my friends are making me really mad because i like this boy and he used to with my cousin. i was all happy on my birthday and thought he liked me. and at my party, i find out that hes already talking to somebody and he used to go with my cousin. i dont talk to him on the phone, but at school we talk all the time. maybe he only likes me as a friend. but then why does he like to give me massages and likes to flirt. its annoying and i dont ever want to see him again. because i feel like ive been cheated because ive been getting the wrong messages from him. and i dont no, i just wish my parents would ship me off to boarding school. because im really, really hurt right now. by him and my friends, and my cousin. because she always gets what she wants. and im sorry this is so long, but what should i do?
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Sunday March 6 2005, 12:20 pm: well it seems to me he likes you and yur cuz. if you still like him you might consider flirting with him more and trying to get him to focus on you more. make him want and need you. but if you dont like him anymore, cause i still not sure on wether u like him o' not, you shold try to forget about him and look for a better man. i hope it all works out! [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
Don't worry! He just has no idea what he wants. That is very hurtful that he lead you on, but there is no reason to want to go to boarding school. Before you know it, the storm will blow over. If your cousin gets whatever she wants, you know deep down she isn't a happy person, because a person who gets what they want is never happy because they crave more. You can't really tell your cousin a "get lost, he's mine" phrase but you can tell her how you feel right now, and also your friends. And who knows, you know almost all relationships BARELY last today, him and your cousin could break up. That doesn't mean move in on him. Wait for him to come to you and then play Karma. Thats what I would do. But if this guy really means the world to you tell him how you felt about him hurting you. Whatever you do, you need to speak out about how you feel.
Hope I helped, babe :) Feel Better!
Pura Morena :)
xo0x adriana [ x0x_surfergirl_x0x's advice column | Ask x0x_surfergirl_x0x A Question ]
Shortie answered Sunday March 6 2005, 11:19 am: dear confused,
you don't have to do anything. you can still talk to him and you know your cousin and him arent going to be dating forever. look at the bright side, maybe if you get to know him enough, he'll break up with your cousin and go straight to you! keep your chin up, and don't let it drop. IM me (on AIM)to tell me how things are working out. good luck....
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