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Can't get him off my mind
Hey Advicenators-
I was 10, and in the 5th grade. Then in January, some boy who I never knew noticed was in my dance/music class came up to me, did some freaky hand thing. I called him idiot, he gasped, and was left speechless. Since then, I have loved him.
After that, he did all sorts of things. If I was absent, the next day he would say "Oh, so you're here today." When our teacher told us to pair up with a boy, he asked me, and I said no and hid behind the wall, so I wouldn't dance with a boy. He asked me my name. I would never tell him. He found out, by grabbing my books. He walked me to class. I still never gave in to him. He got left back though, and me being in the top class, graduated.
I thought I wouldn't see him, since I went to Junior High (weird I know, we graduate in 5th grade instead of 6th). Our Junior High is only 3 blocks away from my elementary school. I saw him countless times on the bus. He went to sixth grade when I went to seventh. He always was looking at me, and I would look at him.
Now, I'm in 8th grade about to graduate in two days. After that, I don't have to come back to school, but I will. He has the same S.S. teacher as I did last year, so I'm gonna hang out with my teacher for the whole 4 more days of school. I'm gonna try to talk to that boy. Hopefully, he will still talk to me.
I still love this boy. I have loved him since 5th grade, for more than 3 years, and my love never dies, or wears off. Other boys I've liked come and go from my heart, but his spirit never leaves.
My questions:
1. Did this boy ever like me?
2. Do you think I have a chance with him?
3. If he does talk to me, how do I spill that I love him?
4. What do I do if he rejects my love?
Sorry that it's so long.
Please answer, and Alpha345 a.k.a. Ryan, please answer this question. You say you know what love is.
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Aww this is about the Custest thing ever.
It sounds like this boy really liked you.
You should talk to him tell him how you feel and that you have loved him ever since he did his stupid little hand thing. I dont know if the boy likes you know. BUt if he does you deff. have a chance with this boy. If he rejects your love then ask him if you guys can be good friends. A friendship can grow into more.
i hope i helped.
And about Ryan you can Im him. He has given me advice before through Im.
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that is like one of the cutest storeis i've ever heard and coming from only an 8th grader! im jealous. you phrased it beautifully, but anyways to the point.
1. he liked you so much that he took the time to pick you out of everyone and carry you books so a definite yes!
2. i think you have a chance with him, but you'll have to work hard to create a relationship because you've been kinda ignoring him for the past years. but im 99% sure he'll forgive you for that and take you right away!
3. tell him, ive been nervous all these years so i havent talked to you. ive actually really admired you.
4. if he rejects your love, tell him maybe that you 2 still have a chance of being friends and can hang out. and when your friends you might blossom into more. who knows?
<3i really hope it works out from my heart. he sounds like a cutie.
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i wish i had a story like that! thats so cute!
so anyway:
1. yes, he definetly liked you
2. yes, you have a chance as long as he's not messed up by the whole differant grade thing
3. You start up a casual conversation, if things are going well, and u can tell he remembers you and doesn't hate you now, u just slip...u no *laugh* i liked you in elementry school...by his reaction you might add...i still do
4. hopefully if you read his reaction well, you don't have to deal with this. if he still says no, then say oh..i hope we can still be friends!
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First off, that is so adorable how you fell in love with him. haha. But anyways, yes, theirs a good chance that he liked you. You could have a chance with him too. I think, it'll be totally awesome, and he probably will too if the next time you see him, and your near him, just be like. "Wow, can you believe since 5th grade I still get butterfly's in my stomach when i see you" He will most likely think thats so brave of you to do that. If he rejects your love, its ok. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Not every single guy you like will have the same feelings for you unfortunately. Its not just you, girls and guys go through the same thing. Deffinitly talk to him when you see him. Never regret anything you do in life. Good Luck, hope I helped. Enjoy summer!
-Brina
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aw that is really cute :)
i definetly think he still likes you. if you havent stopped likeing him then i bet he feels the same way.
and there are some ways you can talk to him about it. you can do the whole, dramatic 'the notebook' way, or you can just go up to him and talk about how you guys used to flirt.
just start a conversation about your old school, and be like "yeah. i remember you were in my class. i liked you so much back then" and see what he says. if he says anythig about him feeling the same way you can just hint that you still do. ask him to go to the movies or somethign and im sure he'll get the picture
well i really want to know how this works out, so IM whenever at taylamayxo
i really hope things work out for you :)
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You know to be quite honest,
this is very cute :)
I think he does like you, why else would he have done all this stuff, bugged you, wanted to dance with you, its all so incredibly sweet, and especially at such a young age!
I think you havea chance with him if his feelings still hold the same as yours.
Okay, first if you do talk to him, dont gush your love for him, that freaks guys out, ask to hang out, and then just say.. if your confident enough.. "i really like you" heavy on the "really" part. If he rejects you, its okay, you dont go to the same school anyways anymore, even thoughe ventually you['ll see each other again when he finally does get to highschool, you'll have made new friends, met new guys, and your really young in the first place, so its not the end of the world.
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