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One of my old friends' never talked about guys. Like, we would be on the fone, and i would be talking about the guy i liked, and shed kinda just, "push away" the subject. She always said she never likes anyone, and she dosent think that anyone is "cute" or "Hot". I think thats kind of weird. Then one day, we were talking online, and she told me she was a lesbian. It was really awkward, and i really started to believe her, and then when i saw her the next day at school, she was like "omg that was hilarous last night! i was joking!"....I dont know but this kind of looks strange to me..Any ideas on why she might not like to talk about guys? oh by the way..i dont want to talk or ask her about this. thanks! (link)
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she was serious. it happened 2 me once,and later that week my friend told me she acually is a lesbian.she said she wanted to see my reaction.and she told me that she's glad she told me.you should bring up the topic when your on the phone and tell her that you dont care if she's a lesbian or not.hoped i helped!
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OK, I have a friend... we do this play after school. There are only like 5 guys in it. There is this really cute guy.. let's call him Joe. Well my freind.. call her Sally.. always flirts with him. Sally already has a b/f! Now she is flirtin with this joe guy.. usually it wouldn't phase me, but I like JOe! Now sally has joe and a b/f! She ALWAYS flirts with him and is like wait for me and hugs him and is like: hold this and write me a letter and Joe your my best Friend! It's sooooo annoying! I don't know what to do! Should I talk to her? Member, I like Joe! PLease help! (link)
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i think you should talk to sally bout it. tell her you like joe and she has a boyfriend already.ask her if she likes joe more than her boyfriend.if she says no then tell her that you like him. Or you could tell sally that it hurts you that she keeps wanting to hang around joe and calling him her best friend. tell her that its starting to annoy you. Or you could tell her since she's your friend and she has a boyfriend,can she stop hanging around joe so much cause you like him. hoped i helped!....please rate!
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Well, I am sort of stuck in between two friends...you see, their mom's both won't let them do anything with each other, and both of my friends asked me to do something with them tonight. I told the 1st one that asked me that i could do something with her, then my other friend asked me later (she is sort of intimidating sometimes) and she got mad at me earlier that day because i couldn't play with her, so i was afraid that she would do the same thing with this, so i told her "maybe...i don't know"....then today, she was like "lets get in your hot tub" and i was like "well, i don't think i can really do anything today" and she got really mad. Later me and my other friend got called to the counseling office because of her. We thought we figured it out there, but when i was walking home from school today, her mom (the friend who was mad at me) said "come here...we'll give you a ride." Then her mom started asking me things that i never said like "why were you saying your mom didn't want you to play with my daughter" and "why did you tell her that you could do something tonight?" and "i really wish you wouldn't lie to her" now i know that i was not lying. I also know that i did not say anything about my mom hating her. I guess her mom is mad at me now though and i don't know what to do. Please tell me as soon as you can....thanx so much
oh, by the way, i am 13 and i am a girl (link)
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well you could tell the mother and the daughter who's mad at u that you had to go to your other friend's house because she asked you first. and tell them not to be mad and you weren't lying. i hope i helped and things work out!
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ok... my best friends and i were sitting at lunch and we had to move because other ppl were sitting there. so when sarah got her lunch she went and sat at her old table. so i said " hey, sarah why aren't you sitting by us? she said in a attitude idk i just don't want to sit by you guys. so i assumed maybe she was mad at one of us . i said SORRY I ASKED! she said what did i do wrong .? i was so mad right then! so i turned around and started talking to my other friends. then in an attitude she said don't flip your hair at me! i was about to scream. ! i was so confuused and mad. is she mad or not? Please help
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i dont think she's mad but you should ask her and make sure everythin is alrite.
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I have many friends that live in Belleville, Illinois. They all miss me when I am in St. Louis, Missouri. I go to Belleville with my best friends father and all of us are really close. I go there maybe 1 to 2 days every week. Maybe every other week. Should I leave my friendships behind over in Belleville? I hate missing them so much and I have went out with a couple of them. And of course I still have major feelings for a few of them. I want to forget the past and go on with the future. Hard part is that I dont know if I want all of them in my future.Can you help? (link)
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you shouldnt try to 4 get bout the futeur. dats one of the best times you will have in your life espelly if you went out wit sum of them and made friends there. even though you miss them a lot you shouldnt push them aside. i'm sure you are lucky 2 have them like they are lucky to have you. i hope i helped!
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Hi.
