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Hey I'm Steph. I play soccer and softball I luv all my friends. They mean the world to me. Esp. Bri who'll b moving to Chicago in the summer!~
I look at all the pictures of the past. thinkin how the years went by so fast. The dances. The parties. The pics. The laughs. The shoulders to cry on. And cute photographs. The people I've known since way back when. The new kids came every now and then. The friendships u make come and go. But theres always the few you'll always know. Now as we go our separate ways. I kno I'll always remember these days.
Bri~ ILYSM! I can't imagine my life without my BFF!

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i got bangs the normal ones that cover my whole forehead well im kidna getting tired o them but i have a big forehead so i need them there what should i do?

let then grow out, but keep a lil peice on the sides

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Okay here is the problem my friend just turned 12 last week but her room looks a little kiddish with like pink wallpaper,horse models and so on but she wants her room to look like a 12 year old kid's room but her mom will not let her get new furniture or paint her walls.So does anyone have any ideas on how she could make her room look good without getting new furniture and stuff?I will rate fives to anyone who helps with this room emergency no matter if your advice is not very good!!!

If she can get to walmart, you can get relly cool bed throws, bedding, and pillows. Pillows are the best no matter what age! Make sure the colors match her room now, but aren't kiddish. Also, u can't go wrong with stuffed Care Bears!
Steph

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14/f...my friend told me that she was going away this weekend so i didnt invite her over..bu then i saw her profile on AIM and it said she was at her other friends house..so basically she lied to me and i now i dont know what to do..i am afraid to ask her about it..and i really dont want to..=/

If you don't want to ask her, dont. But if its the kind of thing that will really bug you, go up to her next time u see her and ask where she went, or how her weekend was. She might give in, and if she lies to u, just tell her, "u dont need to lie, i know where u were really"
Steph

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my best frien dylan and I have no been the same since me and my exbf broke up. It seems as if he and I have completly drifted apart. I love him so much more then a friend, but he told me that he doesnt feel any love from me and he feels like I have abandoned him and I haven't. We got in a fight last nite and I hung up on him thenhe called me back and he hung up me, but theres much more to the story then that but its too long. I am going to call him until he picks up his cell phone bc i need to talk to him. We used to be like really close friends almost boyfriend and gurlfriend we just didnt have that lable. I miss the way we used to be. I dont want him to feel abandoned or like I dont love him bc I love him with all my heart. He is messing up his life bc he smokes pot and I kno that he is really depressed. What should I do? I will do anything to make him happy bc even though he and I are not dating he is my babii and I love him.

I miss the way we used to be. I dont want him to feel abandoned or like I dont love him bc I love him with all my heart. He is messing up his life bc he smokes pot and I kno that he is really depressed.

That is practically what you need to say to him!
: I miss the way we used to be...and the rest of that^. It was perfect! I think he'll understand you truly care with your heart, and arent trying to make him like you. If he doesnt luv u DONT press your luck, u might loose him as a friend. Dont pressure him in to anything he doesnt want. He has feelings too, and you need to make them feel loved!

Hope i helped
*Steph

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i went out with my boyfriend for awhile, and we broke up on new years. it really sucks, because we're not gonna be together again because he doesn't want to hurt me. i have to respect that, considering he's thinking about me. but i dont know when ill be able to get over him! i would die if i saw him with another girl, and i see him in the hallways all the time, plus he's in my lunch hour. so what could i do to make me lose interest in this guy so i can move on? i rate high for good answers.. thanx

I've been through this situation before and I'll tell u how i got over him. Right after we broke up I realized it was ALL b/c he didnt want to hurt me. He was afraid if he dumped me with any other reason he would hurt me and then wouldn't be friends. It helps when a guy pulls this act on you, but sometimes it means he just wants to break up, and sometimes its because hes afraid of doing something dumb to loose u as a friend. Just be nice and have fun with him still. He may not be your boyfriend, but just remember, he was thinking ALL about you!

Hope I helped,
*Steph

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