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14/f...my friend told me that she was going away this weekend so i didnt invite her over..bu then i saw her profile on AIM and it said she was at her other friends house..so basically she lied to me and i now i dont know what to do..i am afraid to ask her about it..and i really dont want to..=/
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Talkin to your friend can help solve plenty of things. Maybe she just couldnt go because change of plans, and she forgot to tell u.
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You need to ask her about it! She should have told you the truth! And maybe she will have a good explanation....thats wrong of her to do that!
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Wow! That's weird that she would lie to you like that. Maybe she didn't want to tell you because the friend she was hanging out with, you hated her friend. U really need to tell her about her lying to you, because that is a bad habit in a friendship. Be nice on her though because maybe she had a good reason to lie, maybe to not hurt your feelings. Try to understand that she lied to you, and she might not be the greatest friend.
**Good Luck**
~~Browny4541~~
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Well, wait, now, I've been known when I am at places and my away message is on, I just throw on one. Like, I was watching TV, and I could just put one on quick and run, and it usually ends up saying "out to lunch" or something like that. But, I think you should call over at her other friends house if you have her number. But if you don't, call her house and if someone picks up, ask where she is. Try not being afriad of asking, listen, I'll reassure you why you shouldn't be, and why she should be scared.
*Because if she did lie, she will be afraid of getting caught
*She will be afraid of losing your friendship
*She will be frightened of the idea of losing your trust.
Just think of it this way, you deserve to know the truth, that girl owes you the honest truth. Don't go up to her and start yelling, be calm and say, "Ok, what happened, I thought you were in Boston." And don't smile, just look serious, so she won't smile or laugh back as if its a cruel joke, and let her think shes off the hook. You have to know, don't let her step all over you and get away with it.
(Talk to me in my inbox if you need some more answers or more help.)
-TheTeenGirl
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Dont believe everything you read online! It's likely that she hasnt lied at all. She said she was going away for the weekend, did she tell you exactly where she was going? Did you even ask her? In all honesty it think you need to talk to her in person, it seems that it could jus be a small mis understanding.
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Talk to her bout the whole thing..much luv dez
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If you don't want to ask her, dont. But if its the kind of thing that will really bug you, go up to her next time u see her and ask where she went, or how her weekend was. She might give in, and if she lies to u, just tell her, "u dont need to lie, i know where u were really"
Steph
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Maybe you're misunderstanding? STUPID. Alot of people put away messages that don't relate to where there going. The away message I use for everything right now is
"I used to think my mouse buttons would be uneven if I only used one, so I kept clicking the right one and it just became a habit.
I also used to think the right one would feel useless...u_u"
What does that have to do with anything? Nooothiiing.
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I would be hurt and confused like you are if that happened to me. Dont jump to conclusions..maybe she made plans with her friend and her friend couldnt invite you too. Maybe your friend didnt want to hurt your feelings so she told a small lie. I would confront her and tell her you saw her message up. See what your friend says. Tell her its no big deal if she made plans with the other girl and the other girl couldnt have you over too..but let her know that from now on to just be honest..i think things will work out fine..if not write to my inbox and i'll be more than happy to help out more.
-melissa-
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Maybe her friends house was out of town. But if it's really bugging you, then ask her about it. But since you don't want to ask her about it, just try your best to let it go.
♥ Always,
Maria
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Slap her and call her a bit** for lying to you and threten her.
Have Fun.
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Hey well evidently you dont know the whole story...maybe she went to boston for some of the day and her friend's house afterward. Or maybe her friend called her and she decided she didnt want to go to boston and stayed w/ her friend...you can ask her about it but she might get mad because i mean you didnt invite her over so she kinda has the right to go somewhere else...
also...if you do talk to her if shes a good friend she will understand why you feel that way...tell her you feel bad that she lied to you and hopefully everything will just be a misunderstanding...
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Ask her. You'd be an idiot not to. If you cant tell your friends something they did wrong, then you're weak and useless.
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ask her how was her weekend and what did she do and where she went and she will be like uhhh...... then you could tell she was lying so then you would noe......
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just ask her questions about where she went eventually she wont hav an answer (if she was lying).
hope i helped
bye!
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You really should, because that's really mean! You should ask where she was, and if she still claims she was "away" then you should tell her what you saw. =)
Hope I helped!
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well...what I would do is probably ask her why she lied to you. She probably didn't want to hurt your feelings or anything, but it still doesn't make it right to lie. Yeah just ask her why she lied about her plans this weekend. If she's really your friend she shouldn't have to lie to you. Hope this helps!!!
~Alyssa
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Maybe she was already invited to her other friends house and meant that she wasn't going to be home all weekend. Thats accually a tough question. Call her cell phone (if she has one) and ask her what she's doing, if she says she is with her family say how come you were signed on AIM at your other friends house? If she lies she probably isn't a good friend.
x0x bree.
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dear girls,
you don't have to ask her about it if you don't want to. maybe when you go to school you could ask her how her vacation was. just act typical like you never looked in her profile
personally, what i would do is say, how was your weekend, where did you go? if she says that she went somewhere then say, i looked in your profile and it said you were at your friends! you know you could have told me. its not like i wouldve got mad!
so mainly, just tell the truth. but remember, YOU ABSOLUTLY DO NOT HAVE TO SAY ANYTHING. you don't even have to ask how was her weekend. just try and be nice and not get into a fight.
((shortie*))
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