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-name : Adriana Elizabeth C******** H*****
-birthday : April 16th 1991
-school : Dillard High Woot Woot!
-hair color : dark brown
-natural haircolor : dark brown
-how long is your hair : pretty long
-straight or curly : curly
-eyes : brown/hazel
-glasses/contacts : glasses for far away
-tan or pale : tanish
-hieght : 5'5
-nationality : Costa Rican/white
-what size do you take : in what?
-were do you live : florida
-were did u grow up : hollywood
-piercings : 1 in each ear
-music : everything
-song : "in parentheses" charlotte martin

FAVORiTE*
-journal/diary: journal
-color: teal
-store : Hollister, American Eagle, Abercrombie & Fitch
-mall : whatever mall that has those stores above =D
-candy : chocolate!!!!!!
-soda : Root beer, best soda!
-smell : Liquid Hard Candy
-place : my house
-food : Frostys from Wendy's Yum!
-movie : i have a lot of favorites...
-night/day : midnight
-hot/cold : cold
-summer/winter : winter...
-school/no school : no school!
Animal- : Dog

HYGENE*
-take showers everyday : yes
-about how long : 17-20 minutes
-shampoo : w/e lol
-hair gel : anything that holds this frizzy hair I have
-face wash : Nuetregena
-soap : Dove
-do you shave : yes...
-brush your teeth : ...yea lol...
-toothpaste : like i care what kind it is???

PERSONALS*
-have a boyfriend: yes i love him with all my heart.
- how many times have you been kissed including dares : too many to be counted
-anything else ? : im hyper. weee.
-have you smoked : Nope and never will
-do you smoke : nope and never will
-have you drank : no
-have you gotten drunk : nope
-drugs : yea right !!
-what kind : sharpie markers lol J/P!!!!
-what pisses you off : competitive jealousy from MY OWN FRIENDS and/or people who don't even know/met and think I'm a slut and act bitchy.
-play sports : yes, dance (not a sport but in Ireland it is..lol)
-hobbies : watching movies, im the biggest movie nerd, dancing to anything...i'm a freak...

LiFE*
-siblings : 1 brother, Aaron, he's 9...
-parents : mama: Diane and papi: Maurice
-you like life : yes at rare times no but hey, everyone does
-how old are you going to be : 16
-do you like to talk on the phone : yeah all the time
-computer? : yupp
-are you on the phone too much : lol yess.. with my bf always...
-religion : Christian...
-political views: Republican =D suck it.
L.i.f.e moves very fast. And if you don't stop to l.o.o.k around. You could m.i.s.s it... :) So...Laugh insanely, Kiss slowly, Love truly and Forgive quickly....Life is TOO short...

Costa Rican Pride!

advice

Hey, I like this guy alot, but he always wants me to do stuff with him more than kissing. Im 14 and I dont really want to b/c Im a Christian and I dont like to do stuff like that ..but I like him ALOT HELP ME!

Hey hunny,

We all get put into positions like that and its pure peer pressure. :) That's a problem with a lot of girls including me...they feel obligated to fool around with a guy just to have him stick around, and thats so wrong. No guy is worth that.
I am a very devout Chistian too and I know the position you are being put in right now, because I went through the same thing. Explain to this guy that you really like about how you feel about this. Tell him exactly what you told us, on how you feel and you don't like/want to do stuff more than kissing with him. If he understands and respects you he is SO worth you. If he calls you prude and dumps you/moves on he's a jerk who wants to use girls to get some. And who says there is anything wrong with being prude. Stand your ground and be proud :) Don't give in :)
Hope I helped & Good Luck, babe...
Pura Morena
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okay..well i had this friend and we were best friends for awhile..then we kinda started drifting apart and i started saying stuff about her..she found out and wasnt my friend for awhile but then she apologized to me (i dont know why) and we became friends again. for the next few months we were friends and we werent as close as we used to be..she is so dramatic sometimes for a number of reasons and the other day my friend told her off and said that i hated her also because i told her how i hated her when i was mad at her one time...then she IMed my friend and asked why i hate her and i said becuz she always starts drama and everything and like all this stuff so now i think she hates me..the other day i was looking at my old journal and all the stuff me and her used to do together and i kinda miss her .. i feel bad that we're not friends and also its kinda weird cuz one of my friends is friends with her and we're all going to the movies tomorrow night and it will be very weird..and im kinda thinkin of saying sorry to her but im afraid this one girl will hate me if she finds out we're friends again..that was probably very confusing to read but can u help me ? xo

Aw heyy babee!

