Question Posted Thursday September 7 2006, 3:15 pm
I can't talk to my friend about anything that I may be feeling because she is so mean and always yells and thinks she's never wrong. So any problems that I am feeling with out friendship can never be fixed. What should I do? End it? Or what?
DearChrissie3737 answered Saturday September 9 2006, 1:14 pm: Wow, it was a really wierd coincidence to see what you wrote in because this girl sounds exactly like one of my friends. She says whatever is on her mind, she is opinionated, bossy, and if I tell her she's wrong about something she gets all mean and angry. Well what I do with her is take breaks. When she gets to a mean stage I will be like forget it and hang out with my other friends. Even hanging out with her for a day can agrivate you and that's not good so I take long breaks sometimes and it works out for the best. You can end it but ending it would be a lot harder and she might get a lot meaner (which is terrible, I know) but I would just take breaks from her and she will probably act a lot nicer from the space. I really hope this helps my friend and please give feedback :-).
Chrissie [ DearChrissie3737's advice column | Ask DearChrissie3737 A Question ]
fabulous11 answered Thursday September 7 2006, 9:08 pm: DOnt just end it. IF she s a good friend you wanna keep her. My friend can be like that sometimes and one time i just talked to her and told her the total and complete truth. Yea she was kinda mad but then she agreed and it all worked out and stuff. So just tell her the truth. If she gets that mad at you over it then you could end it if you dont care that much.
Suphunn answered Thursday September 7 2006, 4:49 pm: I understand that you said you couldn't talk to your friend about anything, but you need to talk with her. Ask her if anything's going on, why she acts the way she does. Maybe she's having problems of her own, and doesn't seem able to talk with you about it either. It could be the reason why she's always yelling, or why she's mean. Friendships can be fixed, you just need to understand where the other is coming from. :) [ Suphunn's advice column | Ask Suphunn A Question ]
xoMarisox answered Thursday September 7 2006, 4:26 pm: you just need you talk to your friend. tell her what you said to me, that she always yells, is mean, and think's she'e never wrong. tell her that you are willing to keep your friendship going. if she is still rude, i would slowly eaze away from her. don't completly stop being friends with her, just don't be as close. [ xoMarisox's advice column | Ask xoMarisox A Question ]
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