okay..well i had this friend and we were best friends for awhile..then we kinda started drifting apart and i started saying stuff about her..she found out and wasnt my friend for awhile but then she apologized to me (i dont know why) and we became friends again. for the next few months we were friends and we werent as close as we used to be..she is so dramatic sometimes for a number of reasons and the other day my friend told her off and said that i hated her also because i told her how i hated her when i was mad at her one time...then she IMed my friend and asked why i hate her and i said becuz she always starts drama and everything and like all this stuff so now i think she hates me..the other day i was looking at my old journal and all the stuff me and her used to do together and i kinda miss her .. i feel bad that we're not friends and also its kinda weird cuz one of my friends is friends with her and we're all going to the movies tomorrow night and it will be very weird..and im kinda thinkin of saying sorry to her but im afraid this one girl will hate me if she finds out we're friends again..that was probably very confusing to read but can u help me ? xo
Absolutely not! Why would yopu not be friends with someone just because your other friend doesn't want you to and will get mad at you...thats bull, I have such strong feelings for situations like this. If your friend id going to get mad at you because you want to make-up with your former bestfriend, she isn't a friend, and I'd drop her too because stuff like that..I can't even began to say what happens if you stay her firend and make up with your other friend.
I have been having second thoughts with my former best friend, and saying sorry to her. But now I have wayy too much pride and I can't even do it. You need to make up with her now, before its to late and you can't or you don't want to, or things won't EVER be the same again :)
Hope I helped and GOOD LUCK! :)
Pura Morena
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