Absolutely not! Why would yopu not be friends with someone just because your other friend doesn't want you to and will get mad at you...thats bull, I have such strong feelings for situations like this. If your friend id going to get mad at you because you want to make-up with your former bestfriend, she isn't a friend, and I'd drop her too because stuff like that..I can't even began to say what happens if you stay her firend and make up with your other friend.
I have been having second thoughts with my former best friend, and saying sorry to her. But now I have wayy too much pride and I can't even do it. You need to make up with her now, before its to late and you can't or you don't want to, or things won't EVER be the same again :)
Hope I helped and GOOD LUCK! :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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I dunno how to put this but here we go.
So for spring break I went up to steamboat to go skiing and in the hotel room I would always call my bff's Ana and Tess! Then They were always together when I called they were together every day when I was gone. And I always get jelious when people hang out with out me like I dont care if their friends but I just get soo jelious. I dont know what to do to solve my problem. PLEASE HELP ME!

Hey hunny,

I used to feel like that too, last summer with my friends S and A when I went to Costa Rica.
You just have to put it in another perspective. Like think to yourself, don't they wish they could be here with you, because you are having a great time skiing in steamboat? (i love that place :) )Who konws? They could've been missing you and wishing you were back home with them, just as you wish you were with them. They could be jealous that you got to go skiing!
You can make little comments like, "I'm going to be SO sad when I'm leaving for _____....I won't get to see you guys :(" Your best friends will be like "awww" Oh, and just remember, one of them might go out of town and you could be hanging out with Ana/Tess by yourself when Ana/Tess is away feeling the same way you felt. You are not alone :)
Hope I helped :)
Pura Morena,
xo0x adriana

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I need to know what to do in this situation,i went on a date and i told one of my guy friends about it and then he told another guy that the guy i went out with fingered me and then that guy asked the guy i went out with and he said no and told him it wasn't true...but the worst part is that he lied and said that i was the one who said that he did it to me when it never happened...the guy who started the whole rumor is suppose to be one of my best friends what should i do or say to him.... please help...thanks

Hey hunny,

Don't worry about rumors because rumors are just as fake as the people who start them, as the saying goes. Don't go balistic when talking to your best friend, but be firm to let him know that you are really angery/hurt for him lying, spreading a rumor that was not true, and not being a very good friend to you. The point is to make him feel bad for what he did and lead that to appologizing to you, and telling everyone that the rumor wasn't true and he spread it. Don't worry, babe...this hell will end for you very soon if you confront him VERY seriously. :)
Hope I helped and G/L!!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!!

Hey hun!!

Thats soooo sweet that you wanna write her a poem !! I would have never thought of that! :) Ok well, if you need some help ryhming words you can go to this webbie: http://www.rhymezone.com/
Its a great site if you need a synonyms for a word if it is too "dead" or whatever lol...
Hope I helped :) and Good Luck with you poem :)
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ok my friend is really mad at me because we joke around and she took a joke personly so her mom called my mom and her mom told my mom wat i said.now im really in a bad situation /wat shud i do???should i joke around anymore???

sincerly,
xxmystary-girlxx

Hey hun,

Yea, you should joke around to a point. Your friend seems like the sensitive type, like me :) but like before you joke around or say something, think to your self "Is this going to hurt _______'s feelings?" then put yourself in their shoes if you were to say it. You can still joke around just don't do it too much, because your friendship just might be all about joking around and you want to have a friendship that is also based off being serious sometimes, like bonding seriously. And remember EVERYONE makes mistakes and says hurtful things to one another. Say you are sorry to your friend, show her you care and you're sorry that you hurt her, and tell her that you will try and be a better friend when it comes to joking around :)
Hope I helped and Good Luck :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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my friends are making me really mad because i like this boy and he used to with my cousin. i was all happy on my birthday and thought he liked me. and at my party, i find out that hes already talking to somebody and he used to go with my cousin. i dont talk to him on the phone, but at school we talk all the time. maybe he only likes me as a friend. but then why does he like to give me massages and likes to flirt. its annoying and i dont ever want to see him again. because i feel like ive been cheated because ive been getting the wrong messages from him. and i dont no, i just wish my parents would ship me off to boarding school. because im really, really hurt right now. by him and my friends, and my cousin. because she always gets what she wants. and im sorry this is so long, but what should i do?

