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What is going on
I'm friends with benefits with this guy. I used to have a crush on him.
We agreed to just be friends with benefits.
We don't hang out alot and fullfill the friends with benefits but lately he's been calling alot just to talk and stuff. He comes over every now and again and we just talk.
He has never called me for a booty call. But lately there has been alot of chemistry going on between us, alot of flirting and such.
We aren't really friends (as in normal friends you know) so it confuses me as to why he calls so much to just talk. I know what friends with benefits is, and that's not what we are. I'm not sure what to do? He sends mixed signles. What is going on with us
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Hi, I think he might have a crush on you. He might like you to be his girlfriend but is finding it difficult to communicate it so hes using body language. Signs of if hes interested in you:
1. Flirts and gives body language alot
2. Wants to be closer to you more than ever
3. Strokes something like his hair or a pen when talking to you
4. Face goes red and gets emmbarressed
5. Erect penis (don't look down there though!)
He might want more than friendship. If he does have a crush on you, then hes probaly going through a ruff time. He might be shy on asking you out. From what you've told me it sounds as though he really likes you. But Im not 100% show. Keep looking out for signs. Daniel.
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hmm. well first of all, friends with benefits can work, but it can also be a bad idea. for example what if your friend goes to a party and hooks up with some girl, then you would be the one gettign hurt. but it seems like you guys arent really friends with benefits, but mostly just crushing on eachother. talk to him about it and mabey you guys can work somethign out.
hope this works!
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The whole friends with benefits thing only works if there is no chemsitry. Both of you have to agree that its nothing more then just a hookup. If there is chemistry somone could end up getting hurt. He might like you or somthing, and i suggest you find it out soon, cuz he could be getting the wrong message about it all.
hope this helps :)
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Well, there are a lot of different reasons why he may be sending mix signals. He may like you more then a freind but he doesn't think you like him so he's trying to get you to like him (by calling and hanging out) He may just want some company also... most likely, I think he likes you more then a friend and wants to become your boyfriend. If you like him, start dropping hints and he will pick them up. If you don't wwant to be more then friends, then make sure he knows that, tell him or just keep acting how you are acting now.
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