about

hey people! my names tayla and im 13. not quite in 8th grade yet but pretty close to it. im usually the one my friends go to when they need advice, or to just talk about things that have been going on. im a good listener and im always up for helping people.

advice

no i dont take birth control..

well there are other reasons you may have irregular periods. if your very athletic or new at having them then they will be pretty uirregular. but if your unsure aboout it then you shoudl talk to a doctor or gyno, and you can go on birthcontrol for a few moths to regulate them.

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i love tayla may.

hm. this is a pretty dificult situation. but im sure she loves you to =]

ps.

i LOVE adrianannnnnana

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is it normal to get your period once a month for only 3 days?

do you take birthcontrol?

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Hello,
I'm 16 years old and my boyfriend and i have been talking lately a lot about having sex more often. Whenever i get a chance to see him we have sex and we're both liking that a lot, but i'm not sure if we sure have any more sex. I feel completly comfortable with that and so does my boyfriend, but I'm thinkink that what we have right now is good enough!!!
what do you think?
please help!

well whatever you think your comfortable with. dont let him push you into something you dont want. mabey try talkign to him about why he thinks you should do it more often or whatever hes feeling. my advice to you is tot alk to him, and dont let him push you!

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hey i have really bad cramps and their getting worse. i take alive or ibuprofen but there not working anymore and midol has never worked for me not even the maximum strength....should i get birth control pills?

i have the same problem. it gets so bad that i feel like my sides are ripping open. i went to the doctor and they said that i have a sist on one of my ovaries that causes severe pain.
they do have medicine for that, so my advice to you is to go to a doctor or gynocologist. dont worry it wont be as bad as you think.

hope things get better :-/

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Hey Advicenators-
I was 10, and in the 5th grade. Then in January, some boy who I never knew noticed was in my dance/music class came up to me, did some freaky hand thing. I called him idiot, he gasped, and was left speechless. Since then, I have loved him.

After that, he did all sorts of things. If I was absent, the next day he would say "Oh, so you're here today." When our teacher told us to pair up with a boy, he asked me, and I said no and hid behind the wall, so I wouldn't dance with a boy. He asked me my name. I would never tell him. He found out, by grabbing my books. He walked me to class. I still never gave in to him. He got left back though, and me being in the top class, graduated.

I thought I wouldn't see him, since I went to Junior High (weird I know, we graduate in 5th grade instead of 6th). Our Junior High is only 3 blocks away from my elementary school. I saw him countless times on the bus. He went to sixth grade when I went to seventh. He always was looking at me, and I would look at him.

Now, I'm in 8th grade about to graduate in two days. After that, I don't have to come back to school, but I will. He has the same S.S. teacher as I did last year, so I'm gonna hang out with my teacher for the whole 4 more days of school. I'm gonna try to talk to that boy. Hopefully, he will still talk to me.

I still love this boy. I have loved him since 5th grade, for more than 3 years, and my love never dies, or wears off. Other boys I've liked come and go from my heart, but his spirit never leaves.

My questions:

1. Did this boy ever like me?
2. Do you think I have a chance with him?
3. If he does talk to me, how do I spill that I love him?
4. What do I do if he rejects my love?

Sorry that it's so long.
Please answer, and Alpha345 a.k.a. Ryan, please answer this question. You say you know what love is.

I rate high.

aw that is really cute :)

i definetly think he still likes you. if you havent stopped likeing him then i bet he feels the same way.
and there are some ways you can talk to him about it. you can do the whole, dramatic 'the notebook' way, or you can just go up to him and talk about how you guys used to flirt.
just start a conversation about your old school, and be like "yeah. i remember you were in my class. i liked you so much back then" and see what he says. if he says anythig about him feeling the same way you can just hint that you still do. ask him to go to the movies or somethign and im sure he'll get the picture

well i really want to know how this works out, so IM whenever at taylamayxo

i really hope things work out for you :)

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Okay, this sounds really gross.

Lately, I've had a LOT of discharge, way more than I usually have. It makes it look like I've wet myself a little bit, when I haven't. It happened about a week ago. My period is gonna start in a week or so. I'm not sexually active & I'm not doing anything that would make it more heavy.

1. What is the cause of this?
2. How can I stop it?

kthx.

well if you havent started your period for the 1st time then you might start soon.
and dont worry its normal, its just your bodys way of getting ready for your period.
i dont think there is any way to stop it, you could go to a gyno. i went to one and its a little awkward but i got through it.
if anything i'd wear a panty liner for a while. but be sure to change them

hope things work out.

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if i were to but baby oil on me when i am tanning, would that get me darker a little faster than not putting baby oil on?

yeah it would, but its also really bad. instead of tanning you'd most likely burn.
you end up like sizzling in the sun because its like grease.
i'd try some tannig lostion with bronzer in it, or some amplifyer.

hope it works!

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what are some other great pop punk bands? i like the academy is, matchbook romance, cute is what we aim for, taking back sunday, something corporate, motion city soundtrack, hellogoodbye and all that stuff. if you give me at least 5 good bands then ill rate!

-ANGELS AND AIRWAVES
-alkaline trio
-boxcar racer
-blue october
-pilate
-thousand foot krutch
-theory of a dead man
-queens of the stone age

hope you liek them!

