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hey,
i have this best friend and she is really cool and ive nown her for awhile. but then this other friend comes and she is really cool to but she makes me feel like a third wheel..i dont no if i should talk to my friend or what. i really really need help! its driving me crazy.thanks.
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If I were you I would talk to your friend about it. If it really bothers you shouldn't keep it from her!!
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Well for one thing, you defanetly shouldnt be talking to us about. Yes talk to your friend.
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Hey hun,
I've been having similar problems like that, and like the saying always says "3 is a tricky # with friends.." I would tell your friend how you are feeling. But I consider for you not to be too whiny (something I'd do) Just saying something like this "I kinda have been feeling like a third wheel, and to me...It feels like I am loosing my best friend." She will realize that like she means a lot to you and will try to include you in some of the things they do together or she just won't brag to you about what her weekend was like with her other friend to make you feel left out.
Good Luck hunny! :)
Pura Morena,
xo0x adriana
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Alot of people have been in this type of situation and I know its hard. I would try to hang out with your other friend that came in. Try to get to know her. Heres an example well I was in a friendship of 2 then this new girl came she was nice and all but I didnt feel like myself anymore. I finally talked to the new girl about it and she felt the same way we became closer because of that. Try to hang out with her and just tell her she will understand trustt me! This will help build your friendship too =) good luck xo0x
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i've had similar problems with friends as you. if you really like your friend and want to keep her as a friend, the only thing you can do is talk to her. try talking to your best friend first, because maybe she doesn't realize that they're leaving you out, and she'll try not to let it happen again. if that's not the case, or if you do talk to her but things don't change, then try talking to the other friend, and tell her that it bothers you that she's leaving you out. hopefully she'll be sorry and wont let it happen, but maybe it's one of those things that you can only hang out with your best friend when the other friend isn't there. hopefully that won't happen cause if she's your best friend she'll understand. hope this helped. good luck
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