Hey hun,

Don't worry! He just has no idea what he wants. That is very hurtful that he lead you on, but there is no reason to want to go to boarding school. Before you know it, the storm will blow over. If your cousin gets whatever she wants, you know deep down she isn't a happy person, because a person who gets what they want is never happy because they crave more. You can't really tell your cousin a "get lost, he's mine" phrase but you can tell her how you feel right now, and also your friends. And who knows, you know almost all relationships BARELY last today, him and your cousin could break up. That doesn't mean move in on him. Wait for him to come to you and then play Karma. Thats what I would do. But if this guy really means the world to you tell him how you felt about him hurting you. Whatever you do, you need to speak out about how you feel.
Hope I helped, babe :) Feel Better!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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i like a gurl in our class but she wont even talk to me no more cause suran made shit up tat i said she gives head i told her i didnt and she still does not belive me and doesnt talk to me no more wat do i do

hey Justin

Ok, tell N that your really sorry even though you didn't say anything. It will show your maturity. :)
Hope I helped :)
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hey,
i have this best friend and she is really cool and ive nown her for awhile. but then this other friend comes and she is really cool to but she makes me feel like a third wheel..i dont no if i should talk to my friend or what. i really really need help! its driving me crazy.thanks.

Hey hun,

I've been having similar problems like that, and like the saying always says "3 is a tricky # with friends.." I would tell your friend how you are feeling. But I consider for you not to be too whiny (something I'd do) Just saying something like this "I kinda have been feeling like a third wheel, and to me...It feels like I am loosing my best friend." She will realize that like she means a lot to you and will try to include you in some of the things they do together or she just won't brag to you about what her weekend was like with her other friend to make you feel left out.
Good Luck hunny! :)
Pura Morena,
xo0x adriana

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There is this girl,lets call her Sammy. And shes knew this year and we became fiends. But now i don't like her. SHE DOES EVERYTHING I DO! I have no personal life/space! She is like a lil mini me! And i'm getting SICK of it! And i would feel bad if i wasn't her friend BECAUSE I'M HER ONLY FRIEND! So how should i tell her or even better get rid of her without hurting her feelings as bad?

Hey babe,

You NEED to confront Sam. Just talk to her and be like, you feel she is not being herself and trying to be like you. She may deny it, but you have to be gentle. :)
Good Luck,
Pura Morena
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Im 15 and have been best friends with a girl in my school, we wnt on holiday together, played netball together, got drunk together for about 3 yrs. Now she starts hangin round with this girl i kinda like but not particularly, somedays she cool and hangs wit me but otha days she goes off with this other girl and just leaves me. I told her i thought she was being unreasonable and things worked out for a while. Now though its all starting again and as its school holidays i never hear from my friend cos shes always with this new freind. It was her birthday (my friend) 3 days ago, i txt her and asked if she was doing anythin for it and she sed she was havin a party, not invitin me, just telling me. So i txt her and sed thanx 4 the invite, she sed wel u r invited. Jus 2 anoy her i said well i cant go anyway and she starts goin on about how i would have made all these xcuses anyway bcos her new freind will b there and i cant handle them two being friends, she ended her text with see you around. I have done so much for her in the past and now she just throws it back in my face. Do you think i should just leave her completely and never tlk again or jus try and b freinds with her, even though she likes her new freind better?