Well, my friends have all fallen out and I'm finding it really difficult to not take sides. Friend A said something nasty about friend B and friend C took friend B's side. This means that A is mad at C because she didn't take her side.
However, the nasty thing that A said was, in my opinion justified...
No-one is A's friend and I try and stick up for her because I don't think it's fair that B and C just slag her off behind her back all the time, but that makes them hate me. I want to take A's side even more when they do that. Plus friend B is SO annoying and is always doing weird stuff like humping us (seriously...everyone thinks we're lesbians or something) and messing up our hair and all this crap. So I should take friend A's side, right? Wrong. Friend A has said some really mean stuff over the years, none directed at me but I can't deny that it makes me wonder what she's thinking about ME. All their arguing is driving me crazy and I have to do something, and I don't want to take sides but it feels like I'm being forced to - B and C are horrible to me every time I talk to A. What can I do? (link)
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you could try 2 make all your friends together again. all of u should sit down and talk bout all da negative things about each other that ya dont like and work it out. but if you dont really like what they are doing tell them an d tell if they dont stop fghting your not gonna be friends with them no more.i hope i helped!
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On Wednesday in school I asked my friend if she wanted to go to the movies afterschool on Thursday. She said she'd go home and ask her mom, yada yada. Well, on Thursday she didn't know if she could go for sure, so she told me to call her when I got home. When I got home, I called her and she couldn't go because she said 'her mom was going to a party'. Well, later that night..thanks to her other friends away messages, I found out she was at her other friends house. I know for a fact this girl invited her over that very day, and I had invited her on wednesday. Wtf is her problem? Should I confront her about it, or what..cause that just pisses me off. And, she's ALWAYS doing stuff with this girl, she has no freaking time for anyone else. (link)
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you could tell her how you feel. and tell her that if she's really your friend she will have time 4 u 2 and wouldn't lie 2 her. if she countines 2 lie 2 u and ignore you i dont think she's really your friend. another thing you could do is ignore her 4 about a week or 2 and see if she cares. if she notices tell her that's how she makes you feel (mad). and if she doesn't notice then she isn't your friend. i hope i helped!
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My 'friend' is ruining my life!!!!!!! She talks crap on me and ALL of my other good friends all the time! She spreads rumors that arent true! She is a SLUT and she is pround of it! You just can't stop her she is like this bug you just can't kill and I don't know what to do! What can I do to make her stop doing this?!?! She has new friends now, and I know she is going to ruin their lives as well. I dont want them going through the pain I went through because of her. THey say they don't like her at all, but they still are nice to her and hang around her. I know if they keep making her think that they are freinds that she will go around and screw them over jsut like she did to me and my other good friend. What can I say/do to make it stop before it happens? Thanks! I RATE HIGH! :) (link)
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sounds 2 me that she isn't your friend. it sounds like she's using. maybe you can get ALL her friends to stop talking 2 her 4 like a weeek. then the next week get all her friends together and let them tell her why they aren't talking to her. or make her feel the way she made you feel. i hope i helped!
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My friend JD and I just got into n argument the other day. We have been doing that a lot lately. He has been coming to me and a couple of my friends with his problems, and we have told him what we feel what he should do, but when we go up to him with problems, he he just says sorry, i hope you feel better.He is there for us, but that didnt feel good enough. Well, ever since Ive started to like his brother, he hasnt been supporting me. They get along sometims, but they pretty much hate each other, and he says that if I go out with him, Ill ruin my life. I have supported him with pretty much everything that hes done except for once that can remember. I dont know what to do, and he has been too good of a friend to get rid of, or so I thought, I guess. I just want ot know how I should deal with us hardly not talking anymore and not worry about it because of my other friends. But if I go out with his brother, its going to be hard to avoid him and shit. But thats not the whole story, thats just where its the problem between me and him and a couple of other people. If anyone wants to know the full story, drop it by me in my inbox. Thanx! I rate good. (link)
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you could tell me the whole story. but dis is wat i think: you should tell him dat he hasn't been a good friend lately. and tell him dat if he is your friend he will support u likin he's brother. i hope i helped!