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I've seen Dance Cook just a few times on TV, but if anyone could tell me ig he would be worth buying on iTunes? And if he is, what are some of his best?

im obsessed with dane cook and hes definetly worth it.
try downloading

-horror movie
-slip n bleed
-dont tickle me

or if your really bored on a car ride or somethign you can always listen to *retaliation disk 1 and 2 but their about an hour long each

i have both of those and i laughed my ass off

hope you enjoy it :)

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so i really like this guy 1 but i also like my best friend, now me and guy 1 used to date but we broke up but i think he still likes me but my best friends also likes me and im totally confused i need as much advice as i can get. any scrapbooking tips would be awesome too

well first you should ask yourself why things didnt work out between you adn your ex. and another thing is if you like the way things are between you and your best friend, like friend wise then i wouldnt go out with him. things tend to be a little awkward after you break up. so you guys wont be as close as you used to be.
hope things work out
:)

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okay under my arms, it's always dark. i shave every day & use a lot of soap each time i shower so i'm not quite sure why they get that way. i use Dove deodorant so it doesn't leave any marks er anything so it's not because of that. is there a certain deodorant i can use?? i heard lemons work. any ideas??

thanks!!

im not completely sure what you mean by dark, but mabey if you try using a different razor with more blades for a closer shave.
hope this is any help
:)

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I am just looking for some advice on how to make my room funky and retro looking. I'm not allowed to paint it, but I can put a border up. The only limit is my budget, which is... not much. Any ideas?

i just re did my room. but unlike yours i painted it and got new carpet because i moved across the hall. well the first thing i did was put up some posters, just make the room yours. your room should show what you like and what your interests are, so try some beads and mabey some picture frams. if you go to dry ice or clairs they have tons of neat stuff for your room.
hope your room turns out awesome ;)

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The people that know me think that I'm a nice person, but people who don't, think that I'm stuck up and a goody-goody. It's as if getting good grades is a crime! They assume that I can't have a good time, which is really not true. People won't really come up and speak to me (especially boys) because of this. The problem is, that none of my friends can tell me what it is that makes me appear stuck up at a first glance. How can I appear to be a more friendly and approachable person?

The more answers, the better!

(oh, I'm not really worried about the boys. I have a boyfriend. it's just a detail.)

well first off i wouldnt worry about what other people think. but if it bothers you that much then try to get peoples attention. try out for student council or somethign that requires you talking to people and showing them who you really are.
i have a problem similar to yours. when people look at me they think im some stuck up bitch. and im really the nicest person ever. but i learned to just laugh about it, im not changing for anyone. so my advice to you is to relax! dont worry that much about what their saying.
i hope things get better for you
;)

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hey, if a girl is giving you hand/head
would they want the guys, part to be shaved or at least trimmed??

if your feeling self conscious about it and your not completely sure then go for it. but all girls have different opinions so i dont know how she would feel about it. do what ever you would feel comfortable with.
hope this helps. =]

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Well, I was dying my hair black a few days ago, & the glove I was using had a hole where my ring finger is. I didn't notice & continued dying my hair.
Now, my finger nail is completely black, & no matter what I do it won't change color.

Is it permenantly like this?
What can I do to turn it back to the original color?

it wont stay there forever, but i had something liek that happen to me. i was dying underneath my hair blakc and it got on my arm. i went to rite aide and got a perm kit and used the solution to get it off. it worked really well.
hope this helps =]

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I'm friends with benefits with this guy. I used to have a crush on him.
We agreed to just be friends with benefits.
We don't hang out alot and fullfill the friends with benefits but lately he's been calling alot just to talk and stuff. He comes over every now and again and we just talk.
He has never called me for a booty call. But lately there has been alot of chemistry going on between us, alot of flirting and such.
We aren't really friends (as in normal friends you know) so it confuses me as to why he calls so much to just talk. I know what friends with benefits is, and that's not what we are. I'm not sure what to do? He sends mixed signles. What is going on with us

hmm. well first of all, friends with benefits can work, but it can also be a bad idea. for example what if your friend goes to a party and hooks up with some girl, then you would be the one gettign hurt. but it seems like you guys arent really friends with benefits, but mostly just crushing on eachother. talk to him about it and mabey you guys can work somethign out.

hope this works!

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So this weekend I have a hockey tournament and Im playing 6 games in 2 days. But thats not the problem. It takes 1 hour to play a hockey game and I will be playing 2 games with only 10 minutes of down time. Yeah, and its tiring to play! I'm going to do this 3 times--- 2 games on friday, 4 on sunday with 10-20 minutes of downtime between each pair. OK. thats not making sence. But all I know is that my coach told me to get energy drinks. Which are really good ones that work pretty fast, like within 1 hour or so? I'll RATE!
Thanks
Cat

ok, i suggest energy bars. when you drink energy drinks it may work for a while but all your energy crashes eventually, so you can get really tired. so the drinks may work for the first few games of the day but towards the end, wich must be the most important game, you'll be tired. i play volleyball and for my grand rapids tournament i had the energy bars and it really did help. and running before games helps to wake you up to.
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