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love beyond friendship
my best frien dylan and I have no been the same since me and my exbf broke up. It seems as if he and I have completly drifted apart. I love him so much more then a friend, but he told me that he doesnt feel any love from me and he feels like I have abandoned him and I haven't. We got in a fight last nite and I hung up on him thenhe called me back and he hung up me, but theres much more to the story then that but its too long. I am going to call him until he picks up his cell phone bc i need to talk to him. We used to be like really close friends almost boyfriend and gurlfriend we just didnt have that lable. I miss the way we used to be. I dont want him to feel abandoned or like I dont love him bc I love him with all my heart. He is messing up his life bc he smokes pot and I kno that he is really depressed. What should I do? I will do anything to make him happy bc even though he and I are not dating he is my babii and I love him.
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I miss the way we used to be. I dont want him to feel abandoned or like I dont love him bc I love him with all my heart. He is messing up his life bc he smokes pot and I kno that he is really depressed.
That is practically what you need to say to him!
: I miss the way we used to be...and the rest of that^. It was perfect! I think he'll understand you truly care with your heart, and arent trying to make him like you. If he doesnt luv u DONT press your luck, u might loose him as a friend. Dont pressure him in to anything he doesnt want. He has feelings too, and you need to make them feel loved!
Hope i helped
*Steph
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If he isn't answering his cell phone and isn't talking to you, I would just go to his house and talk to him in person. That way, he has no choice but to talk to you. Tell him how you feel and be completely honest with him.
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You'd probably have to talk to him about the matter facetoface. Show, or tell him how much he means to you, not just by how much you love him, but just the importance of your friendship. Allow him to be more optimistic about life, remind him of all the people who do care about him, and all of the great things that he has; you included.Help him get into more activites, to remove his mind from smoking.
I hope that you would know NOT to smoke, even if that would make him happy.
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