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well this guy I have been good freinds with for a long time. And I like him, and a while back he liked me too. But that;s been put on hold because he's going out with this other girl... anyway, lately he has been walking away when I talk to him and it seems like he's pretending I'm not there, or he justdoesn't want me there. it hurts because I really like him and I miss the friends thing. What should I do? (link)
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ask him why he doesn't want to be around you no more. tell him it hurts your feelings that he's ignoring you. may be he's acting like this because he nos you like him. but you should talk 2 him. i hope i helped. please dont rate low! lol
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I have this one friend named Jenna and she is SO sweet but about a month ago, she totally started hanging out with some other people. She still claims to be my friend, but I feel like she has just ditched me. So I told Jenna how I felt and she said she just has a hard time juggling friendships, but it seems like she has ALL the time in the world for her 2 new friends. So what can I do to help Jenna see the light or snap out of what she is doing? Would the silent treatment help at all? (link)
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try the slient treatment for about a week. if she doesn't realize it then tell her what you did ( you gave her the slient treatment but she didn't care). then tell her dat she changed and your happy for her that she has new friends but she should have time for other friends too. MAKE her relize that you dont like what she is doing
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My boyfriend treats me more like a friend. He says he loves me but he won't hold hands with me or kiss me or touch me at all. I know not everyone likes that stuff, but I just feel like I'm doing something wrong. I'm embarassed to talk about it. What should I say? Do you think I might offend him? (link)
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i think u shold tell him how u feel. he shouldn't take it personally. i hope i helped!
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my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do??? (link)
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tell her 2 stop dat wat she's doin isn't rite. and if she doesn't stop tell her if she contiunes your not gonna b her friend no more. i hope i helped. please rate!
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Ok, so i have this problem. I always dress in black or dark colors and i've been doin this all my life. Some of my friends are starting to get pissed that i'm always dark. they're embarrassed when we go out in public just because of me. They yelled at me but i just told them to piss off. this can become a problem. Should i just keep telling them to shut the hell up and put up with it or try to deal it out with them?
advice is nice...
i don't care if it sucks like hell, just give me advice... (link)
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i dont you should listen 2 them cause if u do your changin yourself. you shouldn't change yourself 2 please sum 1 .hoped i helped! please rate
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OK...my best friend EVER is moving to Australia, the total other side of the world!! :'(
I want to give her a really great, unique send off. She is leaving in three weeks, and I want to get her a great present and throw a great party she'll always remember!! I don't want to burn a CD because she does loads of those herself, and I don't want an ordinary boring party. Anyone got any great ideas for a really unique send-off? (link)
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have a suprise party 4 her. MAKE EVERY 1 BRING PRESENTS! lol. have a theme 4 da party.you could also get tickets to one of her favorite artist concerts. hoped i helped! and i'm sure everthin will go rite.
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ok so i have one of my two best friends birthdays is coming up this week and i want to give her i mix of song lyrics that make up a poem form all her favorite songs and i know ive seen theese before i just forget how to get them. Please help me in anyway you can because it will be her last birthday with me because we are going to different high schools and we've decided that it'll just be too difficult to stay in contact so i really wanna make this on count!
PS illrate 5s (link)
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go 2 a music store and ask dem which section u can get it or download it from your computer hoped i helped!
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the guy i like with all my heart is mad at me and i dont noe why. i tryed talking to him but all i got was him cussing me out. then i tryed calling and trying to find out what i did wrong and all i got was him telling me not to be stupid and that i noe what i did when i have no idea what i did. i dont noe what to do?? i am sad bc i really like this guy and this is what i get. i have known him for a year now. plz help ?????? (link)
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get a friend dat is his friend 2 and ask da person 2 ask him why he's mad at u.
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ok my friend is like really selfish. and she is REALLY clingy. when she gives an example about something like a good singer she uses herself, and when i say like "or me" she says "o my god! just becaus i said im a good singer doesnt mean you have to turn it around on yourself!" i know im a way better singer than her. and she ALWAYS calls me a fat ass. she also always brags about how skinny she is by saying "o my god look how fat i am in my gym suit!" and i give her a really mean look and tell her to shut her mouth and stop bragging and she always laughs like im kidding and i tell her im not and she says "o my god! just because i think im fat doesnt mean you have to say im bragging!" she exercises soooooooo much!please help i dont wanna kill our frendship (link)
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you should tell her all da things you just wrote. and try 2 work things out. come 2 a compromice
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i have this friend thats not very cool and no one really knows her...but she cuts herself..she showed me today and i started wondering why she would do that...i told my friend about it cause were in office aid together and she was feeling bad for her..she also smokes pot...do u think i should still be friends with her or not? (link)
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you should look behide all the cuts and smoking pot and see if you like her personality. Do u like it? if you do be friends wit her. if u dont tell her you dont wanna be her friend nomore. but not because she cuts herself and smokes pot
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