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me my cousin and her crush..
hey! im 16/f and my cousin is 15/f! and well she really likes this cute guy (kevin) and he is also 15 but my other cousin (her brother) and me were talking to this gil (kristin) that kevin use to like and i guess he still likes her or would like to get back with her but you see kristin still likes kevin but said she would never go back out with him because she wants someone knew. this kevin guy seems really really nice too! but i dont know if my cousin has a chance..not to be mean to my cousin or anything because i love her to death but it just doesnt seem like he would go for a girl like her..!? it seems like he has different taste but im not gonna go tell her that she will get mad and it will break her heart. she always talks about kevin and this friday we are goin to one of his baseball games because he plays my friend. so me and her and my friend and her friend are gonna go.i said i wanna meet kevin. first because he is a hottie! lol and second because i wanna see what he is like and all. i mean im scared that i will kinda like him or whatever because to me he seems nice funny good personality. but i dont want to do that to my cousin!! i would never do anything to hurt her and let guys come between us. i really want to meet him and she knows that but she never talks to him when we see him "she is too scared" she says and embarassed and shy. im not just gonna go up to him either because she will hate me and also that would be awkward! since he doesnt know me. what if i talk to him and he like flirts with me or somethin? my cousin says he is a huge flirter. i would want to flirt back but i wouldnt because i gotta remember my cousin likes him! but as i said before i dont know if he is the right type for her. i can already tell that im gonna like kevin because he seems like my type and my cousin says me and him are alike..! and that im the type of girl he would go for. i would want to go for him or whatever or flirt but what about my cousin? we have had many talks about him but i just dont know. jokingly when we talk she is like "gosh you two are so alike you would love him! wait..you better not go out with him like not seriously but saying you better not because i want him" i know your gonna say dont let boys come between you two because friendship is the most important thing. but lately ive been guy crazy!! and lately there have been no guys around that are cute or that i am interested in and now kevin comes along. i just dont know sorry if this was long and confusing but if you understand will you please give me some advice on what i should do?!
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xoxo
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It wouldn't be that unusual for cousins or close friends to like the same guy. You probably have similar taste in boys is all, after all you probably like a lot of the same things.
My best advice is to meet someone that you can claim as your own, not someone she had her eye on first. You don't want to be in competition with anyone over a guy because then you will always be worried about losing him. If he does flirt, just tell him not to or ignore it. It doesn't really matter if you think they are not the right type for each other, it's what they think that counts. So try your best to be happy for your cousin and then you won't have to be confused any longer.
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Well I'm going to be honest..
I dont think you should go for Kevin,
no one has "types" and if your cousin likes him than you should just let her have him to like, even if nothing happens, because its not right to go after someone that you think is "your type", I mean honestly, Kevin could think that you arent his type because you dont meet or look his standards, you got to look at all angles of situations. And your right dont let guys come between friendship, if its not going to work out - than dont either of you have him. Its not like his is property anyways.
Just thought I'd give you some food for thought.
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