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My best friend
I have been best friends with kara for almost a year. Just the other day, she broke up with her boyfriend. And that same day, someone new asked her out. She said yes, and has been ditching me ever since. Because we go to different schools, we talk on the phone every night. Now, when i call her house she always says got to go, i will call you back in 5, and never does. I really am upset because i did nothing wrong and we were best friends and she is avoiding me for reasons that i dont know, and i cant get ahold of her to talk about it. Also, before she dumped her first boy friend, i kept talking about his boy that i like a lot! And she was kinda annoyed about it because she came to my school one day. I think that she likes him, she told me she did. Then, I have been doing stuff with him and my other friends a lot lately, could she be jealous of that?
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she might be jealous but people change and i think you guys are growing apart and maybe you should find new friends or the people that you have been hanging out with and i dont think that anyone should be treated like that saying ill call you back in 5 and not calling and then you have to call like all the time and then you find out shes ditching you thats happened to me before
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Okay, first of all, if she was your best friend she wouldnt be ditching you unless shes trying totellyou something thatshe's too nervous or embarrassed to say. I would stop calling her and try to meet her at her house after school or just try to meet up with her in person so you can get this problem solved. Apologize and tell her that you're sorry that you're having problems and that you'd like to do whatever is necessary to solve them so you can be friends again. As for the whole thing with the guy you both like, she shouyld back off. If you've already told her that you like him and then she goes out and goes after him, I would be pissed. Maybe you should bring this up to her when you have your nice little chat. Anyways, I think it is a good possibility that she might be jealous of you and your new friends. Maybe she's having a hard time adjusting at her school and she's not as popular as she once was. She could also just be missing you and her old friends and this is her way of putting it in the past. I hope I could be of soem help to you. Good Luck! ~Brit
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Hey hunny,
Your best friend, Kara, really isn't being a friend. She ditching you for a guy she barely even knows Talk about love crazed..lol. But What I would do, is forget about her for now. You have other friends right? Spend time with your other friends. Do stuff together, like go to the movies, or go shopping. Get your mind off Kara. She will eventually call you. Which is probably around the time she is heartbroken or she ends the relationship. Now thats using people...BUT still be her friend. Sometimes the hardest thing to do is forgive. But you should show her the example of that. By not being mad at her. Even though you may be deep down. She does sound like she's jealous for you to be sharing your love life with her, and her's was just sinking like the titanic. So, now that she is happy, she feels like she really doesn't need you anymore. She will again...I promise :)
Good Luck
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana
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She isnt a good friend if she likes the same guy you do and also she has a boyfriend. So just find a new friend who wont back stab you. Good luck! XoXoLexiXoXo
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hey there
well ya she just might be jealous .why dont you just talk to her or go and visit her some time and ask her why shes avoiding you
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