Hey,

Aw, don't feel bad about anything. You absolutely did nothing wrong. If she thinks she needs her new freind more than you, let her have it that way. She'll come around and text you or call you. Just play along with it. Say "yeah, I've been pretty busy lately", Just still be nice to her. When you see her in the halls when break is over, smile or say hi. Just don't be over friendly. Soon she will realize what a great guy you were and how you were always there for her and how she just threw it away and will want to hang out with you again, and how she made such a stupid mistake...She'll come back for you...I promise :)
Hope I helped and don't sit around and wait for her to call you or text you, you go do your own thing, boy! :)
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my ex b/f told me that he likes me yesterday...hes a year younger then me, and a grade below me... he knows that i dont like him...he said that he liked it alot the last time we went out. we are supposed to hang out this week. he says that i shouldnt feel bad, but i do.... things wont be very bad for me, but hes a shy person and i dont know if hes gonna talk to me when we hang out...is there anything i can do or say that will help him any...???

Hey girlie,

If you don't like your ex bf, don't feel bad. He understands you, that you don't like him anymore. Don't act any different before he told you he liked you, if you guys hung out together. Just be his friend. He'll apprieciate that so much more, than if you acted a little different because you knew he liked you. Be yourself :)
I hope I helped :)
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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Im 13 years old and I just started jr. high. I'm in the 7th grade. The problem is that I have no friends and I don't know how to make any. I've tried to be social, but no one seems to want to talk to me. I'm in all honors classes, and the girls in the honors classes are all rich and white and popular. I don't really like them anyway, but i have every class with them. Thankfully, i have 1 really good friend I met this year. She dosnt have friends, either. How can I make friends? I want to be the popular girl i was in elementary.

Hey hun,

I know its hard to fit in right when you get into, Jr. High. Well have you heard the saying. The only way to have a friend is to be a friend :)? You should still talk to the rich, white, popular girls, because they may like you. You just have to get to know them. Compliment them on what they are wearing if you like it. Anything nice to say. Thats how I made most of my friends. Smile, and be yourself.
Good Luck and I hope I helped,
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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I have been best friends with someone for about a half of a year. Afer she hooked up with a new guy, after dumping her old bf, she has completly ditched me. We go to different skools, but she still called me every nite to tell me something or other. And now, she doesnt call me @ all and never returns my calls and evertime tat i get ahole of her, she always says got to go, and says call u back in 5 minutes, and never does. I dont know what to do because we havent been fighting or anything and everything was kewl last weekend. Could it be that i have been not home at all and she is jealous or something that i am hangin with other people?I am very upset though because she is my best friend and i tell her everything and now i have no one to tell all my stupid stories about skool. Please help me and fast, anyone that gives me advice in the next 1o minutes, i will give a 5!

Hey hunny,

She really isn't being a friend. She ditching you for a guy she probably barely even knows Talk about love crazed..lol. But What I would do, is forget about her for now. You have other friends right? Tell your stories to them. Or you could journal them, I have friends but I don't tell them everything, so I journal it. Spend time with your other friends. Do stuff together, like go to the movies, or go shopping. Get your mind off her. She will eventually call you. Which is probably around the time she is heartbroken or she ends the relationship. Now thats using people...BUT still be her friend. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is forgive. But you should show her the example of that. By not being mad at her. Even though you may be deep down. She does sound like she's jealous for you to be sharing your love life with her, and her's was just sinking like the titanic. So, now that she is happy, she feels like she really doesn't need you anymore. She will again...I promise :)
Good Luck
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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I was in a mental institution and I got really close to one of the staff members that worked there, she helped me in every way possible and I thought of her as my mom. Since I have been out it seems like everytime I call the hospital to talk to her, they make an excuse for me to NOT talk to her. Last night my sister looked her up on the internet and come to find out, she lives a mile away from me, and I have her home phone number, I mailed her a christmas card this morning to her home, but I dont know if I should actually call her at home. I miss her so much and she made such a big impact in my life, what do I do? I don't want her to think that I am like stalking her or anything! ???????

Hey hun,

Aw I know how that feels! You should just keep trying to contact her. I think you should call her house phone. She will melt when she finds out that she changed your life, and she WON'T think you are a stalker. Trust me, just call her and be like "merry christmas", "i hope your having a wonderful time around the holidays" Just make a stand and call she will be soooo touched that you did. :)
Good Luck, hun
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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I have been best friends with kara for almost a year. Just the other day, she broke up with her boyfriend. And that same day, someone new asked her out. She said yes, and has been ditching me ever since. Because we go to different schools, we talk on the phone every night. Now, when i call her house she always says got to go, i will call you back in 5, and never does. I really am upset because i did nothing wrong and we were best friends and she is avoiding me for reasons that i dont know, and i cant get ahold of her to talk about it. Also, before she dumped her first boy friend, i kept talking about his boy that i like a lot! And she was kinda annoyed about it because she came to my school one day. I think that she likes him, she told me she did. Then, I have been doing stuff with him and my other friends a lot lately, could she be jealous of that?

