really likes her. now we're best friends but idk what to do.. i'm not gonna tell her boyfriend because he's gonna tell everyone and people are gonna be calling her a whore and it'll just turn up into this whole mess.. what do i do? [sorry it's so long]
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sometimes, you just need to stay out of things. this is one of those things you should stay out of because you don't want to hurt either of your freinds. let your best freind do what she wants to do and maybe she will learn from it. just be there for both of your freinds, and that's the best thing you can do!
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Q: ok so.. theres this school dance tm which i kinda told my friend "Lucy" that i would go to. but i don't want to go anymoree. it's going to be so lame, no one's going and she'll just be w/ this other girl the whole time anyway. the reason she wanted to go was bc of this guy, and now he's prob not even giong. the same night is this dance at an all boys school that would be SO much more fun to go to (if you have tickets) or i would just rather hang outt. the dance is going to suck though i think - what should i say to lucy? should i just suck it up and go (would it be to mean for me not to)? or should i tell her ... ? thanks ill rate 5s.
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u are the stupidest girl on this planet you dumbass get a life... jkkkkkkkkkkkkk lylas! haha nitwit, tit, titter, nincompoop, etc. hahaaaaaaaa
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Q: so my friends having a party and he invited all of my friends, except me..what should i do? should i confront him? or just leave it go?
PS.
it made me mad to know he did this but w/e
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I would definitly comfront him. You can be like joking and say so hows your party coming along? Or you can be serious and say Am I your freind. HE will prob. say yes then say, then why wasn't I invited to your party. I know how it feels when you don't get invited to a friends party.. I would definitly say something to him because I know it can hurt.
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Q: some guys that i know.. not really MY friends.. but we kinda have some same friends.. text me and are like "ur flat" .. and i think they all think that. and i know i shouldn't care and whatever but is that all anyone thinks? it's so annoying and idk what to dooo
i rate highhhh
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You should just ignore those dumb-ass guys. Your just not fully developed yet. I am really flat but one of my best freinds, he's a guy, said if you are skinny, small boobs look better. They are just being perverted. If you really care, buy a padded bra or something. Or say something mean back to them like, well at least I don't have pimples all over my face or something like that. Or be sexy and say why are you looking at my chest? Or Oh so you noticed? Or you can just say So what why do you even care? Just don't worry about it pretty much! Being flat is betting then being too big!
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Q: Okay the past days I've been thinking about this. There is this one guy that I REALLY like but I don't know whats better having a frienship with him or have a relationship with him. I don't really know whats better. He likes me but my fear is that I might someday lose him and I don't want to lose him NEVER want to lose him. So I need you guys some help here.
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I know exactly how you feel. Let me tell you about my experiences and my freinds. I went out wiht my guy freind and we broke up. Nothing was the same ever again. We hardly ever talk now and I totally regret going out with him. If you both really liek eachother go out with him and if something happens that you need to make up promise eachother that you will stay really good freinds and work hard at it. Call him and etc. Staying freinds though is always good too!!
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bio
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Hey! I am Marissa and I'm 16. I live in South Carolina and I love to dance and laugh. I liek to give advice and help people a lot so feel free to ask me anything and I promise I will get back to you! &hearts
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: South Carolina Occupation: Student Age: 16 AIM: Member Since: August 3, 2004 Answers: 395 Last Update: September 2, 2007 Visitors: 25991
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