Hey hunny,

Your best friend, Kara, really isn't being a friend. She ditching you for a guy she barely even knows Talk about love crazed..lol. But What I would do, is forget about her for now. You have other friends right? Spend time with your other friends. Do stuff together, like go to the movies, or go shopping. Get your mind off Kara. She will eventually call you. Which is probably around the time she is heartbroken or she ends the relationship. Now thats using people...BUT still be her friend. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is forgive. But you should show her the example of that. By not being mad at her. Even though you may be deep down. She does sound like she's jealous for you to be sharing your love life with her, and her's was just sinking like the titanic. So, now that she is happy, she feels like she really doesn't need you anymore. She will again...I promise :)
Good Luck
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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Ok, so whenever my best friend has another friend over she won't talk to me (I mean like online). Your probably thinking "ummm, it's rude to talk to you while a friend is there." But she talks to other people! I know this because if I IM her on the bottom it will say (their screenname) is typing. Then she just stops typing when she realizes it's from me and immedatly puts up her away message. Then someone will ask me if I know why she went away without saying anything. My question is how should I confront her? Do you think she is hiding something from me? Thank you.

Hey hunny,

I used to have a friend like that. Friends like that are usually...well idk...But my friend that was like that would usually do the same thing. Then suddenly she stopped talking to me all of a sudden and would start ignoring me...were not friends anymore. That is really mean what your best friend is doing. She could just not want to be your friend anymore :(...Does she talk to you in person? If she does everything might be fine because maybe when she has a friend over she knows she'll get warped up into talking to you because you guys are best friends and she won't spend that much time with the friend she has over. You never really know. You should confront her ASAP though. You just might save your friendship with her... :)
G/L and I hoped I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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Hey girlie wuts up??

My name is Katie and I have a question for you ...

Do you get hit on a lot, as in guys? Because you are really pretty... :)

Katie ;)

Hey Katie,
Wuts up :)?

Thanks :). You make me blush. lol
Yes, every once in a while a guy makes a nice comment about me. But not very often. If I got it too much I would be dreading going out in public! Plus my ego would be so high, I wouldn't have many freinds. I am quite content. I am not going to dress in a way to get attention though. I think every girl should dress modestly and not dress so revealing to get attention from guys. :)
Holla back!
xo0x adriana ;)

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i have this friend that im not sure is really wrong.. she was pretty upset the other day and everyone asked her what was wrong and she only told one person. that person is like the nicest person and she promised not to tell but.. i just want to know whats wrong! i dont think that i can ask her about it because i like no she wont tell me.. but i really want to no because i think it has to do w/ me maybe being mean to her or something... i dont think i am but maybe =\

pleasee tell me what you would do

Hey girlie,

For some reason you sound like you are talking about me (the girl who you don't know whats wrong with her) and this sounds like my friend, jessie. This exact story happened to me the other day...But I'll answer your question anyway... :)

You never know what could be bothering her. Family Problems, Heartbroken, not fitting in. You never really know. Maybe if you ask her she'll get upset again because then she's going to cry all over again. Just lay off of her for a little while and cheer her up. Be your sweet self. Make her feel good. Then maybe you can ask her when you guys are alone together.
G/L and I hope I helped :)
Pura Morena
xo0x adriana

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I dont know what to get my 2 BEST FRIENDS for christmas..got ne Ideas?

Hey hun!

Getting gifts for best friends is awesome and soo thoughtful but quite easy. :)

Get something that symbolizes friendship. Like a friendship braclets for the three of you guys or necklace or anklebraclet. I have an anklebraclet with my best friend. You could also get her something that symbolizes one of your inside jokes with the two of them (make it clean, lol)

If you want to go ordinary, buy them clothes at their favorite stores. That is still a great gift :)

Hope I helped
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana

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